DH doesn’t feel like it!! Lol

CrazyCass wrote: Gosh NeoshasMummy - thats ALOT of work time, and not much you time!

LOL he's a car salesman it's always been that way so I have adapted ... slowly. He DJ's at night...... that's the part that gets to me

Glad that things worked out for you Tiggeriffic1


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I recommend pacing yourself.

I hope you get pg really quickly but its likely it will take a few months at least. In my journey for ttc#1 I got pg five times (miscarried 4 x) and most of those times we only BD once or twice around my fertile time. A lot of the time if you don't get up the duff its because the egg wasn't up to scratch and it doesn't matter how much sperm you shower on it, it won't make any difference.

I think guys often feel pressured to perform and I know my DH got really stressed and turned off by knowing he had to ejaculate or else miss another chance for a baby.

I found the longer you ttc the harder it is to keep things fun and lusty (we ttc'd for almost two and a half years). We dealt with it by making sure we had fun, non-pressured sex at non-fertile times of the month.

Good luck!!