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TraceyA 
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Posted: 08 July 2008 at 8:39am |
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I just want to yell a few things at the world right now:
DON'T TELL ME:
- it will happen
- when it's the right time
- when your ready
- when your in the right place
- to concentrate on other things
- to JUST RELAX
- to think about other things
- to stop obsessing
- that when you did XYZ it happened
- women get pregnant all the time
- about another pregnant person you/I know
- it takes time
DON'T GET MY HOPES UP
- I'm allowed to feed my obsession but your not allowed to
- or tell me "you told me so"
- or tell me that I got yours up this time
If you would like to add your own scream please do, please DO NOT reply with hugs and encouragement and words of wisdom, this is a screaming space, sometimes we all just need to vent without words of wisdom from others. And please, if you read this don't take it personally, this is aimed at the general cosmos and not at wonderful individuals.
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AngieBabe
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Posted: 08 July 2008 at 9:01am |
AAAAAAAAAAAAARGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHH!
Just wanted to add a general scream as all I want to say comes out all at once a garbled mess! 
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Posted: 08 July 2008 at 9:24am |
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UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Don't tell me it'll happen when it's meant to happen. I will poke out your eyes.
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NeoshasMummy
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Posted: 08 July 2008 at 10:36am |
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-It will happen when you least expect it
-At least you have one baby
WTF??!!!!!!
ARRRGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH
I feel better now
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Emmecat
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Posted: 08 July 2008 at 12:48pm |
AAARRRRGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
I don't care if it'll happen when I 'least expect it'!!! I want it to happen NOW!!!!!
and
HOW F*&%^$ HARD IS IT???? THERE'S ONLY ONE BLOODY WAY FOR THE LITTLE GUYS TO GO!!!!!
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
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caitlynsmygirl
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Posted: 08 July 2008 at 12:56pm |
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Why dont you wait a bit longer ? if it doesnt happen right away , its ok .....
wait longer ???? ive been waiting for 6years !!!
why dont people , with their well meaning advice, walk in other peoples shoes?or just shutup ?
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Posted: 08 July 2008 at 12:57pm |
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Here here!!
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caitlynsmygirl
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Posted: 08 July 2008 at 12:57pm |
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oh and like Neoshas mum " at least you have one baby "
um,yeah , and i would like another, does that make me a criminal ??
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NeoshasMummy
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Posted: 08 July 2008 at 1:05pm |
Oh what about the
" Hi how are you? Has it happened yet?"
No not yet
A week later....
"hey!!! Any sign of a the next one yet?"
No not quite
" Oh never mind"
A few weeks later
" Gee its taking its time isnt it, well it will happen when the time is right"
yes an I am mentally gauging your eyes out
After a M/c
"Oh well it just wasnt ment to be"
Alright SOMEBODY hold me back!!!!
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mummymegs
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Posted: 08 July 2008 at 4:49pm |
I'm starting to think that it is a myth that you need to BD to get PG. Somebody is having a laugh!!! ok...what are the pg girls not telling us. 
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Two Blondinis
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Posted: 08 July 2008 at 5:12pm |
you know what the problem is.... MEN! Want anything done, do it yourself
If women could get pregnant all on their own (without test tubes and turkey basters lol) then the world would be bursting at the seams.
Thought I would add a light heart rant 
I feel your pain ladies, been there done that and stupidly enough about to put myself through it all over again (and I can't wait!!!!!!!!!  )
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Posted: 08 July 2008 at 6:04pm |
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Here goes;
While ttc
have you thought about taking your temperature?
My sister went on holiday to fiji and got pregnant
Maybe you should stop trying so hard
Maybe you should try harder
I really thought it would have happened by now, have you thought about seeing a specialist?
After m/c #1
At least you can get pregnant
Things could be worse, I know someone who's dying of ovarian cancer
You won't get pregnant the first month after a m/c, I didn't and I'm superfertile
After m/c #2
This is just a hiccup
You must be disappointed
F**********************************************k !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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mummyofprinces
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Posted: 08 July 2008 at 6:38pm |
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My favs:
At least you know you can get pregnant
Your only 28, you've got plenty of time (to which I now reply, tell that to my mum who start going through menopause at 31!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
Everything happens for a reason
I think you should see a Gynie
Well even if you are sad you must pretend to be happy (WTF)
ARRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Why wont you all just shut up and mind your own business!
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Posted: 08 July 2008 at 6:51pm |
Great idea Tracey!
Along the same lines as someone else said - how's 'it' going? Well I'd bl**dy well tell you if it was going somewhere!
And I'm so over the 'It'll happen when its meant to happen'. Yeah, well its meant to happen now!!
It'll take longer than you expect - no freaking kidding!!!
Don't think about it and it'll happen - yeah, cause I can just do that!
and also pretty much everything everyone else said!!
Thanks Tracey 
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Posted: 09 July 2008 at 4:46pm |
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Say to yourself everyday " l deserve to be happy" - WTF!!!!!!!!
Everytime, l have a headache, feel sick, sneeze, fart etc ,"are you pregnant?" NO l'm F@#$*ng NOT!!!
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mummyofprinces
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Posted: 09 July 2008 at 7:02pm |
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OH and the your not drinking, are you pregnant?
Umm no, I just dont feel like booze today....
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Posted: 09 July 2008 at 10:54pm |
how about " your lucky anyway , why anyone would want to be pregnant is beyond me , i was sick as a dog, and my back was killing me .....johnny ! dont put the cat in the fire ! ...why do you want kids anyway ?"
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Posted: 11 July 2008 at 6:18pm |
My favourite:
From someone who started trying about the same time as me but got her BFP about 4 months ago ... right after she got her BFP and I'd just been told by my doctor that I had to try for another 12 months before I could see a specialist:
"Just hold on it will happen for you one day I know it will. I don't know if you're religious or not but I beleive God has a plan for us all and you will get pg when He wants you to"
Leaving out the religious part 'cause I'd hate to start a theological argument ... I just wanted to smack the smug cow around the head
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Nov 08: 2nd lap clear - given OK to TTC after next AF
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Posted: 11 July 2008 at 6:21pm |
Oh and I'm with you Mel on the not drinking thing. work had arranged a girls night out last week after work (well starting at 4:30 ) and when I said I wasn't going I had TWO people ask if I was knocked up. No I'm working late, I'm on anti-biotics and I have AF so I'm about to start taking some pretty cool painkillers so DO NOT ASK ME IF I'm $%%&^$&^* PREGNANT!!!
But I no longer have AF so I'm mostly down to just annoyed now 
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Aug 08: Lap found and excised Stage 3 Endo
Nov 08: 2nd lap clear - given OK to TTC after next AF
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Posted: 11 July 2008 at 6:44pm |
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oh but its only been 7 months and you look after 2 beautiful children all day ----> 7 months can seem like a long time and i love them with all my heart but they arent MY kids!!!!
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