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Shezzey
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Topic: Starting IVF Monday 26th Jan 09 Posted: 24 January 2009 at 1:28pm |
Well, finally, after two years of testing, waiting, etc I managed to get onto government funded IVF.
I am 40 years old and having been trying for the last 16 years to fall pregnant naturally!
Monday I will start on Buserelin injections and am a bit anxious bout the injections and the side effects.
Is there anyone else starting at the same time as me or have any tips or advice to help me?
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Posted: 24 January 2009 at 1:34pm |
Sorry, I don't have any tips or advice but I just wanted to say a huge good luck!!!!
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Posted: 24 January 2009 at 1:41pm |
Hi Shezhoping, I did a cycle of ICSI IVF in October 2006, and I now have a beautiful 17 month old Daughter. Everyone copes differently with the cycles and side effects. I was one of the lucky ones that had basically no side effects whatsoever, except for the odd hot flush. I found that keeping busy and having nice things planned (especially in the two week wait after embryo transfer) is a good idea. I worked through which kept me busy (had a day off after egg collection). The best hint I got for the injections was to grab a big bit of flesh in one hand tightly, and put the needle in slowly and firmly - do not stab the needle in - this worked well for me.
Best of luck with your cycle, I am sure things will go well.
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Posted: 24 January 2009 at 1:41pm |
Hi there Shezhoping, just thought I would drop you quick note and wish you all the best for your upcoming IVF.
I am just about at the end of our first cycle of IVF, egg collection is Sunday, eek! And there are a few of us going through it at the moment on the Coping with Infertility Forum, so feel free to pop over and join us there.
Re the injections, they are not too bad once your've done your first, it seems so scary to start with but once your've done one, you'll be away laughing! I didn't really have any side affects apart from tiredness with the injections and I don't remember reading that anybody else had any horrible side affects either so hopefully that will apply to you too.
Anyway best of luck to you, hope it all goes well. Feel free to ask any questions and I will try and answer as best as possible.
Take care.
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Posted: 24 January 2009 at 2:22pm |
Thanks for the Good Luck wishes
Lulu - great tips and well done on having baba.
ScaredyCat - i will hop onto your forum after this and will be thinking of you tomorro, I didn't know that egg collection could happen on a weekend.
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Posted: 24 January 2009 at 4:38pm |
Good luck Shezhoping!! Let us know how you go
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Posted: 24 January 2009 at 8:08pm |
Good luck Shezhoping!!!
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Posted: 26 January 2009 at 11:45am |
Hi Shezhoping
We are starting ICSI shortly, I am waiting for my period to show up (will be any day) to start the pill. Its then 2-4 weeks till injections. I am 38 yrs and we have been trying for a year. We don't qualify for public funding though. Its been a shock that ICSI is the only option and I am a bit anxious about IVF too.
Sounds like good advice from Lulu.
I'd love to hear how your egg collection went ScaredyCat
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Posted: 26 January 2009 at 12:04pm |
p.s shezhoping, how did your first injection go?
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Posted: 26 January 2009 at 12:43pm |
I had my first injection at 9.15 this morning. My nurse was right, she said if you pluck your eyebrows it is the same pain! It was just getting over the mental hurdle that was the difficult bit. I felt really proud after that, lol.
Shopa - if you dont mind me asking, how come you don't qualify for public funding? Also, I will keep updating this forum so that you have an idea of what happens along the way.
I had a look at ScaredyCat's forum and she said they had collected 11 eggs... well done
Thank you for all the good luck wishes.
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Posted: 26 January 2009 at 2:53pm |
Sorry no words of wisdom but just lots of positive thoughts hope your journey is a swift one.
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Posted: 26 January 2009 at 6:23pm |
Glad to hear you are coping with your injections Shezhoping, its really not too bad once your under way, is it, it is definitely a mind game!! When is your first blood test due?
And I know I wasn't expecting my EC to fall on a weekend, let alone a public holiday, but I guess they have gotta come out when they are ready!!
So I had EC yesterday which all I can say is I'm glad its over, the worse thing about it is the unknown but its really not too bad. I know this is really hard but try not to think too much, which was my biggest problem, overthinking the whole process!!! And the nurses and doctors are brilliant and it was all over in about 5-10 mins.
They managed to collect 12 but only 11 were eggs and 9 were fertilised over night. And all going well we are booked in Wednesday for transfer back in.
Good luck to both you and Shopa, I hope everything goes well for you guys. I'll pop in here from time to time and give you an update.
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Posted: 27 January 2009 at 9:08am |
Wow ScaredyCat 9 fertilised eggs... please let me know how the transfer goes.
My blood test is due on 9 February if I recall, I am at work so cannot check my home calendar lol.
I am off to do my injection now.
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Posted: 27 January 2009 at 9:19pm |
ScaredyCat that is great! congratulations I would be thrilled with that!
Really good to hear the injections are not so bad Shezhoping.
I am waiting for my period which is late. The nurse today said if it doesn't arrive by next monday they will arrange a blood test. I said the Dr told us there was little chance we would conceive naturally... but she said they can tell when it might show up from the hormones ect. I am likely to be on the pill for arund 3 weeks b4 injections. I am alternating between excitedness and anxiety. At least now I have some real hope.
Shezhoping, my hubby had a vasectomy and a reversal last Jan but has antibodies. The fact that he has had a voluntary reversal takes our points way down so we cannot qualify :(
Best of luck to you ScaredyCat and Shezhoping.
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Posted: 28 January 2009 at 10:38am |
Shopa.. you are patient to wait til next Monday. I would have bought a home pregnancy test already, lol. I can relate to the emotions you are going through. I have even had random thoughts of "maybe I am not ready yet" - even though I have been yearning to have a baby for years - crazy?
My partner has low motility and abnormal sperm and doctor advised to get a vitamin called menvit to increase sperm health and production, so gonna look for it at the chemist.
Shopa best of luck to you too, please keep posting your progress 
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Posted: 28 January 2009 at 5:08pm |
Well had the transfer today and that was a breeze, so all good there!!
I had an eight cell, grade 5 transferred (not that I know what that means really!!) but they seemed to be really happy with it, so so am I! And have four others frozen today, plus maybe three more tomorrow if they keep developing correctly.
So now I have the dreaded two week wait, not going to be easy but will try and keep busy with work and trying to relax and take it easy.
I can totally relate to your feelings Shezhoping of "am I ready for this", I had a major bout of that just before I started the IVF journey and like you we have been trying for years too, I think it may have had something to do with nerves and not wanting to go through the IVF process, but once started it was ok and really its not that bad, would do it again tomorrow if had too!
So I have my fingers crossed for you ladies, I hope your journey is a successful one! Take care and good luck!
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Posted: 28 January 2009 at 7:57pm |
Fingers crossed that you get a BFP ScaredyCat. I hope the next two weeks goes really quickly for you.
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Posted: 28 January 2009 at 9:00pm |
Thanks gannet, me too!
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Posted: 29 January 2009 at 8:49am |
Well done with the transfer and I will be holding thumbs for you Scaredycat 
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Posted: 29 January 2009 at 8:19pm |
All the best ScaredyCat.
I am not so patient probably just a bit despondent, an dreading another test. I have waited so long to start trying for children and every month last year was so difficult when I got my period or BFN's. Also after monitoring my cycle last month I was unsure if I ovulated or if so then it was late into my cycle so am not surprised it is late. And I have no symptoms at all. Still I did get a test pack yesterday and was going to do in the morning but then woke up around 4am with cramps and was so certain I was getting AF I took a neurophen and went back to sleep. But nothing today at all..I really would like to just get on with the IVF now.
Wit the menevit I don't think you can get it in the pharmacy but the Fertility Associates can write a prescription for your hubby. It is about $90 for a 3 month supply. They get it from Aussie. It is susposed to be very good. The nurse said some of the main ingredients zinc and selenium would also be good for my hubby to take. He has been on multi's, zinc, folic, vit e and anti-oxidents for the last month. They say though that it takes 3 months to make sperm and if he was to start menvit now it would not likely be useful for when the sample would be needed. Also not sure it as helpful for my hubby.
Stay positive and best of luck to everyone out there
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