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Posted: 20 September 2010 at 1:05pm |
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Has anyone else had this problem? Lol all in good humor, but we've been bd-ing so much over the last few days in the hope that I ovulated, now I have yesterday and today according to opk and we both so just want a break, it's our second month of ttc but it's rather important to get utd now as my job finishes in June so we'd like to give it a really good shot... Aww man really can't be bothered tonight!
Has anyone else felt like this? Lol
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Posted: 20 September 2010 at 1:08pm |
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And if yes what did you do to inspire yourselves?! Haha
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Posted: 20 September 2010 at 1:24pm |
Often felt like that. Mainly it was me rather then him. To tell absolute truth watching a dirty movie often helped 
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Posted: 20 September 2010 at 1:37pm |
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I often find if I spend the day thinking about it I'm ready to jump DP's bones as soon as I get home.
So maybe, just spend the day remembering that day when you were ...... and he did ....... and how you....... pretty much thinking about all the extra fab times. Also I find if I'm quite tired then I will make sure BDing happens before bedtime, as by that stage I just want to go to sleep (although do make sure you turn the stove off otherwise dinner does get a tad overdone).
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Tiggeriffic1
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Posted: 20 September 2010 at 1:38pm |
Hehe I suggested that to him earlier but that didn't even get much of a reaction!! Poor dh 
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Posted: 20 September 2010 at 1:39pm |
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Good idea thanks didi will pass that good bit of info along too...
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Posted: 20 September 2010 at 2:05pm |
Me and DH have 18 years difference between us, its usually him that can't be bothered ( i'm a tiger in the bed room, haha) We found dirty movies helped us aye. 
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Posted: 20 September 2010 at 2:22pm |
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Cool thanks guys, looks like I will be stopping at the video store on the way home! :p
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Posted: 20 September 2010 at 2:42pm |
Have you tried dress up?it always works when i'm in the mood & DF isnt
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Posted: 20 September 2010 at 2:57pm |
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OMG I'm glad I'm not the only one who has this problem lol.
My DH is 11yrs older than me so I'm like emma in that respect. He can definately take a bit more encouraging.
To be honest until recently he hasn't really been on the ttc wagon as much as me so if he's not keen it just doesn't happen (which is also why i'm not pregnant I'd imagine!!) so probably can't help with suggestions. The ones above sound rather good ...might have to give them a try lol.
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Posted: 20 September 2010 at 3:06pm |
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Posted: 20 September 2010 at 3:10pm |
Have some bubbles and maby a bath together? Bubbles always gets me in the mood and will help to relax you too ;-) I also used to have a shower and go into the lounge where he was watching tv and put moistriser on my legs got his attention very quickly lol
Good Luck!!!
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Posted: 20 September 2010 at 3:26pm |
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Posted: 20 September 2010 at 3:28pm |
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Oh awesome you guys are great, it's nice to know we aren't the only ones! :) I think it's partly the whole thing of planning it whereas before ttc it was just whenever :) we both have the very similar sex drives, I am 27 and he's 30 so age isn't too much if a problem tg!
Good idea or me reading a romance I love romances so that's a very good idea! A bath together is a nice idea too :)
Thanks heaps guys, if we get utd this month it's all owing to you guys!! Haha
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Posted: 21 September 2010 at 8:08am |
hope you find some resolve, I might steal some of these ideas too... DF is 32 i'm 21 plus he works 6 days and 2 nights a week so getting his attention can be difficult. I often find that giving him wine works
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Posted: 21 September 2010 at 11:51am |
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Gosh NeoshasMummy - thats ALOT of work time, and not much you time!
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Posted: 21 September 2010 at 12:23pm |
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I can definitely agree with all the things said above. I know that my DH feels like I only want to do it when it's 'the right time' and he feels under pressure. Also (sorry TMI) I like to use lube (semen-friendly of course) and he find that actually makes things more difficult so that can be a sticking (lol) point too. We've just cut down the amount though and that has helped. Haven't tried the dirty movies yet though - maybe if TTC goes on much longer, we'll be heading in that direction.
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Posted: 21 September 2010 at 12:55pm |
Maybe try first thing in the morning...??? That works for us, plus the 'swimmers' are stronger in the morning apparently..... 
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Posted: 21 September 2010 at 1:06pm |
I've also heard that he should only *ahem* ejaculate every couple of days so that is more 'concentrated'????
May as well start the day with a bang huh
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Posted: 21 September 2010 at 1:42pm |
Haha lol it went well last night, thanks guys :) we went with the dirty porno and put a blanket in front of the fire :)
Glad this topic can help some of the other fellow babes out there!
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DH doesn’t feel like it!! Lol
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