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Points: 1048 		Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote KitKat Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 14 May 2009 at 5:39pm
She doesnt sound like someone Id want to invest my friendship in Im afraid.... how dare she.

Friends just dont treat each other like that... IMO. She has issues by the sound of it.

Stay strong, youve done nothing wrong from what I can see.


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Wow Daizy I really feel for you. That's a terrible thing for a friend to say to you. At the end of the day it's all our own personal choice about what we eat while we're pregnant. I didn't eat chicken earlier on in my pregnancy when I was out but have definitely relaxed that now and that's just because I felt ultra-paranoid being my first pregnancy.

There are still some things I don't eat now and again it's my choice and I know other pregnant women who will eat what I don't but I don't judge them.   

As others have said you just said what you personally did and weren't telling your friend what to do. At the end of the day it's up to her to make an informed decision about what not to eat and no one has the right to criticise.

Hope you eventually get an apology from your friend!
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Points: 2434 		Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote kiwisj Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 14 May 2009 at 5:59pm
Jeepers! What an overreaction! Poor you Daizy, that's no way for a friend to speak to you

Of my closest circle of friends here 3 of us have had babies in the past 6 months. And all of us cut different things from our diets and we all talked about it and NONE of us judged each other for what we chose to eat. In fact, sometimes it was really nice when I was out at a restaurant to hear someone (who'd been in the same situation) say, "it's OK, I ate XXX" with the implication being relax a little and don't feel guilty for enjoying your food!

What a horrible horrible thing to say though, that it would've been your fault if something had happened. And not nice for your only-just-pregnant friend to hear all that either .. what's the bet she's second guessing what she's been eating now too
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Major overreaction! Can't believe she had been taking notes on what you ate while pregnant! It's none of her business!
    
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Geez

Thats a very nasty thing to say to someone!! Even with my preggy hormones i would never speak to a friend that way.

Its none of her business what you eat or dont eat during pregnancy, if she is anal about every bit of food she puts in her mouth then thats her problem! She would really hate me then!! Ive eaten lots of stuff "your not supposed to eat". if its freshly cooked, or freshly prepared then I dont see the problem!

She needs to pull her head in and keep her opinions to her self, thats not the right way for a friend to act!

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