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fattartsrock 
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:33am |
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CLAIRE, YOU OWE EVERYONE AN APOLOGY AND/OR AN EXPLANATION AT THE VERY VERY LEAST.
My best friend had a full term stillborn baby and it is NOT EVER EVER alright to make up lies about that sort of thing. How heartless and cruel.
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Shezamumof3
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:40am |
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Yes my mothers bestfriend had a full tern still born aswell and its NOT something you joke about!
Also alot of us ladies(including myself) HAVE had miscarriages and this sort of thing upsets us, we were all upset for you and now Im angry and hurt that it was all a lie. Im disgusted.
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:44am |
This forum is place for support and friendship and I really value it.
For those who do abuse it, its quite unbelievable, for those who don't I am constantly grateful for all the advice, care, support and kindness you all provide.
Today reading the posts about claire has left a very odd taste in my mouth - not nice.
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:51am |
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i agree with whats been said, but shouldnt we also in a weird way still try and support Claire?
what she did was disgusting and incredibly hhurtful to many people, but there is also the possibility it was a cry for help from a very sick young woman?
IMHO We dont want to turn this whole thing in to a witch hunt
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:56am |
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MyBelly you said what I have been thinking perfectly... I almost feel sorry for her reading through all this stuff - only a person with real problems would start this charade, and from what 06baby is saying she has some issues...
Maybe we need to know the story, or get over it... I know that people feel really betrayed and so do I, but there is obviously something wrong...
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:01am |
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Yeah I agree... it's not right that she made it up but she obviously has issues. I don't think that on here is the best way to support her (I think she needs to step right away from ohbaby and deal with it) but she does need some professional help.
Doesn't stop me from being totally weirded out by the situation, and I'm finding myself reading people's posts and wondering if they are actually who they say they are! I mean of course I know anyone can assume any identity on the internet and make up stories etc, but I guess I just hadn't thought about it too much on here...
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:07am |
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i agree completely with all of you guys that she is sick and needs support from the right people and i'm hoping its more a case of that than that she is just an evil person. If it weren't for the fact that her family was carrying on the farce, telling people that she really was pregnant a couple of weeks ago when we know that she wasnt and basically telling lies - she would have almost nothing but sympathy. But for them to make out that my brother has left her under those circumstances absolutely makes my blood boil - and i'm sure its not all just pregnancy hormones!
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:14am |
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I think its shocking how anyone can make up such a thing! has she not heard of Karma or the boy that cried wolf!
she does need help!
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:17am |
 arohanui wrote:
, and I'm finding myself reading people's posts and wondering if they are actually who they say they are! I mean of course I know anyone can assume any identity on the internet
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lol totally true, im really cameron diaz in disguise 
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:26am |
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i can't believe it, it really is shocking.
There has to be real probs going on in her head and i really hope she talks to someone and gets help.
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:31am |
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I think she needs help, but I don't think here is the place. People on here have had stillborn babies/miscarriages and I don't think that they, or anyone else, should have to deal with someone that is quite frankly a bit f***ed in the head. Sorry if that's a bit off with some people, but I've just had a friend give birth to twin boys, one of which DID actually die at 2 weeks old of SIDS.
Sick, sick, sick
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:40am |
Definitely agree here is not the place Emz. I'm sorry for what your friend went through, this must have been so close to home for you 
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:41am |
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OH I missed the whole thing, can some one tell me which thread was this??
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:43am |
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The main thread has been deleted Roksana,..but stuff in the due in March thread also.
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:51am |
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 1:16pm |
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I agree, I think Claire does need serious help and support, but I also agree that here is not the appropriate place. I would hope that her family would have the sense to get her some help, but from what 06Baby is saying that isn't the case, which is the saddest part of all coz she is such a young girl and obviously has some pretty serious issues.
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 1:16pm |
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Why are you giving her the satisfaction of your attention? It's exactly what she is looking for.
Yes I agree, she needs professional help, But I am not going to give her any satisfaction by acknowledging her on this forum.
I think we all just need to ignore her and be glad that 06Baby came on here and outed her.
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 1:17pm |
.Mel wrote:
Why are you giving her the satisfaction of your attention? It's exactly what she is looking for.
Yes I agree, she needs professional help, But I am not going to give her any satisfaction by acknowledging her on this forum.
I think we all just need to ignore her and be glad that 06Baby came on here and outed her. |
Exactly what I was about to post
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Posted: 07 April 2008 at 2:25pm |
i can't believe i actually shed tears for this woman. she obviously needs help, that is a seriously f**ked up thing to do!  
that's all i will say on the matter...no more of my time will be spent on her
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