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Topic: SHE has logged in today
Posted By: fattartsrock
Subject: SHE has logged in today
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:33am
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CLAIRE, YOU OWE EVERYONE AN APOLOGY AND/OR AN EXPLANATION AT THE VERY VERY LEAST.
My best friend had a full term stillborn baby and it is NOT EVER EVER alright to make up lies about that sort of thing. How heartless and cruel. ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:40am
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Yes my mothers bestfriend had a full tern still born aswell and its NOT something you joke about!
Also alot of us ladies(including myself) HAVE had miscarriages and this sort of thing upsets us, we were all upset for you and now Im angry and hurt that it was all a lie. Im disgusted. ------------- |
Posted By: FionaO
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:44am
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This forum is place for support and friendship and I really value it. For those who do abuse it, its quite unbelievable, for those who don't I am constantly grateful for all the advice, care, support and kindness you all provide. Today reading the posts about claire has left a very odd taste in my mouth - not nice. ------------- 
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Posted By: MyBelly
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:51am
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i agree with whats been said, but shouldnt we also in a weird way still try and support Claire?
what she did was disgusting and incredibly hhurtful to many people, but there is also the possibility it was a cry for help from a very sick young woman? IMHO We dont want to turn this whole thing in to a witch hunt |
Posted By: Bel
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:56am
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MyBelly you said what I have been thinking perfectly... I almost feel sorry for her reading through all this stuff - only a person with real problems would start this charade, and from what 06baby is saying she has some issues...
Maybe we need to know the story, or get over it... I know that people feel really betrayed and so do I, but there is obviously something wrong... ------------- Mum to two beautiful kids 
Luke (09.11.2007) Amy (01.04.2009) |
Posted By: arohanui
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:01am
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Yeah I agree... it's not right that she made it up but she obviously has issues. I don't think that on here is the best way to support her (I think she needs to step right away from ohbaby and deal with it) but she does need some professional help.
Doesn't stop me from being totally weirded out by the situation, and I'm finding myself reading people's posts and wondering if they are actually who they say they are! I mean of course I know anyone can assume any identity on the internet and make up stories etc, but I guess I just hadn't thought about it too much on here... edited for typos ------------- Mama to DS1 (5 years), DS2 (3 years) and... http://alterna-tickers.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: 06baby
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:07am
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i agree completely with all of you guys that she is sick and needs support from the right people and i'm hoping its more a case of that than that she is just an evil person. If it weren't for the fact that her family was carrying on the farce, telling people that she really was pregnant a couple of weeks ago when we know that she wasnt and basically telling lies - she would have almost nothing but sympathy. But for them to make out that my brother has left her under those circumstances absolutely makes my blood boil - and i'm sure its not all just pregnancy hormones! ------------- Siobhan - 27/01/06 And a little bundle due on 5/5/08 |
Posted By: tropics
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:14am
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I think its shocking how anyone can make up such a thing! has she not heard of Karma or the boy that cried wolf!
she does need help! ------------- http://lilypie.com">    [/url]
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Posted By: Candkids
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:17am
lol totally true, im really cameron diaz in disguise 
------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  DD 10.5yrs DS 6yrs DS 11mths 5 little angles watching from above |
arohanui wrote:Posted By: hooper
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:26am
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i can't believe it, it really is shocking.
There has to be real probs going on in her head and i really hope she talks to someone and gets help. ------------- Desiree 
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Posted By: emz
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:31am
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I think she needs help, but I don't think here is the place. People on here have had stillborn babies/miscarriages and I don't think that they, or anyone else, should have to deal with someone that is quite frankly a bit f***ed in the head. Sorry if that's a bit off with some people, but I've just had a friend give birth to twin boys, one of which DID actually die at 2 weeks old of SIDS.
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Posted By: arohanui
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:40am
Definitely agree here is not the place Emz. I'm sorry for what your friend went through, this must have been so close to home for you  ------------- Mama to DS1 (5 years), DS2 (3 years) and... http://alterna-tickers.com" rel="nofollow">
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:41am
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OH I missed the whole thing, can some one tell me which thread was this?? ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:43am
| The main thread has been deleted Roksana,..but stuff in the due in March thread also. |
Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:51am
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and the teenmum2b page 4 ------------- Mum to two amazing boys! |
Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 1:07pm
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 1:16pm
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I agree, I think Claire does need serious help and support, but I also agree that here is not the appropriate place. I would hope that her family would have the sense to get her some help, but from what 06Baby is saying that isn't the case, which is the saddest part of all coz she is such a young girl and obviously has some pretty serious issues.
------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
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The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 1:16pm
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Why are you giving her the satisfaction of your attention? It's exactly what she is looking for.
Yes I agree, she needs professional help, But I am not going to give her any satisfaction by acknowledging her on this forum. I think we all just need to ignore her and be glad that 06Baby came on here and outed her. ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3) 
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Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 1:17pm
Exactly what I was about to post ------------- 
 
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Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 2:25pm
i can't believe i actually shed tears for this woman. she obviously needs help, that is a seriously f**ked up thing to do! 
that's all i will say on the matter...no more of my time will be spent on her ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: pepsi
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 2:45pm
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I missed the whole thing too, but what I'm most interested in is how did everyone find out she was lying? Did she admit to it or something?
ETA: Never mind.. I see that she was dobbed in by the sister in law. Yikes, that's just...wow...
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Posted By: MelanieAndBree
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 2:59pm
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i missed this also. Shocking ------------- Melanie. Mum to Briahna Robyn, 3yrs |
Posted By: kebakat
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 3:05pm
| It's a sad thing to do but I've seen things like this (making stories up) happen on many forums/message boards. But really, why make such a huge song and dance over it when it's obvious attention is what they seak? I've thought about putting this up and then not, but really isnt the smartest thing to do is just ignore it and move on rather than fueling the attention |
Posted By: Jessica
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 4:03pm
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I agree with not giving it all too much attention but I really don't understand how someone could lie about something as big as that. It has really upset me, I lost my twin boys at 20 weeks, and I would not wish it on anyone. She must have some major issues to deal with, but like others I don't think here is the place ------------- 
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Posted By: kiwigal
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 5:03pm
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I had a still-born baby @ 31 weeks 11 years ago and it isn't something you make up or joke about |
Posted By: Two Blondinis
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 5:03pm
I'm not shocked - just very saddend that our lovely community has been taken advantage of again  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
 
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Posted By: yummymummy
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 6:33pm
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I wondered why her post was removed. What a low thing to do, I can not believe she'd made it all up ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: BellaBoo
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 7:12pm
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I think she has got what she came for and will move on to some other lovely forum to prey on and take advantage of the nice caring and supportive members. Everything that people have written is not giving her more attention but letting people get their anger off their chest. JMHO ------------- http://lilypie.com">   http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Candkids
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:58pm
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i already knew she was a immature lying little witch from personal experience.
im completly and utterly shocked that she did that tho. i just hope that the people she used to work with know or find out, as i know i wouldnt want my children being looked after by someone so mentaly unstable. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> DD 10.5yrs DS 6yrs DS 11mths 5 little angles watching from above |
Posted By: LittleBug
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:06pm
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Was she really just lying? Because I know there is a disorder where you can be convinced that you are pregnant, even when people tell you that you aren't (including when told by health professionals). It can start out as a lie but then you convince yourself that it's the truth and you actually believe it. I can't remember what the disorder is called though. It can get so extreme that your body can believe you are pregnant and you can get pregnancy symptoms and weight gain etc. Is there any chance she had this?
Either way, it's really sad. ------------- Chloe (4 years) and Oliver (3 years). |
Posted By: MrsMojo
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:19pm
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I was so upset for her when I read the post.
Later I showed it to DH (who may be a better judge of character than I am) and he told me he thought it was bollocks and if not then she is a very silly girl who put her *imaginary* babies in danger. At the time I thought he was being harsh but as it turns out he was absolutely right (about her being a silly girl). 06baby, I'm really sorry for what she has put you and your family through esp your brother.  -------------  
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Posted By: Bombshell
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:46pm
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as i said in the other thread i think this needs to end...can we please finish off these threads admin and lock them...
lets not give the little psycho anymore attention....Im sure people in rotorua will give her enough of that now they know who she is! |
Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 08 April 2008 at 10:28am
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Sorry BS but I don't agree with locking the threads. This woman hurt and deceived alot of people. They should be allowed to vent their frustrations. There needs to be an outlet for everyone.
If Admin feel that they need to lock the threads then so be it. JMHO.  ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3)
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 08 April 2008 at 12:46pm
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WOAH!!!! wtf??? she was lying about her twins? i've totally missed all this.....
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Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 08 April 2008 at 12:58pm
me too! That's what happens when I don't log in for a few days  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 08 April 2008 at 1:12pm
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I agree with Mel
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Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 08 April 2008 at 7:30pm
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WHOA I go away for a few days and come back to find exactly what i was thinking.
The whole thing about that claire girl just didn't seem right and when she posted about loosing them some time earlier in the preg, i thought "nah that doesn't add up, twin pregs are overly overly monitored, she'd have had a million scans, if she'd lost them, she'd have foiund out before now" freaky weird chick. I am angry that i felt so bad for reading her post in the life after loss area and thinking "that's got to be bollocks" and convincing myself that i was being horrible when really i was spot on in my intuitions. Hhhm, and people sometimes wonder why the ones that have been around on here for ages are a little wary sometimes of newbies (no offence, cos like 99% of you are a wonderful addition to our community). Ick. ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja 
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Posted By: nictoddie
Date Posted: 08 April 2008 at 10:12pm
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gosh I missed it all too, well the poor girl certainly has a weird way of getting attention, I thought it seemed a bit strange for them both to die too ------------- 
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