Hi Beth,
I am Melissa and I had a darling baby born in December. Harlan was not planned, as I have suffered with POCS and Endos. In September 05 I had surgery to remove the Endos, and to zap the POCS. I had a top specialist, who advised me, that "if it happens, it happens" (Children). I too was overweight, due to the above. I am 28. I tried Sure Slim, and actually found it to be a great help, but gave up, I found it sooooo hard to lose weight.
My DH and I married in November 05, and I fell preg in March 06.
Don't get toooooo down, as long as you stay positive. I wish you all the very best, and hope we can have some good news soon from you. 