I'm STILL going through this

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My advice would be to try and not get too hung up on her sleep. If it aint working one day, give up and try again the next day.
Also, try and nail the first sleep of the day (often only 45min from waking). Get that and the others seem easier.
I also agree that CIO is not good for a little one...but thats just my opinion. I still cant do it on my toddler....although I am sitting here listening to a tanty right now so perhaps I can.
I read a good book the other day called the No Cry Sleep Solution and it sounds nice and gentle.
When James was that age I made good use of the vacuum. I had it on to get him to sleep and to keep him asleep between sleep cycles.
I also agree that www.thesleepstore.co.nz is EXCELLENT!