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I was thinking about others posts about having babies already and wanting more...

I have always made it clear to dp I want more babies in the future, though he wants only one... I probably piss him off by buying things occasionally... I bought a new cot for DD but have hung onto the old one 'jic'... I bought a doubles pram, though that was because the first one didn't cut it and I walk a lot. But I got the doubles one jic...
I've saved all of DDs clothes, jic - he thinks I should sell them...
Like others, I go through stages of REALLY WANTING ANOTHER!!! And it bugs DP and I get upset about it... It's hard sometimes, but I know it's best to just wait and hope he comes around, eventually... Though I suspect if there's no #2 by the time DD is 5 I'll just give up.
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Now setting it up is completely OTT, and buying that much stuff to me. What happens if a friend looks in the room or something and says congratulations. How embarrassed would you be saying that no, you're not actually pregnant yet


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if dh (after being together for yrs knowing i did want kids) kept coming up with excusses for not trying and yet not trying to eliminate those reasons.
I wouldnt have gone out buying things, I would have left, not much point in a relationship if you arnt both willing to compromise at all.


obviously with 4 kids and another planned im not in that situation.
Mummy to 4 boys
Samuel - 18.6.05
Rory - 15.7.06
Mason - 13.06.08
Emmett - 24.01.10
Baby #5 - cooking
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Nic, DP was adamant after DD that one was enough for him... but after watching her grow into such a neat little person, he's realised how much fun it is, that its not ALL sleepless nights and stress (haha, I didnt tell him what it would be like to have a TEENAGED daughter!!) so he finally agreed to have one more... bit gutted on the timing of him finally agreeing cos I went ahead and sold most of her NB and 0-3 stuff in the time it took for him to come around! Luckily I kept all the big stuff like basinette, bouncinette, jolly jumper etc that DD had grown out of, so its only really clothes and extra blankets needed this time around (part of the reason he agreed was that since we already HAD the basics, having another baby wouldnt be nearly as expensive as Jae since we had to start from scratch with her )
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