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Oh girls, big squishy hugs to you both GG and LB

GG, men aye. Maybe give him some time and see if you can coax him into it tonight? Have you been able to talk to him and see if there is anything else behind it? If he's anything like my DH, there is usually something behind it. I hope you get things sorted babe and feel better soon.

LB, argh cr*p. Big fat cr*p. Please know that you didn't do anything to deserve this at all, for some unknown reason this is something some of us have to go through and for others its as easy as anything. I guess its like all things in life, some people struggle with things others don't. I know that doesn't make it feel any better, but don't blame yourself. This will happen for you, I know that's so hard to keep remembering when each month it doesn't work out. Just take care of you and treat yourself to something nice. Hugs babe x
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MASSIVE GROUP HUGS TO YOU LOVELY LADIES!!!!

I know what you mean Rach, I have such bad PMS and cramps... and obviously my previous solution (the pill) isn't possible. F!

GRR SO ANNOYED we have to miss out on TTC this month because my LAP was delayed...

AND just as I am writing this, I got a phone call to say that my office was broken into over the weekend. Nothing stolen by the sounds of it but creepy!!!

STOP with the sh*t already!
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Why is this happening to me???? Isn't it enough that my first baby is severely handicapped?????? After all we have gone through, don't I deserve a baby???? I just feel so low. I'm surrounded by pregnancy announcements right now, and although I am happy for my friends... I just want to scream IT'S NOT FAIR!!!!!!!

We have spent nearly $4k already and still no baby.

My heart is broken. I feel like I'm running out of time... will my only experience of being a Mum is being a caregiver to my beautiful girl, who doesn't even recognise me.....

Hows that for a vent! I just had to get it out... or explode...




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Gosh Georgiegirl, you really have had such a rough road! I don't even know what to say

Life can be incredibly trying for some of us, and I know how frustrating it is to hear about other people's pregnancies when there are people like us desperate for babies and not getting them!! I have a friend who I would have been due with, instead I get another miscarriage, a real doozy this time too, rushed to hospital and lost so much blood I could barely stand for a week. And so I get more pity and awkwardness from friends (who mean well...)

I don't know about you but I have days when I want to never speak to my friends having babies ever again But then I get over it and realise that we all have our own journeys and mine is making me stronger. I look forward to the latter, and I hope you do to

HUGE hugs sister. You will get there!


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Thanks Ginger, thank goodness for this forum, I was having a really rough day. My little girl is now 20 months, and still unable too even roll, I just so desperately want to experience the joy of a little one who will grow up, not just grow.
It helps me to vent sometimes....I'm thrilled for all the girls with bfp's    but its our turn Ginger.
It must be so hard for you to watch your friends pregnancy:-( I'm so sorry. MC's are such a sorrow, the worst thing is people forget and expect you to be fine so quickly. How are you doing? For me having Ava is a little like wearing a billboard that tells the world all about the biggest hurt in my life, some people pretend they don't see it, others see it but nothing else....



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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Georgiegirl Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 September 2011 at 8:18pm
I hope my tragic sob story hasn't put you all off venting. LOL though reading my vents might make you all feel a little better. ( I hope so)

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there isnt really much to compare with the ache of wanting a babe in your belly is there, cmon my little one you must be out there somewhere....
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote monkeys Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 05 October 2011 at 7:48am
OK World...I try and put on a brave face when our friends announce they are pregnant, but when we already have 2 sets of friends pregnant, is it really fair that I find out 3 yes 3 more are all pregnant in ONE NIGHT!!!

Enough already!
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Monkeys that is rough!!!!! Hugs babe x
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monkeys. Soooo know that feeling babe! It will be you soon xo

GG hope your doing ok, I really feel for you sweets as it seems like you already have enough on your plate with your lovely girl.
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GGGRRRRHHHH... decide that October is the month - AF is due and keeps teasing me with very light spotting in the morning then nothing....COME ON ALREADY WE WANNA GET BACK TO MAKIN BABIES!!!
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Monkeys i can relate to how you are feeling very well! i have just found out that my 2nd sister is now UTD! so i have 2 sisters and a close cousin now all UTD and i dont know how im going to manage to carry on with this crap we are getting! Im expecting AF to arrive today or tomorrow as I have cramps!

When will it finally be my turn! Right off to have a cry before DH comes home and one of my sisters wants to skype! Great just what i feel like doing!
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Seriously, did you know that to make a baby you actually have to have sex. And did you know that to do that you have to look and me and talk to me and put your arms around me. I am not the virgin mary, we aren't going to have the immaculate conception. If you don't really want to do it then I'm going back on the pill so I don't look like a disgusting crater face.
   
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