Hubbies

Ill happily trade

My DP does nothing. He works 7:30am - 4 pm and its a really relaxed job (i went to work with him a couple Saturdays). All he does is sit at his dest on the net all day waiting for someone to call and tell him he wants to buy such-in-such product and puts it through the computer. Hes gets maybe 1 call an hour.
When he gets home he expects to relax and for me to continue to do everything (all the washing, vacuuming, mopping, sweeping, dusting, dishes, dinner, looking after DD etc etc) He also doesn't bother with his daughter. I have to ask him to hold/talk to her for 5mins and he sometimes says no!
All i ask him to do is mow the lawns when they need doing, wash the dishers every night and cook tea every other night. He does the dishers maybe twice a week with me asking and asking, mows the lawns after my dad gets sh*tty with him (hes out landlord) etc. I also have to pay half the bills with my tiny winz income so i cant tell myself thats its okay since he brings home the money (he spends his money on himself leaving me the tiny bit im left to buy for DD) *sigh*

Anyone up for a trade?

ETA: he also goes out drinking 2 out of 7 nights, often not telling me where he is if he doesn't bother coming home and last weekend he decided to drink drive/speed do now we are going to get a ticket

Edited by RicKer

You should point this out to your husband also:

Men who share the load get more sex

well when Amelia was born (10months ago) i was a solo mum as Amelias dad walked out when i was prego ( another story) anyway it was just me who did everything because it was only me, it was hard, and not only hard because i did everything myself but to be honest the hardest thing i found was how lonely i was, never having anything to look forward to at the end of the day (like having someone to come home to) and not being able to share all the cool, and not so cool things Amelia had done that day  , then when Amelia was 4 months old i met my partner and we became pretty close pretty fast, now after 6months of being together he stays most nights and is a huge help, he works 40-50hrs a week and from next week on i will be working 20 hrs a week so he will look after Amelia in the eveinings i work (till 8pm) , its so nice to look forward to seeing him at the end of the day . He helps me with housework etc when he can , and he will always do something when i ask. im very lucky really , going from having no help what so ever to having someone who cooks, cleans, baths baby plays with baby, and even the simple things like having someone there while i can take a shower alone,. Its made the hugest difference to my mental state of mind .