What are you scared about for when

Scared of weight gain

Also really scared of PND again... That would have to be my biggest fear!!

Scared of a refluxy baby ~ but not too scared seeing as I have produts that will make life easier!! ;)

Hi Everyone! I'm a new OhBaby member

My husband and I have just started TTC.

I'm scared about putting on weight too ... especially seeing as i'm overweight to begin with!

To be honest, I'm not really scared of anything.
The weight gain and saggy boobs etc are waaaay in the back of my mind. I just want a healthy, happy baby.

Bridges are built to be crossed. And as long as you've got someone by your side you can do anything

Good luck!

I'm scared of losing a baby first and foremost.

Then, I'm afraid that I won't be able to lose weight after having the baby, and that I'll only have cause to wear trackies until the kids are in their teens!

I'm afraid of finances too.

IM afraid of not being able to concieve.
Then I am afraid of PND
And THEN im scared fo Saggy boobs!!! lol

I think go into it always being open minded, weight is ok because I get a baby out of it, saggy boobs wont matter as Hubby will love me no matter what I look like.
I think the thing I fear would be not being able to be open minded and making the wrong choices for my family and myself. Hopefully that wont happen!

scared of never being able to get pregnant, but after we have made it over that hurdle i will probably be scared of miscarage and then giving birth But in the long run i'm sure all my fears would of been truely worth it when we get to hold our baby in our arms! hehe

I was scared of the birth, i wanted lots of drugs and no pain at all, as it turned out, i had no pain relief at all and a 24 hour labour, yes it hurt like nothing ive ever experienced...but once she was out, that was it,and now i barely remember the pain

There are always gonna be parts of parenting that are scary, and painful and hard, but what you get from them in return,their love and trust and belief that you (and daddy) are the most amazing people in the world, is worth all the saggy boobs, and thicker tums,dark eyed circles and pain of childbirth.

Bleeding during the pregnancy. I had some bleeding when I was pregnant with Andrew and worked myself up big time with it. Then when I was pregnant with Josh the bleeding fear came back.

I'm nervous about how its going to change my personality - I like how I am now, and I know the power of hormones... so that concerns me (based on my family, I'd say theres a good chance I'll become a rather obsessive, over-protective mum, and I don't want to be such a worrier!).
I'm also nervous about how its going to affect my career. I work in a male-dominated industry, and I get away with it at the moment by "being one of the boys" in many respects, and I think a big preggie belly is really going to reinforce that I'm not one of the boys. I don't want my workmates and clients to change their attitude to me because of that - I've worked hard to be tough enough.
I'm not scared about this exactly, but I'm concerned that I'll have kids and none of my siblings will for some time. I'm the only married one so far and none of the others are even close (not that they have to be married to have kids, but its a useful indication). I loved being part of a big rowdy mob of cousins as a kid and I want my kids to have that (and DH only has 1 young sister, so cousins are unlikely to come from there either). I also don't currently have many friends with kids, so combined with no siblings with kids either, I'm concerned that it could be quite an isolating experience for me too. I live in a rural area, so coffee groups etc would be hard.