Taking a break

I will pm you shezzey

Edited by Oxy23

I think you really should take a break Oxy. It's clear that you need one and I think a few of us aren't going to find it easy to forgive and forget IYKWIM.

Oxy - I too would find it hard to forget but had you made an effort to say sorry and maybe explain yourself I would've forgiven... ignoring something doesn't make it go away...

Edited by freckle

Oxy I genuinely hope you are okay but I do think you need to get away from the computer hun, and find the happy Oxy we all know you can be.

Oxy...  its your choice doll ... if you want to come back to OB, you can.... i will be there for you.... see you in the charting thread

Oxy, noones pushing you out of here, YOU are the one who keeps saying you are going to take a break but comes back before the day is out saying you have changed your mind... this business with kat_girl just sealed peoples opinions either way. If you are being honest, and kat_girl really isnt someone you have created, then there really is no need for you to get your back up about it.

Most people come on here to get advice/support from people who know what they are going through either from being there before, or currently in the same place too, but every time anyone offers you advice, you refuse it, or ignore it, or more or less tell people to butt out... yet you are the one saying those problems are getting you down...

I guess what I am saying is, some of us just dont understand what is going on with you, and think you could benefit from getting some professional help, be it someone to talk to, or a doctor to see whats going on that could be preventing a baby coming... but I think you should talk to someone professionally before taking any more steps TTC... you seem to constantly be down about anything and everything, and thats not a good mindset to be in when you bring a new baby into the world.

Whether you agree or not, whether you appreciate, or even take any notice of what I say or not... at the end of the day, its up to YOU to do something about how you are feeling... but if it were me... I'd start by taking some of the advice of the ladies on here who really do mean well....

So how come Kat_Girl's posts disappeared - that is proof in itself that is is a fake persona, no matter who the culprit is.

And Oxy is on OB every day ALL day, she posts about every 5-10 mins - she was very quiet yesterday - that is typical behaviour of a guilty party IMO - I have seen it all before.

I think Kandice does have a fair point. Even if we do make assumptions (and yes, we do), we're not a judge and jury.

I'm sure the mods will look into this - with ISP addresses and everything, they have a lot more info available to them.

Hopes wrote: I'm sure the mods will look into this - with ISP addresses and everything, they have a lot more info available to them.

Exactly, then you can jump up and down.

But what if its not her? What if you have just accused someone, and told her that she needs help, simply because she is on OhBaby alot and went quiet.

Yeah be my guest to jump on Kat_Girl i mean she was outright busted.

ETA: My quote thingy

Edited by Kandice

Babykatnz said it well & spot on.

Oxy you were the one that brought kat to us, we made the connection from you, not a guess. We would never of know it was you or cared. You used her to get at us.

I could write a list of the things that are the same.
No one is telling you to leave, you do that all the time.

Pity kat deleted a lot of her posts as the information she provided was the same as yours.

If you want this to go away then let it go. I know you will never apologise or own up. You are angry at us, how do you think we feel.

As for the ISP addresses, it can easily changed if you know IT, but in this case I think they would find it the same.