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CuriousG
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Topic: What is your acceptable wakeup time? Posted: 14 November 2009 at 9:27am |
Just curious, what time do your kids wake up? Charlotte wakes up at 6am each morning, no matter what time she goes to bed (whether it be 6pm or 9pm).
We think its too early but are we being unrealistic? Its causing huge arguments in our house but I am thinking I just need to accept it.
Just wondering what time your kids (of similar age) wake up each morning and what time you find acceptable?
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 9:29am |
We just get up whenever Alex does. Sometimes it's anytime from 5.30 on. You could always get her to come snuggle in the big bed with Mum and Dad until you are all ready to get up.
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 9:35am |
Keira has always been quite good at sleeping and we usually dont hear from her until after 7. At the moment it is Maddi who is waking at 6:30 (this morning 6) no matter what time we put her to bed which ends up waking Keira too.
It is so hard when its a habit to get them to sleep any longer. When Keira was little if she ever got into the habit of waking before 7 we would try throwing her whole routine out so we could reestablish a slightly more reasonable wake up time. Like having a really late night, a really busy day or throwing in a day sleep (or not).
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 9:49am |
I like them to stagger their waking .. so Elias I prefer to wake early (5.30-6.00) so that he is fed and back in bed by the time Issy wakes (7.00-8.00), although he has been sleeping longer and then it kind of becomes a juggling act.
When they both get to toddler age, I think 6 is reasonable on a weekday and 7 would be preferable on a weekend.
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 9:58am |
7am for us. Daniel wakes anytime between 645 and 730, If he wakes before 7, I don't let him outta his room lol
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 10:03am |
Hollie's just changed her routine, I don't get her up until 7 now, but if she wakes any earlier she just chats away in her cot  When she was still having two sleeps it was 6, but I did the same thing if she woke up earlier than that.
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 10:40am |
Spencer wakes between 6-7am, Kyle between 5.30-6am. We just live with it. They go to bed at 7pm each night and we like our evenings child free
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 11:11am |
Sam wakes anywhere between 6AM and 8AM. I am really really really not a morning person, but I do enjoy having child free evenings so he is in bed at 7:30PM each night, I have tried earlier but he just mucks around. I find if he goes to bed at the same time he sleeps longer but if by some miracle he's had a sleep during the day, he is up till 9-10PM and then he wakes up at 5-6AM! Strange child.
For some reason, the magical time in my head is 7:30AM for him to wake up and I am ok with that, but any earlier and I am grumpy for a while.
Not much fun when my DPs alarm goes off and EVERYBODY gets woken up except for him! Which means Sam and I are up and he's still snoring away.
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 11:35am |
Ella normally wakes up between 6.30 and 7.30. Rule in the house if she wakes up before 7 she has to stay in her room until then- which she is normally fine with and she just gets a couple of her soft toys/dolls and chatters away to them until I come and get her.
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 11:59am |
My boy gets out of bed and up for the day at 700. If he wakes earlier than that then he is left in his cot till seven. Before seven in out household its night time.
I don't mind if he wakes early, he just isn't get up early.
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 1:29pm |
Sirius wakes up anytime between 6:30 and 8am. Lately he has been waking up at 6am, having a bottle then going back to bed til 8am :)
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 1:38pm |
we will not get DS out of bed before 7. if he wont stop crying we go and open his curtains and he amuses himself looking outside. he rarely wakes up before 5.30 but after that we open his curtains and ignore him and he rarely fusses about it. we have done it since he was a couple of months old so he just knows that is the deal now. my neice woke up at 530 every monring during the summer until she got black out curtains put in her room. she just thoght it was time to be awake cos it was light outside
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 2:14pm |
I'm just reading the contented little baby and it mentions the same thing monikah says about having black out curtains in their rooms to stop them waking so early. Might be worth a try if you want to shift their wake up times?
We already bought new curtains so I was thinking we might just buy the black out material and stick it over the curtains to see if it does the trick once the baby gets here and he's in his own room (curtains in our room keep it quite dark).
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 4:01pm |
7am is the rule in our house too - for the big kids at least, babies are a little less flexible  . If Maya gets up before 7 she turns the TV on quietly in the lounge, and the gremlins almost never wake till I get up coz we co-sleep so they stay put until I disturb them when I'm getting up.
Lil miss usually sleeps till just after 7am, altho this week we've had a few early starts. I usually lie in bed and listen to her chattering on the monitor until it becomes insistent and turns to an "ok mum, I'm over this, come and get me" kind of grizzle.
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 4:12pm |
7am for us too, except bella, cos she is still little. but caden never wakes before 7, he sometimes sleeps until 8.30 or 9! lol
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 4:17pm |
No getting up till 8.30 in our house! Well DH goes to work at 6 and feeds DD at 5 but then she goes back to sleep until 8.30.
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 4:25pm |
Jades in bed at 7.30pm & she wakes up usually sumtime after 7am & my dh gets her up & changed at 7.30 b4 he leaves 4 work, then i get up & get her brekkie etc. shes always been a sleepy head, so if she does wake earlier we just lie her back down & tell her its still sleep tym & we dont usually hear from her again untill 7.30.
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 4:59pm |
6am is the earliest we'll start the day - for a while Nat was waking at 5.30 most mornings, so we left her in her cot till 6am minimum. She's now going till 6.30/7 which is great. One of the sleep books I have says that 6am is a very common wakeup time for babies/toddlers, and often there's nothing that can be done about it. Hopefully it's a phase, but I would say you might have to accept it.
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 5:01pm |
7am is our rule, too.
We have blackout curtains, Hannah still wakes at 5:30. She can hear the birds and see the light over the top of them.
But if she starts to get ratty we just go in, lie her down (without talking) kiss her and say "night night".
She usually stays put until 6:30 then play happily.
The last couple of mornings she's woken at 6:30 and played happily (ie: destroyed her bedroom) until I go in at 7.
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Posted: 14 November 2009 at 5:04pm |
I would love to say 8am. Jackson usually wakes between 5.30-6am and will chat for about 20mins before turning into full tantrum mode.
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