Cadens had a few of these and its so awful seeing them like that, Cadens ahvent been too bad, but he screams and thrashes about and wont settle at all for quite a while, and he wont sleep in my bed.
I just have to stand there and shh him and keep a hand on him and talk to him until he calms down enough to sleep, sometimes if I give him a bottle this calms him down heaps, I put it in his mouth for him and then instead of crying and screaming he drinks.
And

for getting in the cot lol, Ive been tempted ebfore but I think I would break it

lol