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    Posted: 06 August 2009 at 2:56pm
Does male fertility decline as much as womens as they age? Dh is 46.
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My Partner is 41 and im 24

I know big age gap but we are happy so thats all that matters






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im not too sure. DH is 25 and i got pg the first time i ovulated but in saying that he has never touched alcohol, drugs or a cigarette. (i married a super good boy. lol)

i would say that it doesnt decline the same a woman as we are born with all the eggs we will ever have therefore they get older as we do, however sperm takes 90 days to produce and the stuff that doesnt get used gets reabsorbed and new stuff is made to take its place so i think even if there is a decline it would e a very gradual and not significant one. :)


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oxy you and your Dh have a similar age gap to us. I'm 31 and he is 46
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I think that's right monikah - I'm sure Ive read something like that i.e. they do show effects of increased age but not as dramatically as the eggies...
...we have the opposite I'm 34 and DP is 25 so he's got years but I'm running outta time
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I've read articles that said that motility reduces and the chance of birth defects can be increased with older fathers. It's kind of scary my DP is in his fifties so hope his wee fellas are all still swimming in the right direction. At the end of the day though, we have chosen our partners and have made the decision to conceive and there is plenty of other stuff to worry about that we can control, so I try not to dwell on this issue too much!
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I don't really dwell on it too much just it pops into my head at random times usually when i'm doing something completely unrelated. we are both of the school of if it happens it happens.
We have family frinds who have twin girls that were concieved via IVF when he was in his late 40s so there is still hope there i think she was around mid 30s too.
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Thats so cool sweetpea

Hey sweetpea did you ever have people comment on the age difference i have but im use to it now. I still get the funny looks from people sometimes

Because im so young and he is so old lol






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RANDOM!!!! Wasnt there a guy last year from India who fathered his 16 child at 91........
I might have to google it but im sure it was in the paper.
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Umm lets see we have been together for so long now. Yeah i think we did in the beginning in fact i remember mum saying something very early on in our relationship she hasn't siad anything for ages the last time i said something about it in passing she just said to be why should age matter its only a number. Thats is so true. The interesting fact was that a group of friends that we had at ubi were all with older partners not exactly the same age gap but still age gaps. Sometimes if i'm in a situation where i have to introduce Dh i go on the defesive abit and wiat on the comments they never come though i guess people see us together and realise that we are really good together.
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I would say its the age of the female that matters the most, but yes I have heard the birth defects are higher in older men I would presume the 50+ category.
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I like the novelty factor of my partner and I's age gap. It's 19 years. Sure you get a few funny looks, but so what. My mum is still a bit wierd about it, but then she has hang ups about quite a few things! LOL!
I always like dating older men, but never in a million years thought I'd end up with quite such an age gap! As they say you cant control who you fall in love with, and I wouldnt swap him for the world!
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Very well said mizpix

Agree age doesnt bloody matter. I love my partner and he love me I wouldnt change him for the world






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Sweetpea, the short answer is fertility does decline in men, but not to the extreme that it does in women. Fertility for men just gets less and less as they age, whereas women reach menopause and are no longer fertile at all.
I remember reading a few years ago that male fertility at 40 is much lower than at 30 (one of my best mates has a much older partner, so she was quite concerned about it - he was just over 40 then). I can't remember where I read it, but I do know it was a scientific source. The advice from it was basically that if you were a male over 40, you were with your life partner already, and wanted kids 'one day' then you should start TTC because it may take some time. My friend thought about it and decided she was way too young to go there. One of the side-effects of a big age gap, I guess.
Good luck sweetpea
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Correct me if i'm wrong but as I am aware women are born with all there eggs, that is why as we get older it gets harder, but guys make their spermies all the time, that is why the old rich guys have babies in their 70+, well so i've heard.


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My dh is 41 (18 years older than me) and we got naturally conceived twins the second month of trying, so don't fret too much!
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Two of my male work mates are in their early 50's and have partners in their 30's, they have both managed to have babies reasonably easily. They always say that having the kids so late has kept them a bit younger!

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Hey Hannahbil
That certainly gives me hope then!
I have enough problems worrying about my girly bits working properly, without worrying that DP isnt working at full strength!
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Hey Sweetpea, if you're worried about it why don't you consider getting DH tested. We have only been trying for 6 months but I am pretty pesimistic about our ability to concieve naturally for different reasons (DH is overweight and there is a lot of info on line about the effects that can have on their swimmers). I inquired at the GP and found out you can get his swimmers analysed through your GP without going through a fertility clinic....or if he's not willing to go down that track a company that sells OPK's on trade me (I think its called baby for me...based in Wanganui anyway) is now selling DIY sperm anaysis kits....i think its about $80 for 2 tests and they are marketed as being 80% accurate.   We are both going to get basic tests done this month because I think that if its bad then at least we can do something about it instead of wasting another 6 months trying and if its all good then we'll both stop stressing and relax a bit more and it will probably eventually happen.

Hope this helps! Good luck!
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Willie was 44, 47 and 49 when our girls were conceived, and with the exception of the gremlins who were a long time in the making, we didn't have any problems getting pregnant - in fact, lil miss is a true one-hit wonder

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