Hi nykiwi, welcome to Oh Baby, sounds like you have been having a bit of a rough time with fertility etc. I'm also fairly new to ttc, and I am 37. I came off BCP late Oct and had a chem preg last month. We can't help the fact that we've only started now so no point in regrets and I would not have wanted children with any of my other partners (I have now found the one I want to spend the rest of my life with). One good thing is alteast you are doing all the right things with tests etc, I havnt gone down that track yet (obviously hoping I don't have to). You mentioned about going to a naturopath and acupuncture, I know a lot of ladies on Oh Baby have tried this and has helped them conceive.
It's so easy to read stuff on the internet and get hugely worried, sometimes tooo much info is not a good thing.
Just wanted to encourage you and there are a lot of ladies on here who are also going through similar journeys. You may have noticed that there is a thread on infertility and IVF (amongst others), the ladies on here are very supportive so feel free to join in on whatever thread you feel comfortable with. Sending you lots of hugs and hoping that the rest of your ttc journey brings you are BFP!!!