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Nellsmc 
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Posted: 04 October 2009 at 10:55am |
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Hi,
I am married, have a 3 year old (august) and a 1 year old (september) and have just this morning found out i am pregnant.
What do I do?? I have been crying all morining.... I didn't want to do this again!!
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Pants
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Posted: 04 October 2009 at 11:28am |
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Oh honey, big hugs. You're not going to want to hear this but this is a decision only you can make.
Perhaps take a couple of days to asses things, pro's and cons and how you see your life evolving over the next few years.
All the best xxx
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RinTinTin
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Posted: 04 October 2009 at 3:45pm |
I'm with Pants, this is essentially only a choice you yourself can make.
I think it will be best to just sit on it for a few days, think it over and talk with your hubby about it.
Just know that whichever choice your make, you need to be comfortable with and need to be able to live with as well. But again, it's a choice only you can make.
Best of luck.
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Posted: 04 October 2009 at 4:29pm |
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Aww hun I'm with the other posters on giving it a few days to settle and assessing then so not much help but wanted to send you a hug!
Is there any specific reason you don't want another one? I.e finances, preg complications, PND, etc??
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Zasha
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Posted: 04 October 2009 at 7:26pm |
Give your self time to get over the initial shock and think about the situation, don't be forced to do what other people want you to do, it's not them that has to make the sacrifices. Big thing is be ture to yourself and be confident in what ever decision you choose is the correct one for you.
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Posted: 06 October 2009 at 2:09pm |
 from myself also... How are you feeling now hun? I would be in tears no doubt too! I hope you have some good support around you right now!
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busyissy
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Posted: 06 October 2009 at 7:54pm |
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neivaD
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Posted: 07 October 2009 at 1:30pm |
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Hugest hugs! All I can suggest is take heaps of deep breathes, and take your time coming to terms with, and deciding where too next. Ive been there and its a sucky place to be in!
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Berg19
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Posted: 07 October 2009 at 8:42pm |
Don't feel pressured by other people and what you feel is expected of you. It is your life, and your the one who has to deal with this. Like the other ladies have said take time to think it over and maybe seek professional help, just for someone to talk to that doesn't have their thoughts about what you should do or what you shouldn't. big hugs! Hope your feeling better now! If it makes you feel better i cried alot when i found out i was pregnant - i think this is normal when you didn't expect it.
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