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Posted: 28 December 2007 at 10:06pm |
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okay someone kill the rumour for me and tell me its perfectly okay to make love in the first 12 weeks.
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Posted: 28 December 2007 at 10:10pm |
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yes it is fine if you feeling upto it. I have not really been that intreated myself had thursh and all. As far as I know it is perfectly safe.
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dtmum
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Posted: 28 December 2007 at 10:13pm |
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yes must say, havent felt well, so its def not as frequent, ha! but yes, the days I feel okay I now know its safe, cheers!
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Posted: 28 December 2007 at 10:17pm |
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Sex is fine during pregnancy, provided it's not super rough, you are in the mood, and not feeling like utter sh*t.
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dtmum
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Posted: 28 December 2007 at 10:20pm |
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ha true! yep, havent been feeling fantatsic but luckily for my fiance every now and then i feel a little better, so then he might get lucky, ha! cheers
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Posted: 28 December 2007 at 10:21pm |
Yes, perfectly safe! I've never heard that it's not! But I certainly DID NOT feel up to it in the first 4 mths due to MS.
Hmm, but maybe if you're looking at an excuse to not do it, tell your partner it's not safe  .
Actually it has just come to mind that if you've suffered bleeding in the first 12 weeks to hold off from it.
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Posted: 28 December 2007 at 10:25pm |
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true, lcukliy fingers crossed, no bleeding
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Posted: 28 December 2007 at 11:11pm |
def safe providing you are well and have had no bleeding.
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Posted: 28 December 2007 at 11:16pm |
 Italiah wrote:
Hmm, but maybe if you're looking at an excuse to not do it, tell your partner it's not safe.
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LOL when I was preg with Lesieli I told her father that if we had sex the doctor would see his sperm and tell him off for trying to poison our baby...lol
He believe me but we were teenagers after all
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Posted: 28 December 2007 at 11:19pm |
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Poor old Willie is missing out again, he went the entire pregnancy with the gremlins coz by the time I felt even remotely well enough around 25 weeks I had bleeding so it was a no go, this time I keep promising him but so far have managed to avoid it, I just feel too icky.
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Posted: 29 December 2007 at 5:24am |
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Gosh poor Willy, the whole pregnancy thats a pretty long time but I'm sure he was okay since it was for his lil sweethearts but crumbs thats a long time!
I havent felt like it much I must say but its definately safe as long as no bleeding is what I have been told and having DH home on holiday at the moment has been good as usually by bed time I'm shattered and its the last thing on my mind but it doesnt seem such a 'chore' after a decent sleep in!
Poor DH I told him rumours were that I'd get really horny when I came off the pill, that didnt really happen and then when we decided we'd give the baby making a whirl he was looking forward to days of rampant BDing each month but nope got preggers the next day pretty much, he is now asking if there is a horny time during pregnancy as a last ditch hope before the baby comes and its the last thing either of us are thinking about!
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Posted: 29 December 2007 at 10:04am |
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I just cant be stuffed half the time to fool around or have sex, but tried the other night and it hurt like hell, like stining and really uncomfy so I wont be trying it again for a while, poor DF, but he said he doesnt want to do it if it hurts me or the baby so I feel better about not doing it now.
But yeah its totally safe to have sex, you just have to figure out what position is most comfy for you.
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Posted: 29 December 2007 at 10:30am |
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LOL, we got married 10 weeks ago today and i think we have had sex about 2.5 times! Poor DH!
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Posted: 29 December 2007 at 10:32am |
2.5 times?! 
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Posted: 29 December 2007 at 10:44am |
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LOL, the last time hurt to much so i made him stop.
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Posted: 29 December 2007 at 12:11pm |
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yep 2.5 sounds about the same as us! It hurt so much for me aswell I had to say STOP! And it felt like my uterus was getting pushed up...was so weird!
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Posted: 29 December 2007 at 12:27pm |
I had bleeding and was told to continue life including sex like normal, the bleeding was from the sex due to having a sensitive cervix and is really common and very safe!
Your cervix is quite soft and low in the beginning, if you are hruting it should go away in the second tri....but who's normal
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Posted: 31 December 2007 at 1:49pm |
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Oh God sex.....Dear me!
If I felt good we would but yuck who can be bothered when you are felling like POOH!
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Posted: 31 December 2007 at 2:36pm |
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So true Kelpa! I have gotten my sex drive back now but it hurts to have sex so we dont really do it...we TRY but I always have to stop him half way cos its too uncomfy.
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Posted: 31 December 2007 at 3:31pm |
I had bleeding each time at the begining and was told to abstain. If you OK and there is no bleeding than sex will be OK I'm sure.
As for hurting, maybe try different positions
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