I lost my baby this morning
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Topic: I lost my baby this morning
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Subject: I lost my baby this morning
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 8:40am
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EDIT- Title was mean to be "Lost" my baby...
I just want everyone to know that this morning I had a miscarriage. I dont really know what else to say except that me and DF are heartbroken  But at least I know now...
Thank You so much for all your support ladies 
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Posted By: Freesia
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 8:42am
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I'm so sorry this has happened Sheza. Big hugs to you and DF Thinking of you -------------  
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Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 8:43am
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Oh Sheza so sorry to hear of your sad news. Take care of yourself. ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3) 
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 8:45am
| Oh thats horrible. Sorry to hear that. Take care of yourself and remember there are unfortunately a number of us who have been through this if you ever need to talk. |
Posted By: nuttymama
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 8:46am
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Big to you and DF, I'm so sorry for your loss. ------------- Abigail 06/01/2005 Jayden 21/11/2001 Micheal 03/04/1997 |
Posted By: tropics
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 8:54am
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So sorry to hear that Shezza cant imagaine what you and DH must be going through lots of hugs coming your way take care and thinking of you ------------- http://lilypie.com">    [/url]
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Posted By: KiwiL
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 8:59am
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Oh Sheza, I am really sorry. I know you were really excited to be pregnant. Big hugs to you and your DH at this time, hopefully you will be of great support to each other.
Like My2Angels said, there are many of us who have been through this and, while all our experiences are undoubtedly different, we're always here to listen if you want to vent. Feel free to PM me if you want to chat. Thinking of you at this time. xoxo |
Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 9:02am
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Sheza sorry to hear of your loss. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  Was danni-chick Mum to James My Angel 28/07/08 |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 9:04am
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Thank you so much everyone
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Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 9:04am
Sheza that is really sucky  I can't do anything but offer you biggest hugs. You and hubby take care of each other won't you.
------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja 
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Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 9:05am
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Oh big hugs to you and your Dh. Theres nothing I can say... I do know there is a few on here who have lost ( i don't think 'lost' is the right wording there??) their baby too and so talk all you want we are here for you. ------------- Ann 
Also Mum to Josh (15) and Brooke (10) |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 9:14am
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Take care of each other, and big hugs. ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: ginger
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 9:15am
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I am so very, very sorry Sheza
Losing a baby is an awful grief, and I know that when we m/c it hit DH very hard. As the girls have said, you're not alone, and we're all here when you need us ------------- Cuinn Lachlan 23.1.09 - 22:00 Antonia Helene 4.8.11 - 09:41 |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 9:19am
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Oh Sheza, sorry to hear about your loss.
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Posted By: sally belly
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 9:26am
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There's not much more I can add apart from I'm thinking of you. Look after yourself.
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Posted By: emachan
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 9:37am
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Sheza, I am so sorry to hear this news.
Big hugs to you and your partner. I know exactly how you must be feeling at the moment, its the worst feeling ever.
You are lucky that everyone here on Ohbaby are so kind and supportive, I know when I m/c in April, I had so much kind love and support that got me through such a difficult time. much love, emma ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  DD#1 Sept 08 DD#2 Oct 09 |
Posted By: My3Sons
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 9:40am
Sheza, I am so sorry to hear this!! Please look after yourself, sending you lots of love!! ------------- Mum to Mr 10, Mr 6 and Mr 4
 
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Posted By: mummy_becks
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 9:42am
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Sheza ------------- I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived! |
Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 9:50am
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I am so sorry Sheza The next few days may be hard on you physically, take it easy and look after each other ------------- |
Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 10:00am
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Big hugs Sheza, I know nothing any of us can say can ease the hurt that you are feeling right now, but we are all here to support you and you know where to find me if you need me. ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
 (02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: Mazzy
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 10:35am
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So sorry to hear this Sheza
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Posted By: Kazzle
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 10:45am
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big hugs Sheena, i am so very sorry for your heartache, all my love you and your lovely man.
we are all here and you can pm anytime ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 10:55am
| I'm so sorry Sheza |
Posted By: katie1
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 10:56am
| I am so so sorry Sheza. Sending you hugs. Look after yourself. |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 11:10am
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oh sheza! i'm so sorry! as the ladies have said, nothing we can say can take away the pain but please take care of yourself and know that we are all here for you if you need us
sending big to you and DH------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: yummymummy
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 11:16am
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I am so so sorry to read this Sheza, big hugs ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 11:36am
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Oh Sheza, I am so very sorry! Sending you and your partner lots of love xxx ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: peanut butter
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 11:51am
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Oh Sheza that just sucks!!!! big hugs to you both
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 11:54am
Oh thanks so much everyone, it makes me feel heaps better knowing I have so much support
It had hit DF pretty hard, but he is ok now, we are just chilling at home today. The cramping is the worst part at the moment, but the bleeding is easing up so hopefully tonight I will feel better, its sort of feels like the first day of my period but a lil worse. Anyways thanks again everyone
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Posted By: Bumble
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 11:56am
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Oh Sheza, BIG hugs to you and DF... Have good cry and some chocolate..
So so sorry. ------------- formerly known as "Bee" Ethan ~ March 2003 Big 6 year old school boy! Micah ~ Aug 2008 ~ Smiley pants who loves telephones! |
Posted By: emmaohara
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 12:05pm
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So sad to hear that Sheza, I was there 2 months ago and its not fair, thinking of you and your DH. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: NikkiB
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 12:12pm
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So sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts and love are with you and your hubby. ------------- A very lucky mummy to two gorgeous boys: RB 3/10/2008 JB 29/12/2009 |
Posted By: bookwyrm
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 12:19pm
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Sooo sorry to hear of the loss of your baby. Love to you and DF. Be strong. Big hugs ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: arohanui
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 12:23pm
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Sheza that sucks... I'm so so sorry ------------- Mama to DS1 (5 years), DS2 (3 years) and... http://alterna-tickers.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 12:36pm
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Yea Sheza I had the cramps too and it's pretty awful. I also had them in my following period (which lasted 2 weeks) but then got pg again in the next cycle after that. ------------- |
Posted By: noodle
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 12:47pm
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oh sheza i'm so sorry! take care hun! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: LockieandLiam
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 1:10pm
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Big hugs Sheza - sorry to hear of your loss ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 1:32pm
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Oh Sheza I am so sorry to hear of your loss I have been wondering all day how you were. Look after each other and take it easy for the next few days. ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 1:34pm
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Thanks again everyone, this site and all of you have been a HUGE help. I think I would haven fallen to pieces other wise.
Cramping had eased up after some panadol and a weat sack Im going to go get my hair cut from my mum at her salon soon, DF is busting to have Mc Donalds, maybe Ill treat myself to some aswell. Hehe he just said that he wants to buy me a present, so cute.
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 1:40pm
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Awww what a honey you've got! ------------- |
Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 1:41pm
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Aww he sounds like a real sweetie Sheza, you've got a keeper there!
Good one you for treating yourself and I hope your Maccas is yummy! Love your new avatar too! ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and:
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Posted By: newmum
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 1:50pm
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Just wanted to share my support too. So sorry to hear of your loss. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: YvetteandElla
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 1:52pm
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Big hugs, I am sorry to hear of your lost - find the brightest star in the sky tonight and that is your baby watching over you.
------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: meow
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 2:43pm
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I'm so sorry.. I saw your other post about spotting but didn't want to say anything as that's what happened to me.. I just m/c last month and was the same stage in my preg as you were. Big ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 2:48pm
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your DH sounds great.....look after yourselves....i know after mine my DH was a great support... and my friends as well.. ! ------------- Mum to two amazing boys! |
Posted By: james
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 2:52pm
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i,m so sorry for your loss ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: Leelee
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 4:02pm
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I dont know what to say, but just know that we are all thinking of you and your df. Take care of you!!
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Posted By: Gwen_
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 4:08pm
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Omgosh! big big to you and your DF if you ever want to talk you no where to find me xxx ------------- We're in America for 3 months with Mummy and Daddy! http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 5:25pm
Aww thats so cute, that made me teary eyed, if i can find a star amongst the crappy Auckland Weather  Im going to do just that!
Thanks So much
I had Mc Donalds yumm had my hair cut(like katie holmes/posh) and DF got me some new pj's and some clothes for work and a necklace hehe I feel a bit better. Gonna go have a shower and put my new pj's on now and have a hot choccie ------------- |
lilnutnut wrote:Posted By: MelanieAndBree
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 7:31pm
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Im so sorry to hear that. ------------- Melanie. Mum to Briahna Robyn, 3yrs |
Posted By: lovingmummyhood
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 8:17pm
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So sorry to hear that. Your man sounds lovely. Wrap up warm and look after each other.
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Posted By: nictoddie
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 8:19pm
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Hugest hugs to you hun, it sucks big time I miscarried in Feb. Hope you have a relaxing weekend and your dh is such a hunny!! ------------- 
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Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 06 July 2007 at 8:25pm
 Sorry to hear your sad news. Take care! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
Busy mum to Miss 15yrs, Miss 10yrs and Master 4yrs |
Posted By: Deez
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 11:21am
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Oh No sorry for your loss...I don't know what else to say. Take care! -------------  
Lycan and Peyton = Moon and back!! |
Posted By: justme
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 3:50pm
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Sorry to hear of you loss sheza.. my heart love & hugs
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 6:34pm
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Thank You so much everyone ------------- |
Posted By: LeeAnn
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 6:48pm
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Hi Sheza,
I'm genuinely sorry to hear your news. I think we may have been due on the same day. I was looking on the March babies forum and I saw you were due on March the 4th like me! I thought that was awesome, someone that was due the same day! Again I'm really sorry, I'll be thinking of you!!! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 07 July 2007 at 8:48pm
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Thanks Leann,
Yeah after my scan we thought maybe my dates were mixed up and that I was actually 5 weeks 2 days but I knew that I had my dates right and that I should have been 7 weeks 2 days and my due date 20th Feb, so the baby stopped growing at somewhere around 5 weeks because there was only a sac there and nothing else
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 08 July 2007 at 4:39pm
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sheza i dont know what you are going through but i just wanted to tell you im so sorry for you and your mans loss, and to give you my love ...
and to all the mums (and dads ) on here that have suffered a m/c , i think you are all incredibly strong and i know one day you'll meet your angel babies again |
Posted By: Leish
Date Posted: 08 July 2007 at 7:44pm
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So sorry to hear of your loss. ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: AlyAyde
Date Posted: 08 July 2007 at 8:02pm
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So sorry to hear of your loss. ------------- Jayde 25/12/04 Alyssa 08/04/03 http://Alyayde.bebo.com |
Posted By: daikini
Date Posted: 08 July 2007 at 8:07pm
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So sorry to hear of your loss. ------------- Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys |
Posted By: Bobbie
Date Posted: 11 July 2007 at 7:05pm
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oh Sheza I'm so so sorry.
I was with you in the TTC thread and I know just how wanted that baby was and I know how much you went through emotionally to get there. I'm sorry I haven't been on sooner to pass on my sympathies but I'm so glad you're on this thread where there are so many supportive girls for you to talk to who can understand what you and your DF are going through now. -------------  
 
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Posted By: mamanee
Date Posted: 11 July 2007 at 7:36pm
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I am so sorry to hear of your loss Sheza, I know how much you and your DF loved your little bean. You are going to be a great mum one day real soon.
I never know what to say in these threads, so I'm so sorry if what I said wasn't right. Big hugs and you know we are all here for you when you need to rant/cry and just let it out.
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 11 July 2007 at 9:06pm
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Aww thanks Renee!! That means so much to me
I really cant wait to be a mummy, we just need to sort ourselves out first and then we will start to try again ------------- |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 11 July 2007 at 9:15pm
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Big hugs chick, hope you looking after yourself.. ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |