Grrrh why does it take so long!
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Topic: Grrrh why does it take so long!
Posted By: Guests
Subject: Grrrh why does it take so long!
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 10:47am
I feel like getting pregnant is consuming my life, having to be careful about lifestyle choices and waiting for things to happen. Does anyone else feel the same or am I just being impatient! 
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 10:54am
I HEAR YA!!!!!! i remember these feelings oh too well!! it took us 15months to get pregnant with Astin and it was frustrating as hell!!!!!
Hang in there though!! it took me changing my lifestyle so that i was calmer and happier and then i fell pregnant within that month! so maybe try and destress a bit if you can (I know!!..this is the stress so how do you destress???). |
Posted By: Bumble
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 11:17am
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I understand how you feel!!!
THere is the 2 weeks waiting to ovuate, then the 2 weeks waiting to see if you are pg.... am hating the number 2 at the moment!!! lol!! It is consuming!! This month I have been trying to relax and have fun with Ethan, rather than stressing about whether I am or not... ------------- formerly known as "Bee" Ethan ~ March 2003 Big 6 year old school boy! Micah ~ Aug 2008 ~ Smiley pants who loves telephones! |
Posted By: queenbean
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 11:33am
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Don't worry, you are definitely not the only one!!! Coming from the queen of impatience here!
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Posted By: JD
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 11:38am
Nope, absolutely not the only one. Every cycle past is a cycle closer 
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Posted By: emmaohara
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 11:44am
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YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!!!!!
I am definately the worst most impatient person but this is making me learn to slow down and stop wishing my life away. I was consuming so much time thinking about making baby number 2 that I forgot to enjoy baby number one. So enjoy your life now and try to put it on the back burner for a few hours a day ( hard I know!)  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 11:49am
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Thanks ladies it always nice to no I am not the only one feeling this way.
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Posted By: tropics
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 1:33pm
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Hey sunny your not alone! I am the same it is so consuming! I am impatient too and would be fine if someone said that it will happen in x number of months...its the unknown that sucks! ive been more relaxed this month as im seeing a specialist on monday which has been a good change not being so consumed....helps to do something to try and keep your mind off it...hard though!
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Posted By: noodle
Date Posted: 11 May 2007 at 4:58pm
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It does at times feel all consuming! hang in there sunny you'll get there! And JD i like your way of looking at it!!! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: bumblefoot
Date Posted: 16 May 2007 at 7:18pm
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I hear ya! It can suck a bit when it seems you are living for this one purpose, but Im sure it will get better... I need to believe it does!
Just need to stay positive and keep thinking, maybe this month is the month... If that makes any sense at all! Babydust to all, and keep venting on here ladies, were all in the same boat! ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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