making baby
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Forum Description: Trying to get pregnant? Going through fertility treatment? Just planning your first or second child? There are many people out there in the same boat to help and listen and share with
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Topic: making baby
Posted By: karinyeoh
Subject: making baby
Date Posted: 20 October 2015 at 4:19am
Best time for baby making
You’re ready to have a baby…wonderful. There’s a problem, though. You’ve spent the last several years trying not to have baby and don’t remember exactly how baby-making works. Read on for fertility facts, tips and a general timetable for starting your pregnancy.
The baby-making window
Most women release an egg about two weeks before their period begins. If your cycles are fairly regular, you can figure about when ovulation will occur. Your egg lives 12-24 hours after being released. If it joins up with a handsome sperm, you’ve got a baby in the making!
To estimate when ovulation will occur, begin with your typical cycle length, in days. Subtract 14. Step up that many days from the first day of your period. Let’s say :
First day of period : March 1st
Cycle length : 31 days
Cycle length minus
14 : 31 – 14: 17days
You can expect ovulation to happen on or close to March 18th
Some signs that you’re near your most fertile time include increased vaginal secretions, breast tenderness, feeling on top of the world and sexy, short-lived, sharp pain in your side.
Sperm, on the other hand, can live several days in your body. Sexual intercourse can be a days before ovulation and still make a baby. The window for baby-making is considered to be 5 days before an egg is released to one day after.
Getting more technical
Irregular cycles or very short or long cycles can make it difficult to forecast your ovulation date. If you want more than an estimation, you can use a fertility monitor or chart your temperatures.
A fertility monitor watches for either hormone changes signaling ovulation to be close or look at changes in vaginal secretions.
Charting your temperature and keeping a basal body temperature chart helps you know your own cycle so you can better be prepared in future months. Hormonal changes after ovulation cause a slight rise in basal body temperature. These charts can be helpful if trying for a baby take a while.
Keeping baby-making fun
Trying to get pregnant can take all of the fun out of sex if you’re not one of those couples that conceive easily. Making love can seem forced and mechanical instead of an expression of love commitment mixed with a bit of desire. Below are some tips that just might help :
Romance : Don’t forget to be lovers. Date. Share your joy in your spouse whether tonight is the ideal time for making a baby or whether tonight is the ideal time for great time.
Experiment with new positions: you don’t have to stick with the missionary position. Doggy style, spooning-experiment!
Remember it’s a number’s game: the average couple has a 10% to 25% chance of getting pregnant each cycle. It’s not unusual to take a few months.
Relax: Yeah, right! Looking for a natural way to relax when you’re trying to conceive? An orgasm could be just what the doctor ordered! According to The
Unofficial Guide to Having a baby, studies have shown that an orgasm is 22 times as relaxing as the average tranquilizer.
related info: http://besttimebabymaking.blogspot.my/
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Posted By: Wikq225913
Date Posted: 02 October 2017 at 10:50pm
I remember my first visit to the clinic, my friend gave me the coordinates of the doctor, her sister gave birth to twins by the IVF method. Discussion of questions, stories about the procedure. I myself can already read the lectures, popular, on this topic. I nod, I agree, I agree with everything, only it would turn out. The husband is serious, everything is studied in detail: the implantation process, bearing, side effects, prices, drugs, the probability of success. Though one of us is calm and can think about it reasonably.
The euphoria ends. The first problems begin. Moms are screened by age, health. Relatives, too. With each new time there are fewer and fewer candidates. There are many pitfalls, this is life, the truth is a chance, so everything is ahead.
Beloved husband, calm, like a tank. Perspective work, it means - there are no problems with money. Sometimes he talks about how you can try to find a surrogate mother yourself. I'm afraid of that. She can take the child, although I have such great confidence that he, conceived by us, only ours, will remain only with us. I'm afraid of a close contact with a stranger. I'm afraid she will behave badly when she is pregnant, she will humiliate me, insult me, considering her as inferior, depending on her, will cause our baby harm, and I can not prevent it. I'm afraid, I hope this does not have to be done. But alas ...
One girlfriend was going to get married, give birth to her child, once she was burned, let this time all succeed. Another girlfriend is arranged for a promising job, what kind of hormones, pregnancy, is also understandable. The third girlfriend does not go through the health, the most seriously will have to be treated, before she can become a mother.
So, still have to look for someone else's woman who agrees for the money to endure our baby. We begin to look for "our girl". We give ads, we view everything ourselves. With some it comes to conversation. We talk together threesome, I, my mother and my mother-in-law. The husband gave this to us, realizing that all contacts fall on our shoulders in any case. Why did not I become a psychologist? Main thought. How do you want to understand people more, because words often mask the essence.
Many people, but there is not one person to whom I could trust my baby. Some frankly hateful look around the room, talk about money, emphasize their health, their superiority. Other people are little acquainted with the process of fertilization, believing that "I buy their child, because who bore, that and mother."
All the time, the idea of what the adoptive parents should feel? After all, they did not bear, but they are called by parents all those hypocrites who consider surrogate mothers to be more mothers than biological ones. Another hypocrisy? We live in different worlds. I will raise my child, adopt when I'm ripe. Let them live in their own world. Third ...
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Posted By: luha226083
Date Posted: 05 October 2017 at 1:26am
Hello, but what did you decide? you have decided to look for a surrogate mother on your own or go to the reproductive medicine clinic? You must understand that not all people are able to understand the misfortune of other people. Only people who have experienced this problem can help and support. Only they. Just do not need to condemn anyone, everyone has their own problems and their views on certain issues. And not every woman can become a good mother. I can say that not every woman who agrees to become a surrogate mother, understands what she has to do. Many women then refuse, so looking for a surrogate mother on the Internet is not the best option. But what if she refuses right before IVF or after? What then? it's horrible! Therefore, it is better to go to the clinic of reproductive medicine. All the same, when you pay money, you must be sure that you are paying them knowingly.
All the same, there are women who are in the clinic's base have already passed all the necessary examinations, including they had an interview with a psychologist. Of course, the ideal option is a girl who already was a surrogate mother or a girl who has her own children. You see, in my opinion you can not find a good girl on the Internet. It may end sadly for you. I do not believe in the success of this venture.
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