Embarrassing problem :(
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Topic: Embarrassing problem :(
Posted By: ShameFace
Subject: Embarrassing problem :(
Date Posted: 06 March 2011 at 3:56pm
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Hi ladies,
I am so embarrassed that I have made a fake name but I am an OB addict, not some random, promise! Anyway (god, this is so embarrassing!), I am pregnant, in the 2nd trimester. The last 2 times DH and I have fooled around and I have had an "O", I have had female ejaculation. I had heard of it before but didn't know it was quite SO wet and gross, like I've just peed everywhere  .
I have looked it up online and found out it's not actual pee (thank god!) and it's normal blah blah blah. There are all sorts of sites where it tells a girl how to do it, but none to tell one how to stop it! Please please please tell me someone else has done this! Even better, tell me it stops! It has scared me away from doing anything with my DH now because it is so embarrassing 
If anyone is too embarrassed to talk about it on the thread, please feel free to PM me. |
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Posted By: james
Date Posted: 06 March 2011 at 4:02pm
aww hun i understand you being ambrassed just put a towel under your bum  ------------- <a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://b4.lilypie.com/nLJ5p13.png" alt="Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker" border="0" /></a> |
Posted By: Plushie
Date Posted: 06 March 2011 at 6:13pm
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I don't know how you stop it, and i'm pretty sure you can't without stopping the sex but i'd give a bet if you ask your DH he's secretly high fiving himself after sex every time
Put a towel (or several towels) down or get in the shower and have fun! |
Posted By: ShameFace
Date Posted: 06 March 2011 at 6:22pm
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Oh that sucks. I was really hoping it was some strange pregnancy thing that no one talks about and it just goes away after the baby is born.
Yeah, Dh was kind of grossed out about it, but maybe because we were both going "WTF?????!!!". We hadn't actually got to the sex part and none of us wanted to after that. Last time it happened we weren't really too sure about it but this time it was really obvious where it had come from. I seriously thought I'd just peed all over him and I'm pretty sure he thought the same. We did both look it up online together so at least we now both know it's not urine. Will be keeping a lot of towels handy for next time (when I get brave enough and get over my embarrassment issues). |
Posted By: Plushie
Date Posted: 06 March 2011 at 6:31pm
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Well, i'm guessing if you havent done it before its a pregnancy thing (more blood in the area, increased sensitivity etc etc) thats causing it and it probably will go away after bubs arrives! I meant you can't stop it as in you can't stop it right now.
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Posted By: wellymummy
Date Posted: 06 March 2011 at 7:39pm
| dont worry, perfectly normal for many woman when they hit the big O, esp with direct stimulation to the c. Just keep towels handy! My partner seems to love it, high 5's if he gets that result! |
Posted By: _SMS_
Date Posted: 06 March 2011 at 8:03pm
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I guess it would be pregnancy related if you havent had that problem before.
Get him to watch some porn about it, he might get into it
Sorry no other tips on how to stop it  -------------  
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Posted By: ShameFace
Date Posted: 07 March 2011 at 12:10pm
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Well the boy does like his porn
Thanks ladies, it's really helped me to know it's normal and I'm not the only one. I do hope it goes away after baby's born, just because of the huge mess. I am pretty sure I can get over my embarassment eventually 
Thank you all so much! |