trying to have a baby
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Topic: trying to have a baby
Posted By: confused89
Subject: trying to have a baby
Date Posted: 24 February 2011 at 7:03pm
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hi guys and gals
please help me if you can in november 2010 i had a m/c at 7 weeks along and bleed for three weeks then was given the all clear from a scan i receive my first period six weeks later which was the 30/12/10 and ended on the 3/1/11 since then i have not had a period which on the 3/3/11 would make me 2 periods missed which is only one week away i have taken 6 pregnancy tests since the 30/1/11 and all negative and have had one blood test which showed my HCG levels at 0 i really want a baby me and my partner have been trying for nearly 3 years and this was my first pregnancy could i still be pregnant even though its all negative ive been trying to track when i ovulate and taking folic acid and having sex between one to two times a night ( :P ) my period were irregular before i found out i was pregnant some times would come any where from one week late to three and im not sure the dates as to how long my cycle should be 28 etc.. but ive been keeping track now so what im asking could i be pregnant can anyone help PLEASE |
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Posted By: luvmylittlies
Date Posted: 24 February 2011 at 8:14pm
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Oh honey, it's all so hard sometimes isn't it? I don't know when you had the blood test but unfortunately they are the most accurate test. I can't think of any way you'd be pregnant with HCG of 0. I know that's not what you want to hear though.
For some women it takes a little while to return to normal after a m/c and it sound like you were a bit irregular before anyway. But can you ask your Dr about it or get them to refer you to someone with a bit more experience with fertility issues? ------------- Adoring Mum to Talisin 8/9/11 and Kiara 18/01/10 |
Posted By: Hopes
Date Posted: 24 February 2011 at 8:23pm
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Hugs... it's so hard, isn't it? I second going to a Dr to check out what's going on. I didn't have a miscarriage, but my periods started off as fairly regular, and gradually got longer and longer apart - it turned out I had polycystic ovary syndrome. That doesn't - of course - mean it's even likely that you have too, but a Dr will be able to check where things are and rule everything like that out. -------------   
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Posted By: Hopes
Date Posted: 24 February 2011 at 8:28pm
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Back again - I saw from your other post that your current Dr hasn't been that helpful. My only advice - get a new one! They should do your basic bloods, and refer you to Fertility Associates (or the equivilent where you live). If you want - you can just self-refer to Fertility Associates, I did that, and wish I'd done it earlier in the journey. -------------
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Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 24 February 2011 at 11:04pm
| thank you for all your replys im going to go back to my doctor and if she dosnt help again ill see someone else and i think i mite even see the midwife i saw she was so helpful and see if i can get a scan to check maybe i have a block or something even though i have had one period since could that be possible ??? i was worried about having polycystic ovaries but i asked when i had my scans and they said i didnt can you get them any time ?? |
Posted By: monkeys
Date Posted: 25 February 2011 at 8:15am
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Hi confused, it is possible to have PCOS without actually having cysts on your ovaries, and they can come and go.
I too would doubt you are PG unfortunately however definitely think you should be pushing to find answers as to what is going on. It is a tough time following a MC, especially when you just want to be able to get that baby you dreamt of  -------------  3 little Angels July 10, May 11, Apr 13
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Posted By: confused89
Date Posted: 10 March 2011 at 8:48am
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hi guys
new update i still havent had my period my last period was on the 3rd of january 11 and its now the 10th march 11 my miscarriage was on the 1st of november 10 so its been 4 months and i still havent had my second period im so confused i was told when i naturally miscarried i had a scan two weeks after and was told eveything was okay i just had a clot left that came out two days later and then i got a normal period six weeks later and now nothing last month i took around 5 pregnancy test and had a blood test which showed my hcg levels at 0 should i take another blood test and pregancy test im so confused its worrying me i want it so bad but now i just want my period to feel normal again im not stress im trying my hardest to focus on other things can anyone help %( ASngel baby 1/11/10 |
Posted By: astral_monkey
Date Posted: 10 March 2011 at 9:40am
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Argh, that sucks!
For me a two month cycle is not unusual (start of last year I was averaging about 50 days, and had one 70 day cycle, with PCOS). So I wouldn't freak out - it is most likely just from the m/c. Stress can be a major contributor to cycle irregularity, and by the sounds of it you're pretty stressed. That might be all it is holding up your AF. [I'm sorry but I really don't think you're UTD, the blood tests sound pretty conclusive.] The best advice has already been given - get a new doctor! You would be amazed how much of a difference finding the right doctor can make. Also, a doc can give you Provera to bring on your AF, which may get things moving again. Good luck! ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  |
Posted By: GuestGuest
Date Posted: 10 March 2011 at 9:48am
| I second what astral_monkey said above. And if you want to feel like you are back in control of your cycles you could always start charting. At least that will give you some indication of what's going on. |