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Topic: Choose 3 things
Posted By: MrsMojo
Subject: Choose 3 things
Date Posted: 23 January 2011 at 8:30pm

I recently read an article about someone preparing for her wedding day.  A friend gave her the advice to choose 3 things she really cares about and if something goes wrong with anything else she wasn't allowed to stress about it.  I thought this was a super idea and I've decided to apply it to my life this year and it's already liberating so i thought I'd share.

The 3 things I really really care about this year are:

  • My wee family (this was my way of making DH, DD & DS count as one)
  • Being able to pay all our bills on time
  • Having a family overseas holiday

I am not allowed to stress about anything else. 

What would your 3 things be?



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Posted By: mrsturtle
Date Posted: 23 January 2011 at 8:34pm
Mine are very similar,

Family
settling into a house and not having to move!
having a holiday (anywhere)


Posted By: monkey33
Date Posted: 23 January 2011 at 8:37pm
Hmm only 3, that's hard!!

*My family and managing to balance home & worklife
*Completing the bits & pieces needed on our house to get it ready to go on the market, and then find a bigger home
* Having a decent family holiday somewhere in NZ or Australia at Christmas

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Posted By: Raspberryjam
Date Posted: 23 January 2011 at 9:04pm
that is hard!
OK

* My little family
* Not overspending on Everything!!!
* Looking after myself better - both physically and mentally! (including lots of pampering )

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Posted By: Kazper
Date Posted: 23 January 2011 at 9:15pm
Family (DH & DD)

Do more things as a family this year and treat ourselves to more things

Get fit and healthy

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Posted By: AngieBabe
Date Posted: 23 January 2011 at 9:23pm
Oooooo, hard to narrow it to 3, but here goes:

*My family
*Building my friends network now that I'm in Christchurch
*Getting and staying fit and eating more healthily (kinda go hand in hand so made it all one )

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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 23 January 2011 at 9:26pm
*besides my fanily, which I think is a given,it would be...

*paying off my credit card
*fitness/weight loss challenge
*mental health

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Posted By: myfullhouse
Date Posted: 23 January 2011 at 9:31pm
Same as fattartsrock, family is a given

* trying to save some $$ rather than only just getting by at the moment
* keeping PND at bay - coming off meds and feeling great at the moment, but staying well and then being good while TTC #3 sometime this year
* trying to get more of the house completed before building consent is up towards the end of the year

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Posted By: MyLilSquishy
Date Posted: 23 January 2011 at 9:32pm
my family
getting my business off the ground
my health (mental and physical)



lol does that combine too many things?


Posted By: james
Date Posted: 23 January 2011 at 9:45pm
my fam
my wight loss
pasing my course

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Posted By: rachndean
Date Posted: 23 January 2011 at 9:56pm
Being an amazing mummy and wife to my lovelies!!
Turning all this amazing inspiration I have going around in my head atm into something real
Keeping positive and focused in my job

Thank you for this! I am going to print this out tomorrow and it is going on my wall!

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DD Savannah 18.01.04
DS Austin 04.09.08


Posted By: rorylex
Date Posted: 23 January 2011 at 10:46pm
being that family is a given

* having my house organised, Decluttering and keeping it that way etc.
* adding to our family
*Getting a new hobby to help me find my old non mummy self.

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Mummy to 4 boys
Samuel - 18.6.05
Rory - 15.7.06
Mason - 13.06.08
Emmett - 24.01.10
Baby #5 - cooking


Posted By: HuntersMama
Date Posted: 24 January 2011 at 9:35am
* DS (of course!) and hoping for a better year health wise
* Finishing my post grad studies this year
* Saving, saving, saving!

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Posted By: Nutella
Date Posted: 24 January 2011 at 12:08pm
being that family is a given

* having my house organised, Decluttering and keeping it that way etc.
* adding to our family
* Saving, saving, saving!

haha copied off the previous two posts.....but they covered what I want to achieve this year.

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Posted By: karenb_chch
Date Posted: 24 January 2011 at 3:44pm
Three things that I am 'allowed' to stress about this year ...

* learning how to be a good mum (or any kind of mum)
* keeping the family finances balanced on a single income
* continuing my weight loss (actually losing weight while pregnant) and improving my health and fitness.

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