Impatient and frustrated!
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Topic: Impatient and frustrated!
Posted By: kiwisj
Subject: Impatient and frustrated!
Date Posted: 07 January 2010 at 6:45pm
I just need to have a moan really, because just when I thought I knew my body it is really confusing me! 
My cycles have always been 28 days exactly (weird I know lol). We started TTC #2 this cycle, plan was to BD every day from CD 10 and hope we got lucky  Worked with C and we're happy to do that this time for a while before charting "properly."
Anyhoo, I'm now up to CD 31 with no AF and still getting BFNs  Which is peeing me off because at least if AF arrived I would be closer to OVing next time
I don't really have a question I guess, just needed to get that off my chest! I'm still hoping (a little bit) that I might get a BFP at some point but with C I got one the day before AF was due... Argh! (and apologies to anyone who has been trying for ages. I know this probably seems really lame, but I really am confused about what's going on.) ------------- SJ Callum - Dec 2008 Daniel - Oct 2010 |
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Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 07 January 2010 at 6:57pm
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Aww hugs hun.
I can relate.... I was never nice and regular but 31-37 days never earlier never later. First 3 cycles have been 40, 39, 40 so figured that was the norm. Alas, CD47 and no sign of ov or AF! No point taking a test at this point as Prog test on CD38 was 0.5 LOL Definately no ov at that point.... Very annoying! -------------   
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Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 07 January 2010 at 7:34pm
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Can I join in?
I came off bcp 12 months ago and back into 28 day cycles, had a 35 day cycle in June and then regular 35 days on vitex until September when that cycle lasted 43 days. Its now been 50 days since my last AF and no BFPs. I could easily say I'm jealous of both of you cause you've already got beautiful babies but that would be unfair. Annoyed and frustrated ahh just a bit. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">   [/url] Angel June 2012 |
Posted By: kiwisj
Date Posted: 07 January 2010 at 7:46pm
Dang mrsg, that must be REALLY frustrating!!! 
I feel bad for being so impatient about it all. But it's the not knowing that's the worst part for me at the moment. As much as I hope you guys get your own answers soon, I do love this forum coz there's always someone who "gets it" ------------- SJ Callum - Dec 2008 Daniel - Oct 2010 |
Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 07 January 2010 at 8:48pm
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Aww Fleur....
I would get so annoyed with people like me when I was TTC.. "you already have one (or more) babies stop being so greedy" especially after the mc. I dont mind if people feel that way about me.... I totally get it I so hope you get our BFP really soon!!!!!! -------------
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Posted By: kiwisj
Date Posted: 08 January 2010 at 1:07pm
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(maybe TMI to follow)
OK so last night I was getting some brown spotting when I wiped, but nothing actually in my knickers. Wore a pad to bed thinking AF was on the way. This morning - NOTHING, not even when I wiped. Weird weird weird. ------------- SJ Callum - Dec 2008 Daniel - Oct 2010 |
Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 08 January 2010 at 1:11pm
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That's what I had a last week, wiped and got pink, wore a liner all day and nothing this lasted for 3 days with a tensy bit of brown in cm on the last day.
Got a BFN yesterday so no clues as to what that was. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> [/url] Angel June 2012 |
Posted By: kiwisj
Date Posted: 08 January 2010 at 1:17pm
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mrsg that sounds exactly like what I had yesterday. Hmmmm .... I haven't bothered testing today (down to my last one now!) and am going to go see my gynae next week if AF still hasn't arrived. ------------- SJ Callum - Dec 2008 Daniel - Oct 2010 |
Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 08 January 2010 at 2:17pm
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I'm off to my Drs next week too as this is getting frustrating. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> [/url] Angel June 2012 |
Posted By: Rachel1982
Date Posted: 08 January 2010 at 3:48pm
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Mrsg that's a really normal feeling.
my best friend got pregnant after being off the pill for a week and BDing once... When DH and I started trying I was acutely aware of the 'standard' that had been set and got a bit stressed out each month when AF arrived... She kept asking how my 'little project' was going and I felt like a failure. I think the key was stopping stressing about it. easier said than done though! ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: Bobsta
Date Posted: 09 January 2010 at 8:00am
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kiwisj, I think no matter how long anyone has been trying, it is just as hard and frustrating to get that BFN. I too am a fairly regular gal. I have 29-31 day cycle, it has never varied from this except once. Last year I had a random cycle that was 34 days
I hope it happens for you soon, hang in there ------------- Me 34 Him 35 DD almost 2 years old and... Baby #2 on it's way! http://www.babygaga.com/" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: kiwisj
Date Posted: 09 January 2010 at 7:04pm
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Thanks Bobsta.
Well, AF has arrived with a vengeance today so either that was a random long cycle or ....? Am thinking about charting this month so I can figure out when I'm ovulating, specially if my cycles aren't going to be so regular any more
On the bright side, DH and I have Date Night tonight so I can enjoy a wine or three and not feel too guilty about it 
Thanks for letting me vent my frustrations! ------------- SJ Callum - Dec 2008 Daniel - Oct 2010 |
Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 10 January 2010 at 1:02pm
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Glad to hear AF arrived (in the sense that now you know what the go is).
Good luck for this cycle! -------------
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Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 14 January 2010 at 10:05am
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I'm off to my GP this afternoon to get some help and advice with TTC, I'm a little bit scared as to what he'll have to say. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> [/url] Angel June 2012 |
Posted By: sem
Date Posted: 14 January 2010 at 11:44am
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Good Luck with the doctors appointment mrsg1! Will be thinking of you ------------- Here we go again, another baby on it's way! 
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Posted By: kiwisj
Date Posted: 14 January 2010 at 12:51pm
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Good luck at the doctor's mrsg1!! It's nearly afternoon in NZ now .... hope it went all right hun ------------- SJ Callum - Dec 2008 Daniel - Oct 2010 |
Posted By: mummyofprinces
Date Posted: 14 January 2010 at 12:58pm
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Thinking of you Fleur!!! -------------
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Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 14 January 2010 at 12:58pm
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I'm going at 4 so won't be back till later. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> [/url] Angel June 2012 |
Posted By: Hopes
Date Posted: 14 January 2010 at 1:57pm
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Good luck at the Drs, hopefully it goes well. -------------   
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