9 months - a phase or what?
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Topic: 9 months - a phase or what?
Posted By: Blankney94
Subject: 9 months - a phase or what?
Date Posted: 08 November 2009 at 10:45am
DD is just over 9 mths old. She is going through a very cranky phase, and I'm wondering if it happens to everyone else as well? 
DD was VERY frustrated and grizzly for the month or so before she turned 9 mths. Then she learned to shuffle forward - kind of a commando crawl. Happiness filled the house for a couple of days , and then she went back to grizzling. 
DD used to be content to play quite independently, but now seems to need constant entertaining and my close presence. I know the clingy thing is a developmental thing at DD's age. However the constant grizzling and having to think up new and interesting entertaining ideas is quite taxing!
She is a litte bit snuffly at the mo, but not a full on cold, and she is also a heavy teether, having 10 teeth already. I just don't know if there is a problem I should be taking her to the doctor for, or if most babies of her age go through this sort of grumpy phase? It's like she's had a little personality change!
Hope my ramble makes sense! 
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Posted By: FreeSpirit
Date Posted: 08 November 2009 at 10:52am
Clingy, grizzly, cranky baby - sounds like ninemonthitis to me!
Your ramble makes perfect sense to those of us who remember our babies at 9 months old. It's just a phase, I promise. Give her the time she needs, help her to feel secure and loved, and it will all be over soon.
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Posted By: kellie
Date Posted: 08 November 2009 at 11:25am
Yep definitely a phase. We just went through it lol.
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Posted By: jano1
Date Posted: 08 November 2009 at 11:59am
We are coming up to 9 months and the grizzles are in our house too
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Posted By: fire_engine
Date Posted: 08 November 2009 at 12:21pm
Yup, FB is right - ninemonthitis. It does get better but it's just a hard few weeks. They continue to go through clingy phases (15monthitis) but it wasn't nearly as bad.
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Posted By: _SMS_
Date Posted: 08 November 2009 at 1:08pm
Yep, ive just been through it too.
I found i was always out of the house visiting people, shopping doing anything that would keep her entertained.
I found every minute at home she would just grizzle and there is only so much of that you can take before you go nuts lol.
I think with my DD it was also teething.
I hope it will end for you soon
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Posted By: kiwisj
Date Posted: 08 November 2009 at 1:42pm
Ugh C is 9m adjusted and he is like this at the moment too. Grump grump grump unless we're out and about and he's being entertained. Totally different baby! DH has just had to take him out for a walk this morning because C woke up grumpy I think we're about to get 2 more teeth too - ugh again.
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Posted By: palomino
Date Posted: 08 November 2009 at 2:31pm
ah so thats what we have just been through. I got a heap of exercise going out and about and suprised i havent worn out the wrap and the pram
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Posted By: peanut butter
Date Posted: 08 November 2009 at 4:22pm
9 months is definitely a phase. It lasts about a month...and then is replaced by 10 months
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Posted By: Blankney94
Date Posted: 08 November 2009 at 8:15pm
Oh good (in the nicest possible way). I'm not the only one! 
Yes DD is entertained just fine when we are out and about. Unfortunately we have had the crappiest weather in the last week and I haven't wanted to subject her to that, so we've spent a lot of time at home. I've spent the week listening to her go "grrrr, grrrr, grrrrr!" Sometimes she will get grizzly about an hour after waking, sometimes she will be grizzly upon waking.
Would be interested in any ideas for games we can play or anything that keeps DD amused for longer than 5 mins. We play peek-a-boo, banging kitchen implements together, mainly music, reading books, songs, coffee group and a few other outings. Also encouraging crawling. DD doesn't seem to have much of an attention span at the mo. Don't know what else I can do. At least we might get out in the pram if the weather is better this week.
Thanks for your replies - it really helps to know I'm not the only one! 
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Posted By: whitewave
Date Posted: 08 November 2009 at 9:43pm
Yep, Cam's 9 months old today, and he's been like this for about 3 weeks already! Hope it passes soon! I think he is also getting frustrated because he wants to move, but can't get the hang of crawling at all!
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Posted By: Blankney94
Date Posted: 09 November 2009 at 12:09am
Yes DD's really frustrated about the crawling, Whitewave. Sometimes she will start crying with the amount of effort she puts in trying to get that bum in the air! 
Also I forgot to mention the night wakings.... yes the dreaded night wakings have made an appearance (about a week ago)! DD has been a fairly dependable night sleeper - maybe one or two wakenings for a dummy replacement, then immediately nodding off.
Can all of you guys tell me whether this night waking happened to your 9 mth old? DD will sometimes go to sleep just fine, but will wake after about an hour, then try to stay awake for at least two hours. She cries if we don't sit in with her, and if we do sit with her, all she wants to do is burble and make eyes at us.
I don't like the controlled crying, but sometimes it's either that, or sit in with her for hours. I'm very impatient, so hubby sits in with DD sometimes, and then we get no couple time. 
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Posted By: AandCsmum
Date Posted: 09 November 2009 at 5:17am
Yeah we've had this bloody up at sparrows fart wanting to socialise crap going on too!
Didn't realise it was a phase. Hopefully its a short one
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Posted By: Babe
Date Posted: 09 November 2009 at 8:32am
I got night waking with Jake at 9 months - mentioned it another thread a couple of days ago actually and all that worked was CC he really was trying it on there wasn't anything wrong since I'd dose him with pamol, offer him a drink and check his nap.
I found he actually went through a growth spurt at 9 months plus teeth of course and it was almost like he was overtired which made him grizzly but he wouldn't sleep well coz he was too achey maybe? I ended up wearing him alot.
Hope it sorts out for you guys soon 
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Posted By: Blankney94
Date Posted: 09 November 2009 at 4:18pm
*waves* to Kel and Babe.
Another 1 hour sleep last night followed by 2-3 hrs of wanting to stay up. It's almost like she thinks she's going down for a day nap, not a night sleep.
Anyway, today Brooke is sunny and happy and slept very well for her morning nap. Not a grizzle! Hope this is not temporary!
We did the check naps, remove blankets, remove sleeping bag - and as a last resort pamol. Basically everything we can think of. I've been wearing Brooke a lot lately too Babe. I'm taking advantage of all the lovely cuddles while she's so clingy! 
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Posted By: whitewave
Date Posted: 09 November 2009 at 4:30pm
Yeah, its affecting Cam's sleep too - mainly his day sleeps, but night time too. Thankfully he's going back to sleep after a quick BF at night time, but he's back to co-sleeping with us! Day sleeps are so erratic, but they're getting better slowly.
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Posted By: Blankney94
Date Posted: 09 November 2009 at 11:29pm
Brooke is asleep and has been that way since 8pm - only one waking for a dummy replacement, immediately nodding off. She has been sooo good today and has played independently and no grizzles at all. Teeth, earache, growth spurt??? Guess we will never know.
Our day sleeps went to crap too Whitewave. Sometimes Brooke would get all clingy and not want me to leave the room, sometimes she would lie there for a bit and squawk when she couldn't settle, or sometimes she would have her nap - but only 45 mins. So unpredictable and I couldn't get much done around the house.
Fingers crossed for this week. Need Brooke to sleep as we are shifting things from one house to the other.
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Posted By: AandCsmum
Date Posted: 10 November 2009 at 9:45am
That house went up fast..or at least seemed like it from here
Yay hopefully your good sleeps are more common now! We instead are having crap nights
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 10 November 2009 at 10:45pm
Ohh I remember this phase Caden went through the exact same thing, drove me bonkers. He grizzled and got grumpy as soon as he got bored of what he was doing or playing with, thankfully for us, he stopped being grumpy as soon as he could walk at 9 1/2 months.
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Posted By: Blankney94
Date Posted: 11 November 2009 at 11:57am
Hi Beck - your baby is just 3 days older than Brooke!
Brooke gets hot pretty quickly. She sleeps in a sleeping bag (still swaddle-style), with nappy and woollen singlet underneath. She also has two blankets and a duvet and a thermostat heater. We are turning the heater down very low these nights as it only gets a little cooler in the wee hours - so the heater kicks in then.
Don't think the behaviour we've been having lately is due to warm/cold though. I think it was a developmental phase and she probably wanted to practice or go over in her mind a few of the things she has learned lately. And also I believe she was cranky with frustration at wanting to get moving / co-ordinate herself.
She's less cranky now - so must have been a phase. Seems like they are always going through something at sometime. Today we have a constipated baby - oh joy! 
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