The vent thread
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Topic: The vent thread
Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: The vent thread
Date Posted: 18 April 2009 at 11:48pm
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I've decided to make this thread, purely so I don't have to complain on other threads
feel free to make use of it ! My friend is acting like a grumpy old mare because I didn't call her early enough, never mind that I had an overtired child to get to bed tonight , now she isn't returning my texts, so meh to her . my bottom hurts, anyone know how to tell if you have piles ? and last but not least, apparently " can you load the dishwasher " appears to my DH as " please sit watching tv and do nothing " anything major, or minor , bothering you that you want to get off your chest ? feel free , its fun ! ------------- 
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Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 18 April 2009 at 11:55pm
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I'll join.
I've just finished #3 of 4 late shifts in a row (one more tomorrow), then I have a short-change to a morning shift on monday. ICK!!! and I want some bickies to dunk in my drink right now but haven't baked any.. so really my own fault but I'll complain anyway. ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja 
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 18 April 2009 at 11:59pm
bugger J, I don't know how you do late shifts and with 2 girls during the day  -------------
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Posted By: mum2paris
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 12:28am
lol, daycare, school, and a hubby that studies and is home alot. 
although, i must say, I am still always the first up to the girls, just snatch afternoon naps when ayja does if she's home. ------------- Janine and her 2 cool chicks, Paris & Ayja
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Posted By: angel4
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 7:59am
| il complain lol. My husbands bday was yesterday so he had a few mates round for a few drinks - thats fine. THey all came round at abuot 4pm in the thought that it would finish up early. DH had wayyyy to much to drink and has been vomiting since 4am this morning. GRRRRRRRRR he woke me up and then woke our son up. Plus im pregnant so couldnt have anything to drink last night and stil feel like vomiting this morning. I was also up till 2am waiting for him to come home and had to get up to henry when he woke. I am not a happy wife this morning. |
Posted By: lizzle
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 8:13am
| we went to the sound of music last night - great BUT the woman net to me was a tad...rotund, and took up her seat...and half of mine. THEN got home and found out someone had broken into mums car while we were at the show. crappy. |
Posted By: Babe
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 8:29am
Very sucky ladies 
I'm just being sympathetic  since at this point I don't have much to complain about (not that isn't my own doing anyway  )
Ooh no hang on DP is watching Star Wars and I HATE Star Wars and its only just started so I havta stay out of the lounge and since I'm in clean-up mode its slightly annoying!! Minor though. Big hugs hope things improve for y'all!! -------------   
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Posted By: xox6Girls1Boyxox
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 9:22am
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If you feel anything like a lump or something by your exit area then most probaly a pile....Dont strain to much and dont sit on anything cold like concrete, drink lots of water and try not to get constipated, have a nice warm bath & keep the area clean, use baby wipes if you have to LOL...If it is a pile get some anusol or proctosydel(sp)...
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caitlynsmygirl wrote:Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 10:06am
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The cream works really well! Can see where this threads going when discussion leads to bottoms.
I don't have much to complain about, only starting to feel a bit sorry for myself, now that we've finally decided to TTC and we're living apart during the week. Damn recession! ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">   [/url] Angel June 2012 |
Posted By: fallen
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 10:13am
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DF was on the computer playing that stupid WOW game from the time he got up till after midnight. The only times he got off was to eat and when I dragged him out to pick up the bassinet. Then he got up this morning and guess what he did straight away? Yeah, stupid WOW.
Now hes watching the James Bond DVD he got out yesterday that he should have watched last night. ------------- |
Posted By: monkey33
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 10:19am
My rant today is that the neighbour has a tree that has fruit on it (little yellow ones) and they keep falling on our driveway and when I drive down they squish all over my tyres and up the door! We have been cleaning all the fruit up every few days but we would have to do it every day to keep them all away and I don't have time  ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 11:37am
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I love ranting ! haha
My vent for the morning (just the morning ) is that my DH is STILL IN BED !!!, suppose the poor dear is tired , after watching Top Gear episodes til 3 in the morning . and despite my daughter's proclamations of love for me last night , this morning she informed me that she hated me because I wont buy her subway for lunch . -------------
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 12:15pm
Kelly your vent sounds like i couldv written it!! my DH is obsessed with top gear!!! and yes it is booked for tonight at 7.30pm like every sunday!!
i was just comming in to have a vent about Bailey telling me he hates me!! his attitude is very horid today!!! I just took the boys to the dog show and all he did was moan!!!
My other winge is that im fat and tired and have to do the housework!
the inlaws are comming over for the usual sunday afternoon tea and coffee and Dh inocently informed me last night that MIL textd him to say she was looking forward to the cake i was going to bake for us all to have!!??....he was happy at the thought of cake too until i told him that that was the first i had heard of it!!!  ........so now i have to bake a cake dont i!! seriously im not a baker!!! very far from it!!!
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Posted By: AandCsmum
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 12:42pm
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Screw em Amber....go buy the most manky looking one from the local shop
Kyla, I'd be real loud 
I'll complain...someone sat on one of our chairs friday night & broke the leg! It was waiting to happen but I asked DH to prop it up & it was annoying me on an angle, so he sticks a water bottle under it! (luckly Babe it didn't decide to do it one person sooner!) ------------- Kel http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Babe
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 12:59pm
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LOL was that one I sat on?? Ouchie I'm so glad it wasn't me!!!!!!!
I'm doing a weird rant - I'm being such a grumpy cow today and I don't know why and its driving DP abit nuts!!! Its not PMS (that was last week  ) and the only thing I can think is that I'm abit tired. Its super annoying though I hate being a grouch (but enjoy it at the same time lol) -------------
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 1:10pm
heres another vent!!! and sorry in advance to all the cat lovers on here but i HATE cats!!! this has come from living next to a lady who had 18 of them!!! and they would jump in my windows and piss everywhere including on my kettle on the bench!!! but anyway some people moved into a rental a few months back and we all of a sudden started having problems with cats again! well i just found out they have 11!!!!! eeeww!!! and i just found one of them pulling the rubish out of my wheely bin!!! we have to pick the rubbish up every morning now as that is the sight we see when we open the curtains!!!
I wish there was a rule against that many cats!!! Once again sorry to all the cat lovers!!! |
Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 2:00pm
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good grief ,surely noone is allowed that many cats ??
I have to work tomorrow, and I don't want to , im too lazy . -------------
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Posted By: Babe
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 2:25pm
I'm still grumpy 
Is that many cats legal?? Thats terrible!! -------------
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Posted By: Snappy
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 2:27pm
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I have a vent.
DHs grandmother and Aunt bought his cousin a wedding dress off trademe for her upcoming day. They decided to show it to me before showing her. It was from the 70s-80s, big puffy shoulders, a big bow and lace right up to the neck. My face must have dropped because they turned to me and said "WHATS YOUR PROBLEM KYLIe!!!! DONT YOU LIKE IT?!!!!!!!" and I said "Oh, its just a bit old fashioned, not my thing but im sure she will love it." They replied "Yes well, she certainly wont want to be showing her shoulders like YOU did on your wedding day" Jeepers, sorry for being in fashion folks!
Then, his grandmother calls DH to say "Oh, well x has seen the dress and she LOVES it, so I dont know what Kylies problem was" Grrrrr..... ILs suck! ------------- Mummy to two beauties... Formerly Kaiz. |
Posted By: my4beauties
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 2:39pm
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Eek Kylie! That dress sounds horrid! I would've dropped my jaw too when I saw it! And WHO buys some ELSE'S their wedding dress??!!!!
My complaint? My 19 month old son knows how to grease me!!
Aaaannnnd, I have a sore lower back, and crampy tummy, and a bit of a headace. ------------- My babies: R (9),G (7), J (5) http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Just now he was standing on the table which the t.v is on, so when I told him off and went to get him, he gives me this cheesy grin and when I picked him up and gave me the biggest snuggle! Aww, how can I be angry at that?!?!Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 4:16pm
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yeah right she liked it the hideous sounding dress wimpy cousin was probably too wimpy to say she hated it .
That or shes a freak . I have taken agin them . -------------
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 4:17pm
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I wouldnt have thought that THAT many cats would be legal but apparently nothing council can do!!
Kylie gez that dress sounds gross!! i think it wouldv been more than my face that dropped when i saw it!!
Anoushka sounds like a baby comming on funny i thought that when i read it then noticed your ticker!! heres to another gorgous mini Italiah!!
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Posted By: Mama2two
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 5:13pm
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I am tired!
Plus I really want cookies but can't be bothered making any. Sam is in a cra$$y mood today and has dropped her day sleeps so I didn't even get an hours break from it! Roll on 6.30! Oh, but the Amazing Race starts tonight so that is something good to look forward to anyway
Amber could you ring your local SPCA and pretend to be a 'concerned' neighbour about the condition/welfare of the cats maybe? ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Snappy
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 5:20pm
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Oh I dunno. Cousin kinda weird, still wears tie dye tshirts with matching skirts and purple lipstick. Meh, maybe she did.
18 cats is a bit of a concern! ------------- Mummy to two beauties... Formerly Kaiz. |
Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 5:46pm
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oh Kylie sounds like that dress is right up her alley then
We rung the SPCA when we had the problem with the last neighbour and her 18 cats and the SPCA said "well what are we meant to do with 18 cats?? as long as shes taking care of them!" well that neighbour and this new 11 cats neighbour do look after them because they look lovely and healthy BUT both ladies wont let people go into their houses claiming "its not smelling so good because of the animals"....eewwww surely thats a human health issue!!!... In fact all this moaning im doing is egging myself on and im really going to dig into it tommorow to see what i can do. on a side note - EEEEEWWWW!! DH IS COOKING VENISON STEAKS AND IT STINKS!!!!!!!!
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Posted By: Daizy
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 5:47pm
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Hmm I like this thread Kylie I have been waiting to hear what she thought of the dress cant believe she actually liked it! ------------- 
 
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 5:49pm
Sterryn if i could i would "will" a chocolate miffin i made through the internet for you
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 5:55pm
oh Daizy im sorry you not feeling very happy right now
you should stick your DD2 on his lap with her stinky bum and let him deal with it!!
My DH pulls the old "oh i didnt even smell it!!"..yeah right!!! If it helps you have alot of lovely friends on here im sure
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Posted By: FionaO
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 6:02pm
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Daisy sorry to hear you are feeling crappy - just gonna send you some hugs.
My rant is over people with loads of kids, telling you what NOT to do with your child. Just today we had DH's uncle round and he had lots to say. He has 4 kids, and everytime he comes round he tells us we need to be noisier so Finley gets used to noise, but its just me and DH in the house so why would we be noisy. He says not to use a dummy, not to let him suck his thumb oh and told me off for going to pick him up when he woke from his nap. Now don't get me wrong, I love having people to ask who have kids and can help, but its the random comments I can do without. ------------- 
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Posted By: Babe
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 6:10pm
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Argh with you there Fiona!! Esp the on the dummy issue!!!!
Hey Daisy-girl you can come see me I'll suss out your girls for my son haha seriously though we'll do coffee and playdate
Eeeuw yeah Kylie IL's can be such a PITA! Who on earth lets someone buy them a wedding dress that they haven't even seen?????? Oooh you little slut lol showing your shoulders horrifying
(ETA can I say slut? I'm joking btw!!) Amber can DH take a bb gun to the cats??? -------------
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Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 6:15pm
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I currently have a torn rotator cuff (basically farked shoulder) and I did all the housework today cleaned up and DH just sat on the couch and played his Tiger Woods game on PS3. I asked him to put the rubbish out and he didn't so I ended up doing it, when he heard me doing that, he came out and said "I was just going to do it" PFFT...and then after that had to pop some Paradex...and have been sore ever since.
I think he might be redeeming himself, he's going to get me Butter Chicken for dinner!... He's still lazy though ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3) 
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Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 6:16pm
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Oh and Amber, hate to tell you this. Top Gear isn't on tonight, so you might have a sulky husbo. ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3)
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 6:30pm
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hahaha Mel - I thought he had booked it then i saw him do it just before followed by "oh what the f**K!!!!??? where is top gear!! now i have nothing to look forward to!!!' poor bobo!!
mmmmmmm butterchicken!!!!! 
babe i would love to tell DH to do that...but alas my concious is getting the better of me
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 7:16pm
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concious smonsious , shoot the beasts
Ha, Mel , DH does that too, I ask him to do a job , eg , empty the dishwasher , then 2 hours later its still not done, so I start doing it, he hears me , comes out and says "what are you doing ? I was going to do that " SURE ! He has put a whole bunch of coke bottles by the back door, whats stopping him from opening the door and putting them in the recycle thing is beyond me . -------------
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 8:27pm
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im going to yell mine.
I HAVE A HANGOVER AND I FEEL A BIT SECOND HAND TODAY DH IS WATCHING FRICKEN SPORTS ON TV AGAIN, BLOODY MOTOR RACING WHICH HE APPARENTLY HATES. I NEVER GET TO CHOOSE WHAT WE WATCH AND THEN HE MOANS THAT I SPEND ALL NITE ON COMPUTER I WISH MY SS WOULD MOVE OUT I AM SICK OF HIM LIVING HERE ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: MissCandice
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 8:39pm
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Watch out mines going to be long.
1. I have a severe toothache, followed by a severe headache. 2. I think Kylah may have the measles. 3. I have the most heartless, selfish, mean partner in the whole entire world!! ------------- ~ Mummy to a beautiful girl ~ |
Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 9:12pm
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Kandice we thought Astin had the measles this past week but it turns out that it was actually a bad reaction the actual MMR injection!
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Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 9:36pm
Hmmm interesting. I've heard of so many kids reacting to this lot of imms... hence why I havent done Coopers yet. OH another vent. We got Butter Chicken which was just devine, but the big meany didnt get dessert! ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3)
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Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 9:39pm
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I can't be f*cked doing anything and I have essays due and work to catch up on before starting practical next week.
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Posted By: Mama2two
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 9:50pm
Oh Man, now I want cookies & chocolate muffins ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 19 April 2009 at 10:00pm
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now I want cookies and chocolate muffins !
my back hurts , and im sick of having heartburn , why does my unborn child hate me ? why ? And frigging Caitlyn got "delta dawn " stuck in my head -------------
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Posted By: Mama2two
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 8:37am
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I am going to start today...
I am so sick of morning sickness! Honestly, shouldn't it be gone by now! It gave me some false hope last week and then came back with a vengence! Ugh! I am feeling sad today because it is a horrible rainy day and I miss not having a Mum to talk to about preggie & toddler stuff
I am still tired - but it seems to be a constant state of being for me these days.... and.... I STILL WANT COOKIES!!! ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: rachelsea
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 9:11am
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Hehe cool thread, my rant for the day is: the book I'm reading keeps saying "speeded up" instead of "sped up" GRR it really annoys me lol. It's set in London just after WW2, is that really how they spoke in those days? ------------- DD 4yrs DS 2yrs http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: FreeSpirit
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 9:40am
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Grrrr, red headed devil spawn not eating solids (mega tantrums when I offer) not sleeping (tantrums in cot when I try to put her in it, followed by 5 minutes of play then another screaming fit) biting my boob when I feed her (yeh I love that!) . Just generally not being the beautiful, kind, loving-natured child that I normally have at home with me. *sigh* it will be better later. ------------- http://www.babysfirstsite.com"> 
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Posted By: weegee
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 9:47am
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Awww, hugs Bridget! Sounds like Elizabeth is going through that horrible whiny 9 month phase like all the others... apparently it passes in a couple of weeks! (I can't wait)
Rachel, that would tick me off too! I want SLEEEEEEEEEP but I have assignments to do and my house is falling down around my ears, why is it that DH doesn't seem to notice the mess? ------------- 
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Posted By: WRXnKids
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 10:10am
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AAARRRGGGHHH - my rant
almost finished a post and Josh learnt how to turn off the computer dish master blew up yesterday so all dishes need to be hand washed mum and sis have been away so i have had to do all the washing cleaning and cooking with very little help except the kind of help you get from a 15mth old so everything takes 10 times as long bank didnt get back to me friday so i have had to wait all weekend and am still waiting for the call to say if they will give us a mortgage or not Josh is whining and trying to drag me to the door wanting outside and is now playing with the chair controls so im practically sitting on the floor face planted against the screen im having a bad moment as you can prolly gather -------------   
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Posted By: Babe
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 10:15am
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I'm cold and the house is a tip and I wana go back to bed -------------
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 10:25am
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my rant - its peeing down out and im dying to go out and pick up all the rubbish that those mungrel cats have left all over my front lawn!!! but i dont want to get sick!!!
Terri i feel your pain RE the bank thing!! last year when we were buying this house we were waiting for the phone call on the thursday which never came and i didnt want to be annoying by ringing him!!! he ended up ringing at 4.45pm on the friday!!!! the whole time was one of the most stressful times in my life!!!
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Posted By: Hopes
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 10:46am
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Oh, this is brilliant! I'm very sorry for all of you.
I'm having a very blah monday indeed. DH is working in Taupo for the week, so I'm home alone. My morning at work has been one crisis after another... not good! AND, one of the parents of a child in our Youth Group sent me an email with some concerns he's got - all very valid, and he was polite, but I just don't want another thing to worry about. Phew. Feel better now -------------   
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Posted By: kiwisj
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 10:56am
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My rant for the day:
Stupid AF is back (well since last week) and C woke up at 5.30 this morning when he's been sleeping through for nearly 2 weeks now. Boo. Bad timing coz we have friends here at the mo and have plans with them today - and I can't bail because we havent seen them in 2 years and theyre on their way back to NZ and only here till tomorrow. Will just have to look forward to an early night on Wednesday! ------------- SJ Callum - Dec 2008 Daniel - Oct 2010 |
Posted By: BessieBear
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 11:03am
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The baby has his first cold and he has, just at this moment as i was reading the page, pulled half the stuff out of the bottom of the pantry and is crying coz I said no AND now his nose is running more, and I hate kids with their yucky runny noses. ------------- Sarah Mum to, Boy 07/2008, Girl 03/2010, Boy 05/2012, Angel  07/08/2014
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Posted By: clover
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 11:27am
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My rant is about pantihose,
I am sick to death of going through the toes or a ladder starting in the gusset of them. If I snag them and make a hole then fine, my fault, but it pisses me off that I have just had to go and get another pair of $15 tights because I had a ladder running down each leg from the gusset, they are the correct size and everything, just poorly made. That is the last time in a long time that I am going to be ladylike and wear a dress!! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 12:54pm
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im working and its boring ! and its raining outside ! -------------
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 1:06pm
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ggggrrr!! we sent 1 of our lazyboys (they are 8 months old) away to be fixed because wev had constant problems with it and we still havnt got it back!!!! 8 weeks later!!! I rung them 2 weeks ago to see what the deal is and she said "oh sorry its actually still sitting in the warehouse and hasnt been sent off yet but should go next week and ul get it back the week after"!!!! WTF!!!! it sat for that long not being fixed!!! F**K!!!!!! and going by what she said we shouldv got it back wednesday just gone!!! USELESS!!!!
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Posted By: rachelsea
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 1:38pm
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Another rant: I was planning to have a pyjama day, but the baby power chucked all over my pjs!!! So I had to get dressed ------------- DD 4yrs DS 2yrs http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">
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Posted By: BessieBear
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 2:35pm
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Ha, I cant stay in my jamies very long cause I get this yucky sick feeling it very wierd. ------------- Sarah Mum to, Boy 07/2008, Girl 03/2010, Boy 05/2012, Angel 07/08/2014
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 7:22pm
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I feel nauseous , and Im feeling very very grumpy , C has managed to break the vaccum cleaner and I just feel meh overall .
Work today , people are starting to ask when im due , then they ask if its my first and I say no, so they look shocked , and disapproving , YES . I know, I look young , and what ? Ive done a good job with Caitlyn despite my age (which was 20 when I had her , not even that young for goodness sakes ) -------------
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Posted By: busyissy
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 7:35pm
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What a great way of getting all those niggly annoying things off our chests. Here goes
Went to a late lunch at Mil's yesterday, Isobelle was supposed to be sleeping and I directly asked them not to wake her so what did they do? They woke her up Then got home to find DH's dad had bought us a hare that he shot. DH left the bloody dead carcass sitting on my kitchen bench for about 2 hours, so gross
Isobelle cried for 3 hours straight today. It was pouring with rain and I had to go out and my only pair of clean pants got soaking wet. But when I was feeling fed up and sad my darling little boy brought me his Bear to cuddle and gave me a big hug and kiss. He's such a loving, gentle soul. Then we spent the afternoon making popcorn and pretending to be aeroplanes!
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Posted By: AN E
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 7:48pm
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Thanks for your rants - some of them make me laugh . Expecially about the wedding dress - I can't believe it!!! Tho I suppose if you are happy about someone else buying your wedding dress then I guess you can't expect much!!!
- Sorry to those of you feeling uck tho - that's not nice! Stuff them Caitlynsmygirl - we don't care about ages here!!!! My rant Can I trade in my own mother??? Every word that comes out of her mouth is disapproving - and if I do follow her 'advice' she will tell me how I am doing it wrong next week! Grrr - she's now threatening to move away mmmmmm.... Gee I wish I had a supportive mum! The house is filthy - Little miss has a screaming fit if I turn it on, and then throws up everywhere. mmmm... more mess!!!! I have a cold I have an exam next Monday night Little miss has decided its good to wake at 4-5am the last few mornings Upsides I don't have to go to Tauranga for work this week and
I think I will take tomorrow off to feel better Hugs to those that need them
OK - off to find chocolate and a cup of tea~!~~ ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 8:17pm
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My house is filthy too ! I suppppose I could clean it tomorrow .
Or not . Not sure if my vent is that Im lazy or my house is messy .... perhaps both .... still feeling nauseous , and now my shoulder hurts . Ahhh , i love venting , even when its nothing major , its refreshing -------------
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Posted By: AandCsmum
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 8:39pm
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My printer has stuffed it'self. I reckon Alia did something but DH said you were the one that printed last! Hmmmm
It worked when I used it & i didn't turn it off! So someone else did something and then turned it off!
I hate technologically savy children...hands off my puter! My arm hurts from my flu jab. ------------- Kel http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: AandCsmum
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 8:40pm
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Ohh I got to vent twice!
Ohhh forgot to say...can you swing a picture of the horrid dress? Maybe off her trademe listings? ------------- Kel http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: AN E
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 8:47pm
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haha... was just about to say... don't you hate it when your message gets posted twice!!!
But you changed it!
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Posted By: Hopes
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 9:02pm
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They bought her a dress?? Ooohh.... I'm glad no-one pulled that one on me! I'd love to see it too!
Our neighbours have friends over and they've parked in our spot. As I don't want to be a push-over, I'm going to have to ask her not to let people park there. I hate things like that. I also ate half a tub of ice-cream. And that's not a wee weight-watchers tub either. It tasted good, but now I feel slightly ill
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 9:13pm
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ooh what kind of icecream was it ?
Im hungry , but dont know what to eat .... -------------
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 9:13pm
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double post -------------
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 9:15pm
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frigging triple post ! gah , my computer is being sllooooow tonight ! -------------
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Posted By: Snappy
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 9:19pm
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Cant even find a dress even NEAR what she bought her!!!
"Oh Kylie you should see it, its worth $699 and I only paid $35 for it." Yes, well, thats because its from 1985!!!!!! She said she didnt care whether she liked it or not, because she doesnt have any daughters and this is the only chance she will get to do this sort of thing (This is her niece thats getting married) She also said the Husband to be is NOT allowed to wear the brown suit with pink shirt he is insisting on ewearing, and "How dare he not wear a tie to the event" Event, by the way, is in the backyard so far. Which is fine, im not against that in any way, but for a backyard wedding its no wonder he doesnt want to wear a tie!? She doesnt have any money to buy a dress anyway. Actually she probably thinks the dress is really neat! And now I have to face them the next time I see them, just how do I explain WHY i didnt like it? WHY on earth do old people insist that old things are lovely?! ------------- Mummy to two beauties... Formerly Kaiz. |
Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 9:26pm
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Tell them point blank that the dress is ugly and what you would expect someone to wear if we were still in 1985 and singing "material girl " in front of the mirror as we applied our hair gel and scrunchies and had Madonna blaring from the tape deck because noone has CD players yet .
Tell her its hideous and either the cousin is 1) scared to say what she really thinks 2) is obviously a bit "challenged" and its great she has found someone or 3) she clearly does love it , and she fits in well to the family . Tell her your dress was better and didn't make you look like a meringue . And if you cant tell her all of that , say it in your head , you'll feel a lot better ... -------------
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 10:16pm
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haha kylie your cracking me up!!!
well i have a few vents (whats new!? LOL)... 1 - theres a morpork outside my bedroom window creeping me out!! 2 - DH threw a tanty bcos i wouldnt go to bed with him at 8.30!!! i wasnt tired!!!! so iv come to bed and now hes annoying me!!! hes asleep but hes hogging the blankets and laying all over me!!! not cool bcos hes 6ft 4 and 100odd kgs!!
3 - my poor Astin has had another alergic reaction and has bad runs and spots everywhere!! and i dont know what he ate bcos he was at daycare all day!!\ 4 - my ear is soooo itchy and my feet are hot!!!.... oh that feels a bit better!!
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Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 11:05pm
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I just had a huge fight with my husband over (surprise surprise) step son, I hate his guts now and am so over this whole thing.
Firstly, he never does his one job, empty the dishwasher. and I refuse to do it, so the kitchen is often a pigsty by days end, so R ends up doing it. That causes a row cos I get bloody annyed with him doing SS jobs to "avoid a fight" cos then we end up arguing. Tonight, SS stripped off all his clothes bas a pair of boxers and a singlet and left them inthe middle of the lounge floor. I asked him nicely, about 4 hours later to please pick them up, he palyed deaf s his father did it. That really set me off. Then I did the stupid thing and said I am bloody well sick of living like this. And asked him to choose his marrige or N. Well I did that after a spectacular fight onthursday night when SS said something very chauvanistic to me and there was an argument (and I was inthe wrong, like I always am, according to husband,) I reiterated this tonight. I know it is selfish, but I am just so bloody sick of living like this. I am sick of Him catering to SS mood swings to avoid confrontation, which ends up with us arguing big time. Feels like we are being held hostage and manipulated big time. R dosen't see it like that tho. So thats my vent. AM sleeping on couch tonight and will move into the trundle bed in jakes room tomorrow. I am serious this time. I am bloody angry. ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 20 April 2009 at 11:18pm
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Oh FT that sounds horrible!!!!!! sounds like your SS is an A******E (sorry!) he needs a good kick up the arse!!!
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 1:04am
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God Fats! that SS of yours has your DH wrapped right around his finger, what a little sh*t ! does he live with you guys full time now ?
Its late, and Im up , im going to regret it tomorrow , but I only have myself to blame -------------
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Posted By: Babe
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 8:11am
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Isn't he 17 Fats??? Why can't he go live somewhere else?? -------------
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Posted By: AN E
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 8:22am
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hugs Fats Hope things go better today ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: MissCandice
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 8:26am
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Awww fats that sounds awful!! It sounds like that SS needs to go live elsewhere. Also your DH needs a kick up the backside for letting SS be contolling and manipulative!!
My vent of the day is i need a new car battery but cant afford one!! Why do they have to cost so much. Even a second hand one costs heaps! Its not fair. I now have to walk 10 mins to a bus stop in the morning with Kylah, bus her to daycare, then bus back to the bus stop i catch it at in the morning, walk ten mins home, wait for 30min and then bus to work. If i bus straight to work from daycare il be like an hour and a half early!! Woe is me! ------------- ~ Mummy to a beautiful girl ~ |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 9:30am
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He is living with us full time, and has been for the past 6 months (of hell) Basically he did the same thing to his mothers marriage and she booted him out and there is nowhere else for him to go. He is still at school. R won't send him to any other family becasue apparntly thats just passing the problem onto someone else, obviously he would rather wreck his marriage then grow some balls and tell ss to pull his head in. R thinks I need to just suck it up and deal with it nd carry on like this, but Im not sure how much longer I am supposed to live like this for, its not healthy for myself or the children and not healthy for R eiother, being piggy in the middle.
SS is a manipulative little sh*t. I am so unhappy and so need a vent. I have felt like this for a long time, and was very very close to walking out a couple of months ago, but basically have no money no furniture no idea where to start. If I leave, I have to leave my car and all the "stuff" is R's. I don't care about material stuff, really, but need at least soem chairs and soem beds, so? Then I am scared that if I leave I can't go back. We have been having councelling through the courts, which has been good, but we used up all our sessions and things have gone on the slide since they finished. I emailed the councellour last night, late, after I posted here, so am waiting to hear what he has to say RE going back. I do want my marriage to work, but its not going to work like this. Argh. Vent over. Off to have a shower and sort kids out. Kandice I hope you sort out your car issues soon. Thanks for "listening" I think I have worn my friends ears off about this and feel I can't talk about it to them anymore. ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: Snappy
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 9:59am
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Big hugs Fatartsrock I hope you get a reply from the counsellor. Sounds like things are really rough at home. Can you send him off to the army?
My vent, is DH woke me up at 11.30pm last night when he got home from work, to say "Oh so I have to make my OWN lunch do I?!" Yes darling, you do, because you texted me earlier to say that you wouldnt need any because you had a course tommorow and they would feed you". "Oh, did I?" he says. "Yes." Then he storms off and makes his lunch, gets into bed and asks what my problem was. Hmm, you woke me up?! "No, I said "Kylie, are you awAke?"! Well what the bloomin heck do you expect would happen when you said that in my ear buddy? That I would say "yes, Im asleep?!" grrrrrrr...... ------------- Mummy to two beauties... Formerly Kaiz. |
Posted By: Hopes
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 10:57am
Movenpick double chocolate. Mm.... There's still half a tub left, which may or may not still be there tomorrow
I don't have anything to vent about today. Yay. -------------
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Posted By: sweetpea
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 11:04am
| Ok my vent for today is that the bin man turned up dead on 7.30am i didn;'t have my bin out and wasn't about togo out in my nightie it was freezing out of bed. he has decided to come earlier because we live near a kindy on a crescent which and get quite congeste with people dropping off kids. this isn't my fault we have been here for 4 years why change now its not as if the kindy has just opened its been there for ages. The recycling vehicle seems to cope Ok so there is a simple solution make the vehicle smaller or do it when people aren't dropping off or picking up. |
Posted By: Candkids
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 11:30am
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ohhhhnhhhhh im liking this thread!!!!
agggggghhhhh i hate school holidays S is driving me mad with the "mmmmuuummmmmmmm im hungryyyyyyyyyy, mmmmmummmmmmm immm bored" every 5min the house looks like a tip! even tho i have cleaned it 3 times already! i dont know how she can destroy it so dam fast!!!!!!!! and then DH comes home and moans about how messy it is!
and i cant do the dishes or washing coz the council are doing the water pipes so have the water off on the upside DH FINALLY fixed the horn on my car which i asked him to do 2mths ago!! but he has done it now a week after i got backed into in town because . . . my horn wouldnt work!! well fancy that! ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  DD 10.5yrs DS 6yrs DS 11mths 5 little angles watching from above |
Posted By: first
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 11:43am
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I HATE TEETH. He gets one and for a week he is the lovely child then it all starts again. And the dribbling that is out of control. NO bib can contain it and I am sick of having him wet all day long every day. How am I meant to hkep his chest warm if it is constantly covered in dribble. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Babe
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 11:45am
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OK its so cold I have brain freeze and my fingers are numb (partly my fault coz I sat around on here in my towel instead of getting dressed straight after my shower and its taking ages for my circulation to start circulating again) but still its damn icy is anyone else cold??
Got the fire going thanks DP but still taking ages and ages to warm everything and I've still gotta bake bread, wash the floors, get Jakes room ready (on a bright note hes home tonight YAYAYAY!!!!), stitch up some pjs and a rice bag, get the stew on and unload and load the dishwasher its too cold to do anything except sit directly in fron of the fire and moan to all of you!!!!-------------
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Posted By: SMoody
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 12:10pm
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I watched a movie we recorded yesterday. Stupid film that was on Sunday night and guess what the ending never recorded. So now I wasted all that time and dont even know how the pathetic thing ends. I hate that.
Found out today what our c-section date is. Which is cool but now they decided if I go in labour beforehand that they will rather monitor and not do a c-section unless it is right in the beginning of labour. Yipee (not really). They did say we can discuss it if it happens. Another thing is they might not allow Grant in threatre if they have to put me under general (a really huge chance that might happen due to my back). And Grant is totally devastated about it as he was there for McKayla although I was put under as well. I really hope he can be allowed in so at least one of the parents are there for Andrew when he is born. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 1:40pm
haha , i read that first and thought your bin man had actually died . Im just feeling really uncomfortable today , C has a friend over ,thank goodness, so she's entertained . I really should clean my house , but I don't have the energy , besides, everytime I do , DH messes it up again (yeah , not C, DH does ) Ky, DH does that too "are you awake ? " no , duh , you said it in my ear . Fats, i hope your gonna be ok , you sound really down , im worried about you , you know you can always PM me if you need to vent even further, but in the meantime , make as much use of this thread as you can , thats what I made it for ... will go read other vents now -------------
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 1:46pm
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What was the movie Smoody ? and what ? thats not fair, shouldn't what happens in your birth , if you go into labour before your elected date, be up to you , and therefore if wanting a c-section is what you want , shouldn't they respect that ?? you had quite a difficult birth with Mckayla didn't you ? have I read that somewhere ?
Babe, yeah , im still cold, was very difficult to get out of bed this morning , thank goodness I have slippers cos we have wooden floors and they are coooold . Catz, yeah , thank god school goes back next week ! -------------
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Posted By: Babe
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 2:01pm
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Yep our wooden floors are cold and I'm in my slippers. I just went outside and its pretty warm unless the wind blows but inside is an icebox even with the fire going which is weird coz usually our place is toasty soooo ***teeth chatter chatter*** cold ***teeth chatter chatter*** -------------
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 2:07pm
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*teeth chattering as well *
mine ....toooo.......might make ,,,,,,,fire .......brrrrr! -------------
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Posted By: SMoody
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 2:11pm
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Posted By: Babe
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 2:28pm
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Yeeks the idea of being cut open makes my blood pressure drop!!! i do hope it all goes well for you though and as for the movie hmmm sounds abit b-grade! But once you start watching it you wana know the end right? Lol I'm like that!! -------------
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 2:51pm
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What was the title ? lets google it , haha im curious now !
I think its really unfair that they are now putting this unnecessary worry on you as far as your birth goes., its just going to be stressful for you , hoping you don't go earlier than the elected c section date. My god im being so lazy today , I just CBA'd! doing anything, I could be washing the dishes or vaccuuming but noooo, im stil on the computer . Actually , no , I cant vaccuum because C broke it last night .... What I really really want to do , is sleep , but I don't trust C and her friend on their own . ( C i would, for a while at least, Id sleep with one ear open , but not her and her friend ) and I don't know what to make for dinner ! -------------
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 4:58pm
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I am sooooo over bills!!
Astin keeps crying!!!! i took him to the doctors this morning for his D.....bum vommit!!1 (still cant spell it!!!) and his rash!! and he now has a reaction mixed with a viral infection!!
Bailey keeps eating with his mouth open!!! and not just open so you can see it! - open so you can hear every single jaw movement!! and crunch!!! sounds like a pig eating!!! its my biggest pet peeve!!!
My dogs are staring at me through the sliding door and they keep licking the door! so its covered in goobers!!
My house is a pigstye!!!! oh MAGIC FAIRY please bring me LOTS of money to pay bills and go shopping, please clean my house and make my son all better.....now to sit and wait for her to answer........ oh and DH has bad toejams from his work boots!!
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Posted By: lilfatty
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 5:13pm
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FFS! If you are lost .. or your car can not physically go faster than 20ks an hour .. stay the F off the Auckland motorways (actually just stay off any road)!
Do you not know that holding up a pregnant woman on her way home to dinner is NOT a good idea ------------- Mummy to Issy (3) and Elias (18 months) I did it .. 41 kgs gone! From flab to fab in under a year  http://www.femininefitness.co.nz/category/blog - LFs weight blog
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Posted By: Snappy
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 5:21pm
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Im waiting for the money fairy too
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Posted By: rachelsea
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 5:21pm
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I HATE FLIES!!!!!!!!!!!! ------------- DD 4yrs DS 2yrs http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 6:26pm
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me too ! and the cleanup fairy !
C's being a little madam , she "hates me " because I wouldn't let her friend stay over, im sorry but her friend really annoys me , she doesnt stop when you tell her too, eg, if they are play hitting you and you have enough and say to stop , she doesnt listen . and I suck at making fires, I want DH to come home so he can do it , but hes working late , again . -------------
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Posted By: BaAsKa
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 7:04pm
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my sky is out!! so im going to have a coffee with my mum, aunt and uncle because its lonely here and DH is hunting!!
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Posted By: Daizy
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 7:23pm
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Posted By: MrsMojo
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 7:32pm
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I've been sick since Easter weekend and it's not going away I'm basically a working solo mum on weekdays which is fine because unlike actual solo mums I have DH to help out on the weekends so I do get the rest that is a luxury to most solo mums but right now I'm a sick, pregnant, working solo mum and I feel miserable Plus I have so much work and personal bit and pieces to sort out before this baby arrives but I am suffering from a severe case of CBFA. -------------  
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 21 April 2009 at 10:23pm
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That sucks your still sick Jo ! you've been sick for ages now !
Im lonely , and i really feel centuries older than my friends sometimes , could be that I don't go to dance parties in a bikini and dental floss, I mean , shorts . -------------
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