Have u ever been angry with your DP/DH
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Topic: Have u ever been angry with your DP/DH
Posted By: IVFGirl1111
Subject: Have u ever been angry with your DP/DH
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 11:10am
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Around ovulation time?!
I was talking with a friend last night that knows we are TTC and she had had an argument with her man and she said that he wasnt getting any action for a week! And that lucky they werent TTC! Which made me think - if you were angry with your other half around ovulation time - would you put it aside just so you could get the um er sperm? Or would you just hold out until the next month?! I thought it was quite an interesting question! 
Me personally if I was angry with DH - I wouldnt want to be bd'ing so we would miss ovulation that month and hope he was better the next month!  ------------- TTC 6 years IVF it is IVF/ICSI round one 10 eggs, 8 mature, 3 fertilised BFN IVF/ICSI #2 = 22 eggs! 20 mature, 15 fertilised, 1 fresh transfer and 2 frosties BFN 2 Frosties still in freezer thank god |
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Posted By: VioletStar
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 11:20am
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Lol!
Um yeah I've been peeved with DP round O time and we still BD'd - we did it for the cause lol I wouldn't do it if I didn't have to take pills to get AF and then take Clomid to O, but for me to do that and not BD round O time would seem like a waste. ------------- Formerly Wishin41 |
Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 11:32am
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Maybe, if he's not getting any action then neither am I. However at the moment I'm avoiding bd'ing at O time. so no probs there. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">   [/url] Angel June 2012 |
Posted By: freckle
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 11:37am
Funnily I've been thinking about this question too! I have been so damn tense with DF during ov this month that we haven't taken full advantage of this fertile time!! TTC really is so stressful isn't it!?! next month I am determined to try to relax a bit more and not obsess about it as I think that leads to most of our tension and is not conducive to BDing  ------------- mum to 3 lovely girls :D |
Posted By: Emily281
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 12:12pm
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Hey BooBoo
I think it would depend on how angry I was at him. In the past we've not done it around O time, but at the moment we've got limited cycles left to try naturally so if we didn't I'd feel like we were wasting a month. But if I was really really p*ssed at him I probably wouldn't BD. ------------- TTC#1: Jan 07 Aug 08: Lap found and excised Stage 3 Endo Nov 08: 2nd lap clear - given OK to TTC after next AF |
Posted By: kebakat
Date Posted: 16 January 2009 at 12:16pm
I wouldn't, i'd just try and sort it out by the next day and hopefully have a go then lol
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Posted By: WestiesGirl
Date Posted: 17 January 2009 at 12:02am
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lol!!!! I would put it aside then sort it out later nuf said!!! ------------- Our Angel July 08  Gone but not forgotten
And to complete our family, our princess has arrived 
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Posted By: tiptoes
Date Posted: 17 January 2009 at 9:17am
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I'd leave it for that night and try the next day as it would just be too much to BD when I was angry. Though if the fight was over something little I might try and calm myself down and get over it I guess - but if I was still angry I wouldn't. ------------- http://alterna-tickers.com">  
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Posted By: Emily281
Date Posted: 17 January 2009 at 10:13am
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I guess the bigger question for me is how much effort I'd put into getting over it. If it was O time I'd probably work a bit harder to work it out than if it wasn't O time. ------------- TTC#1: Jan 07 Aug 08: Lap found and excised Stage 3 Endo Nov 08: 2nd lap clear - given OK to TTC after next AF |
Posted By: weegee
Date Posted: 17 January 2009 at 10:47am
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hmmm there's definitely something to be said for angry BDing though ------------- 
Mum to JJ, 4 July 2008 & Addie, 28 July 2010 |
Posted By: lilfatty
Date Posted: 17 January 2009 at 8:20pm
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Wouldnt that be make up sex? ------------- Mummy to Issy (3) and Elias (18 months) I did it .. 41 kgs gone! From flab to fab in under a year  http://www.femininefitness.co.nz/category/blog - LFs weight blog
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Posted By: Treen
Date Posted: 19 January 2009 at 10:30am
| We missed my biggest day of ferning ever due to an argument. Haven't had ferns like that since. Sad. |