Not TTC
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Topic: Not TTC
Posted By: AzzaNZ
Subject: Not TTC
Date Posted: 27 November 2008 at 2:45pm
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I just need a place to vent, let off a little steam... we arent TTC but I am dying to have a second child.
Its not the right time (we've just moved country, started a new job and only have one income)... but my biological clock doesnt listen so well. Worse is that DH is pretty happy just having 1 child. I wanted 4... how is 1 a compromise? Gah!!! 
How to get the cluckiness to go away! |
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Posted By: caliandjack
Date Posted: 27 November 2008 at 2:57pm
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You could come over to the waiting to TTC thread!
There are a few of us feeling like you do, wanting a child but not quite ready for one reason or another! ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">   [/url] Angel June 2012 |
Posted By: lilfatty
Date Posted: 27 November 2008 at 3:22pm
Maybe once he gets to grip with the whole SAHD thing he will be all guns blazing for more  ------------- Mummy to Issy (3) and Elias (18 months) I did it .. 41 kgs gone! From flab to fab in under a year  http://www.femininefitness.co.nz/category/blog - LFs weight blog
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Posted By: AzzaNZ
Date Posted: 27 November 2008 at 3:30pm
We're hoping he wont be a SAHD for too long - he has applied to join the police but its a long process. I've stopped talking about it because he makes jokes and its stopped being funny already 
It took us 2 years to get pregnant with Isabella so even if I did convince him there's a strong possibility it'd be a long wait. |
lilfatty wrote:Posted By: AzzaNZ
Date Posted: 27 November 2008 at 3:30pm
Thanks! Should I move or cut and paste this into that thread? |
Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 27 November 2008 at 4:56pm
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just come and join the waiting to ttc. There are tonnes of us and pages and pages of chatter!
We are only waiting to ttc cos we are too scared to have #2 yet, after having bad birth, ptsd and pnd. We prob wont be ttc to mid-late next year now. |
Posted By: ooEvaoo
Date Posted: 27 November 2008 at 6:33pm
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I can't wait to have #2...but not the right timing for us as well. DP works, I'm studying...and will be for the next 3 years....he said we can start when I'm in my last year of study....so 2 years....my biological clock isn't ticking......well i've just turned 24 so if anyone says that it is I'll punch them!! lolz. But really miss the experience of pregnancy and all. You're just like me...want to have 4 kids (maybe more hehe) where as DP would settle for 1 or 2....not an option I'm sorry!!. Anywhos I'm convincing myself that I can study with a new born.......and am planning in my mind to TTC end of next year.........wanna lose weight first...and then have bubs near the end of year 2......or in Year 3 sometime....Now just have to convince DP! ------------- 
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Posted By: AzzaNZ
Date Posted: 27 November 2008 at 9:41pm
Good luck - with losing weight and with convincing DH! I am so hoping he will change his mind and that we'll be in a better financial position mid to end next year and would then be able to start trying for a second |
Posted By: ooEvaoo
Date Posted: 27 November 2008 at 10:21pm
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Well fingers crossed for both of us!! -------------
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