Theres no baby there :(
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Topic: Theres no baby there :(
Posted By: Bubbaloo
Subject: Theres no baby there :(
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 9:44am
Well went for a scan yesterday afternoon as the brownish discharge turned to bleeding and started clotting Dr said cervix was still closed so sent me for a scan the couldn't see baby  they said it could have been to early but really think baby has left us got to go back to Dr tomorrow still have bleeding and clotting.------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  Was danni-chick Mum to James My Angel 28/07/08 |
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Posted By: Leelee
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 9:50am
I'm so sorry to hear that Danni, my thoughts are with you. Take care of yourself  ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: Roksana
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 9:56am
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Oh no...so sorry Danni. Big Hugs Hun!! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: pikelets
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 9:56am
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Oh no Danni - that is so awful for you. I don't know what to say but I hope that wee baby is hiding in there somewhere.
Take care hun ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
 3 Angels - Dec10 / Mar11 / Dec11
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Posted By: VannesaD
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 10:04am
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Big Hugs Danni
Take care ... -------------  
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Posted By: my4beauties
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 10:18am
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Oh sweets, I'm so sorry to hear that! ------------- My babies: R (9),G (7), J (5) http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: catcase
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 10:20am
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big hugs Dani I am so sorry to hear that. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Genie
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 10:29am
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Really sorry to hear, its a very tough thing to go through. Take care of yourself and accept the support of others too. ------------- 
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Posted By: Cassie
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 10:36am
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oh Danni, so sorry to hear hang in there, big hugs ------------- ~Cassie~   
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Posted By: caraMel
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 10:38am
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Danni, I'm so sorry. ------------- Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and: 
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Posted By: .Mel
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 10:50am
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Oh Danni, so sorry to hear that... take care... ------------- Mr Mellow (16) Miss Attitude (8) Destructa Kid (3) 
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Posted By: ElfsMum
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 10:54am
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Danni ------------- Mum to two amazing boys! |
Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 11:54am
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I'm so sorry Danni ------------- 
 
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Posted By: My3Sons
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 12:19pm
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Danni, ------------- Mum to Mr 10, Mr 6 and Mr 4 
 
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Posted By: LockieandLiam
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 12:26pm
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Big hugs to you all Danni. ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: kezplanet
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 12:48pm
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Poor Danni, my thoughts are with you .... ------------- Kerryn, Mum to Ashlyn(29/3/04), Anastasia(1/11/05) & Abigail (24/02/09) |
Posted By: jack_&_charli
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 12:48pm
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awww hun i'm so sorry!!!
take care of yourself..thinking of you ------------- http://www.alternatickers.com"> 
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Posted By: Aprilfools
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 12:49pm
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Big big BIG hugs sweetheart ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: meow
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 12:50pm
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Posted By: rachndean
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 1:06pm
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Thinking of you Danni |
Posted By: FionaS
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 1:13pm
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------------- Mummy to Gabrielle and Ashley |
Posted By: susieq
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 1:39pm
| Big hugs Dani |
Posted By: aimeejoy
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 1:47pm
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Awww, Danni I'm so sorry to hear this. Take care... ------------- Aimee Hannah 22/10/05 Greer 11/02/08 |
Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 1:56pm
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I'm so sorry Danni
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 2:05pm
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Im really sorry to hear that Danni, how did you get on at the doctors?
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Posted By: Danaj
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 2:32pm
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Sorry to hear that chick. I had the same problem back in March. I was surprised how heart broken I really was. Everyone said "maybe next time" or the old clangger "oh well, it's natures way of taking care of a problem"
WTF? Like we need to hear that! I nearly punched someone who said that like it was just easy to move on and forget. ------------- http://www.TickerFactory.com/weight-loss/wyI1oWn/"> 
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Posted By: Mum_mum
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 3:15pm
Hey Danni, Am sorry to hear that too, it is totally heart breaking! I had a M/C in may and it totally knocked me for 6. had such a beautiful idea of pregnancy and now ..... but many girls on here have gone on to be pregnant soon after, they are my role models 
And I agree Danaj, why do people always say that "its natures way so you don't have an unhealthy baby" well that certainly does not help you moron!!!  ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: AliaDawn
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 3:51pm
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it just isn't fair, and I dont' really know what to say, but the pain does get easier to bear over time....
Edited to clarify. -------------  
 
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Posted By: busymum
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 6:00pm
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Posted By: Maya
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 7:14pm
More hugs Danni  ------------- Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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Posted By: AnnC
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 7:40pm
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Hugs Hun to you and your family ------------- Ann 
Also Mum to Josh (15) and Brooke (10) |
Posted By: Brenna
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 7:48pm
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Thinking of you ------------- My beautiful 2 girls...nearly 4 and 13 months
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Posted By: WestiesGirl
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 8:46pm
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Awwww Hun Im soo sorry.... ------------- Our Angel July 08 Gone but not forgotten
And to complete our family, our princess has arrived 
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Posted By: Gracielou
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 9:23pm
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I'm so sorry Danni, sending big hugs to you and your family ------------- 
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Posted By: Mum2L
Date Posted: 29 July 2008 at 11:12pm
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Posted By: Bubbaloo
Date Posted: 30 July 2008 at 10:03am
Thanks everyone for the hugs it means a lot you guys are awesome. ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> Was danni-chick Mum to James My Angel 28/07/08 |
Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 30 July 2008 at 10:15am
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Im so very sorry Danni
My thoughts are with you and your family
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Posted By: Rackhell
Date Posted: 30 July 2008 at 10:24am
| Sorry to hear about your news, danni. |
Posted By: Kels
Date Posted: 30 July 2008 at 2:54pm
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Posted By: EmDee
Date Posted: 30 July 2008 at 2:55pm
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I'm so sorry Danni ------------- DS 8 DD 6 DS 4 DD 2 |
Posted By: emachan
Date Posted: 30 July 2008 at 6:54pm
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Big hugs to you Danni - I know what its like to have all your dreams taken away like this so suddenly.
Theres lots of us who have posted on the miscarriage board with similar stories, so remember to post there for some extra support. *hugs* ------------- http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow">  DD#1 Sept 08 DD#2 Oct 09 |
Posted By: bass.baby
Date Posted: 25 August 2008 at 12:06pm
Heyaz Danni, hope all is well and baby was being cheeky and hiding - let us know how it goes! Big cuddles ------------- http://women.evenhealth.com"> 
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Danni-chick wrote:Posted By: kmarie
Date Posted: 27 August 2008 at 8:17am
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Aw Danni, so sorry to hear that. I know how devastating it is - I m/c twins in october last year. All the platitudes in the world didn't make a difference because all I could think of was the little ones I'd lost. As you can see by my ticker, the story goes on from there... but it took me quite some time to move to a point where I could see my way forward. Hang in there, and remember that you're not alone.
Big, big, BIG hugs
Kristy ------------- 
twins in heaven Oct07 Is 40:11 "He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart." |
Posted By: kmarie
Date Posted: 27 August 2008 at 8:18am
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(And let yourself grieve as much as you need to.) -------------
twins in heaven Oct07 Is 40:11 "He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart." |