Any Teen Mum 2 b’s???
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Topic: Any Teen Mum 2 b’s???
Posted By: Guests
Subject: Any Teen Mum 2 b’s???
Date Posted: 25 March 2008 at 2:36am
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Any teen mum 2 b's out there? If so please say hi to me!
Claire |
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 25 March 2008 at 12:01pm
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Hey Claire,
I'm Nikki, and I used to be a teen mum (well, for a month!) and I am from Rotorua originally - head back up there now and again as Mum still lives there. Did you go to school in Vegas? Who is your midwife? |
Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 25 March 2008 at 12:04pm
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Oh yeah, more questions -
Have you been to an antenatal course? There is a one day teen preggo course run which is quite good... you get to meet a few other young preggo mamas. I was quite a lot older than many of them there so didn't really make any friends but it was good anyway. |
Posted By: AliaDawn
Date Posted: 25 March 2008 at 12:15pm
Well I'm a teen mum... but I don't feel or act like a teenager  -------------  
 
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Posted By: cuppatea
Date Posted: 25 March 2008 at 12:21pm
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One of the ladies at my coffee group is only 17, so don't feel like you can't make friends with us oldies. ------------- 
 
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Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 25 March 2008 at 4:25pm
| I was a teen mum too. Ask at your local plunket for any young mums groups I used to go to one and have just started up another one so if theres none you could always start one? |
Posted By: BabyOnBoard
Date Posted: 25 March 2008 at 5:44pm
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How old are you if you are a 'teen mum'? ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 25 March 2008 at 6:08pm
| anything with -teen at the end? |
Posted By: M.i.s.s.y
Date Posted: 25 March 2008 at 6:49pm
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Im 21, but my SIL was 16 wen she had her beautiful daughter. Shikia-Lee is now 2, & doing gr8. Her mum has done an awesum job, wif lots of love & support from our family. -------------    
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Posted By: BabyOnBoard
Date Posted: 25 March 2008 at 7:26pm
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Lol I'm a teen mum (already had my bubba tho) ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Daizy
Date Posted: 25 March 2008 at 7:57pm
Well I was only 19 when I had Keira, I'm 21 now (almost 22  ) and on to my second. I guess thats close enough. I have always felt a lot older than most teen mums (They have them really young around here) but a lot younger than the rest. ------------- 
 
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Posted By: bub
Date Posted: 26 March 2008 at 9:35am
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hey there i was only 18 when i had my First daughter Brianna im now 22 and halfway threw my second preganacy. im glad there is alot more younger mums out there than i thort. im just half and hour out of rotorua. ------------- mother to Brianna, Amelia & Mathew. http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 26 March 2008 at 11:06am
Thanks girls. I felt really alone and was feeling that "im the only teen mum 2 b" at the moment. It was horrible at antenatal classes as all the other parents to be were in their mid to late 20's 
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Posted By: nikkitheknitter
Date Posted: 26 March 2008 at 12:33pm
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If you get in touch with Carolyn Fitch at the Rotovegas health centre - she might be able to put you in touch with a young mums group. She was my midwife and I know she takes on a lot of younger clients (as well as being the clinic midwife at Rotovegas)
Worth a try 
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Posted By: BabyOnBoard
Date Posted: 26 March 2008 at 1:39pm
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I know that feeling! Everyone in my class was 35+ Didn't matter that I had a partner. . Still was hard ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 27 March 2008 at 7:41pm
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I was 19 when i was pregnant with C ,and it wasnt so bad when i was pregnant cos I was at Bethany ,which is a place for young mums, but when i went out with her after she was born it was difficult, because I might have been 19 but i look young, so I looked about 14, and i didnt have a partner, and the looks I would get sometimes , woah! you would think I had committed some crime!
But i decided if they werent going to change their attitudes, i would change mine and get a stronger back bone and walk proud with my beautiful daughter ,knowing that im doing the best job i can do
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Posted By: Angie
Date Posted: 27 March 2008 at 11:08pm
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I was only JUST 16 when I had my first 14 years ago & really hope that attitudes have changed since then - OMG some of the staff at the hospital at her birth & after when she was admitted for other issues were ... ummm .... well... the only words that i can think of to describe them shouldn't really be posted here!!! ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: bub
Date Posted: 28 March 2008 at 10:48am
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you must be ready for your boys claire you'll have to let us no when they arrive. ------------- mother to Brianna, Amelia & Mathew. http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: youngmum
Date Posted: 28 March 2008 at 11:16am
hi im a teen mum, im 19 now but got pregnant last year when i was 18. im married too, got married last jan. i only know one other young mum who has already had her baby but i am going to go to the antenatal classes aimed at teens.  ------------- http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: chonny
Date Posted: 28 March 2008 at 1:59pm
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i'm not quite a teen mum, but not too far off. I was 19 almost 20 when i got married, (4 days of it actually) and then got pregnant and had V when i was 21. all the other people in our antenatal class were in their 30's! i only have one friend who is a young mum, and she is three years older than me. so if you will allow me, i'd like to get to know you. i'm not a teen as i said, but not far off it. Alia, i didn't realise you were a young mummy too. -------------   
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Posted By: chonni
Date Posted: 28 March 2008 at 2:07pm
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hi im a teen mum in wellington im 19 now and got pregnant on my 18th birthday (i call her my late birthday prezzy lol) i also felt alone when i was pregnant me and my partner were separated then and the looks that i got and sometimes still get but thats their prombem im a great mother better then some older ones i know and even my docs and midwives said was that most of the teen mothers and just as good or even better then some other people. theres lots of soport out there. ur gunna love being a mum ------------- 
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Posted By: NeoshasMummy
Date Posted: 28 March 2008 at 2:35pm
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Hey Im Jess I was pregnant at 17 had my daughter at 18 and now im 19 with a 10 month old daughter called Neosha and im currently ttc #2!!! ( fingers crossed for a boy!)
------------- https://secure.fertilityfriend.com/home/30c4ec/" rel="nofollow">  Mrs Te Kani ❤️ Neosha 26/5/2007 |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 28 March 2008 at 5:32pm
| here's a silly question Jess.... i hear people talking about TTC alot. What is it??? |
Posted By: BabyOnBoard
Date Posted: 28 March 2008 at 5:50pm
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TTC - Trying To Concieve.
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Posted By: AliaDawn
Date Posted: 28 March 2008 at 5:55pm
Haha... I'll take that as a compliment  I was 17 when I had Seb, so pretty young I guess! But then I was pretty fed up with the whole teenage thing by about 16 1/2... just wasn't my thing! Can't stand large parties, drunk people, cigarette smoke, I don't drink myself, and absolutely hated high school esp the students! (in general that is, I still made some pretty neat friends at school)-------------
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chonny wrote:Posted By: flakesitchyfeet
Date Posted: 28 March 2008 at 6:29pm
Sounds like me! I'm 21 and look 18 when I am lucky, I still get ID'd for films etc. I was never a typical teenager and due to I guess what you would call life's circumstances I grew up faster then I probably would have. I was engaged at 19, married at 20, and now pregnant with my first. Not quite a teen mum, but younger then other pregnant people I have met so far. My youngest brother is only 4, and I had alot to do with his upbrining. He taught me the greatest respect for young mums. What amazing women so dedicated to their children, they grow up alot faster then most people out there! Although my brother wasnt mine, the general public didn't know that and I can't get over the reactions I got when I took him out for an afternoon. |
Posted By: NeoshasMummy
Date Posted: 28 March 2008 at 7:38pm
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Yeah its Trying to concieve ------------- https://secure.fertilityfriend.com/home/30c4ec/" rel="nofollow"> Mrs Te Kani ❤️ Neosha 26/5/2007 |
Posted By: chonny
Date Posted: 28 March 2008 at 8:39pm
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flake, that sounds like me. engaged at 19, married just before 20 had first baby at 21. now on 2nd, but very much alike.
Alia, i wanted a kid at 16! but had no one to have it with, and parent's wouldn't have agreed etc etc. and then life threw some major curve balls, hence it wasn't til i was 21 1/2 that i had vincent. -------------
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Posted By: JPP
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 12:04am
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Heya, I had my eldest son when I was 18 (can't believe that's a decade ago on Monday!) I also went to Bethany though any decent teen antenatal/coffee group will give you the same benefits, help, contacts etc that you'll need.
One thing that I really, really wished I could of heard when I was having Nathaniel was for someone to tell me that being a young mum is NOT the end of the world or your life as you know it, it is NOT something you should ever be ashamed about and that you should be really proud for bringing beautiful children into this world. Age isn't a deciding factor in good vs bad parenting; effort and love are the only things that matter. I have known a 14 year old mum (25 now) who has a bright, loved and happy child as well as knowing a mother in her 40's who really doesn't have a clue nor (sadly) care too much for her kids. My hats off to you having twins, it's not going to be easy at times but there really ARE amazing, wonderful moments gained in life from having children that makes the worst day turn into the funniest. Don't think of yourself as a 'teen mum' you are MUM to the ones that really count no matter what age you are, pure and simple ------------- http://lilypie.com">  http://daisypath.com">
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Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 8:22am
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My partner is younger than me, so he is going to be quite a young dad and couldnt be happier about it
At Antenatal class on the first night, a lady I was talking to just "Assumed" I was the youngest in the class lol! I dont look 25 I look about 18 to most people lol. I ALWAYS get Id'd in places where they dont know me lol ------------- |
Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 5:12pm
Yeah, im 26 and I got ID'd for an R16 film a couple of years ago, and to add insult to injury.....it was for HOUSE OF WAX
Due to circumstances when i was 18 i grew up faster, but up until then i was your typical rebellious lazy teen Are your boys identical Claire? thats very exciting,all those cute matching outfits
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Posted By: AliaDawn
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 6:30pm
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I really feel for young mums who look even younger! I think I was able to pass for 16 at 13... I was pretty tall even then, 5"6 or 5"7... (am 5"9 now) I could get into clubs at 15 without ID... so I figure I must look at least in my 20's now. -------------
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Posted By: AliaDawn
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 6:32pm
I wanted a kid at 16 too... but I wasn't quite stupid enough to try for it (totally wasn't set up for it, and Mike wasnt anywhere near ready) but I wasn't exactly going to cry over it when it happened by accident (although Mike did freak out a bit lol)-------------
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 7:31pm
Yup they are identical. We have brought alot of matching oufits but done it in different colours ie same pants but different colour tops. or same all in one but one of the boys has navy blue and the other one has baby blue. i just thought it was cute. but then again on the other hand we have also got alot of un-matching outfits to give them a bit of individuality... if you get what i mean! UPDATE ON THE LABOUR FRONT: Been having alot of very strong tightenings across my tummy and bikini line this afternoon. A family friend came around today and she reckons im going to have them late tonight or early tomorrow morning. Take Care everyone |
Posted By: NeoshasMummy
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 7:33pm
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Wow u sound really close! Good luck with the birth if u do! ------------- https://secure.fertilityfriend.com/home/30c4ec/" rel="nofollow"> Mrs Te Kani ❤️ Neosha 26/5/2007 |
Posted By: chonny
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 10:11pm
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good luck claire for hte upcoming birth, i hope things do happen for you and this is just not a fals alarm. You are doing really well to be 38 weeks hun! most twins are born early. well done and yea, good luck -------------
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Posted By: caitlynsmygirl
Date Posted: 29 March 2008 at 10:16pm
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You sound really close!
goodluck hun,hope it all goes well :-) |
Posted By: bub
Date Posted: 30 March 2008 at 9:42am
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cool goodluck claire look foward to hearingwhen the boys arrive sounds like its not to far away. ------------- mother to Brianna, Amelia & Mathew. http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Kallie
Date Posted: 30 March 2008 at 1:45pm
Ditto!! i was 19 when i got married and will be 21 when bubs is born. I still look 17 or 18 though so always get starred at when we go into town or anything , havent started antenatal classes yet but hopefully we dont get any bad experiences! Good luck with the labour Claire!! |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 30 March 2008 at 5:22pm
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No Babies yet!
My cellphone numbers: Telecom 0275200889 Vodafone 02102438790 |
Posted By: AliaDawn
Date Posted: 30 March 2008 at 5:26pm
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Hopefully you haven't bought too many prem clothes then! Seb was born at 38+3... 1 day earlier than you are! And he was 3.33kg -------------
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Posted By: catie
Date Posted: 30 March 2008 at 6:15pm
I'm not a teen mum - a looong way from it - but I just wanted to second what Jadey said. Both my sisters were teen mums, and one of my neices and I really wanted to be, but 20 yrs and a lot of water under the bridge later I still aren't a mum - but hope to be real soon. Good luck to all of you - I'm sure you will be/are great mums. |
Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 30 March 2008 at 8:00pm
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Ooo good luck I hope everything goes well. I'm not sure if I'm allowed to put it up here but there is a different forum I go to for nzteenmums and there are a few of us on there so pm me if you want the address.
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Posted By: kasbee
Date Posted: 31 March 2008 at 10:24am
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Goodluck Claire, i so know wat you are going through with having twins myself.
Sounds like the boys are not too far away. How exciting for you :) Is your nidwife going to deliver them or are you under an obstriction (sp?). Keep us posted. ------------- Kelly, mother to 4 wonderful children. http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 31 March 2008 at 11:27am
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Still haven't had them. I've got a midwife and her back up that will both be at the birth as well as us having the obstatrician thats on duty work alongside the midwifes.
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Posted By: chonny
Date Posted: 31 March 2008 at 12:37pm
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how are the contractions? -------------
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Posted By: NeoshasMummy
Date Posted: 31 March 2008 at 4:59pm
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Oh r u having contractions? ------------- https://secure.fertilityfriend.com/home/30c4ec/" rel="nofollow"> Mrs Te Kani ❤️ Neosha 26/5/2007 |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 31 March 2008 at 8:12pm
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Na they only ended up being Braxton Hicks girls. SORRY!!!!
Anyone got any ideas on how to FORCE labour on???!!!??!?!?!?!?!?! |
Posted By: chonny
Date Posted: 31 March 2008 at 8:20pm
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pm me and i will tell you how i did it
and no castor oil just tastes gross and doesn't do anything, mind you anything you do do will only work if the boys are ready. -------------
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Posted By: NeoshasMummy
Date Posted: 31 March 2008 at 9:01pm
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Yeah dont try the castor oil, I went two weeks over and it STILL didnt work. Bought on contractions but nothing came of it. Walking should help though ------------- https://secure.fertilityfriend.com/home/30c4ec/" rel="nofollow"> Mrs Te Kani ❤️ Neosha 26/5/2007 |
Posted By: BabyOnBoard
Date Posted: 31 March 2008 at 9:19pm
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They come when they want to come. . I was induced and still my little madam refused (As much as she could) to leave.. ------------- http://lilypie.com">
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 31 March 2008 at 11:34pm
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Yeh they do come when they want to but remember im 39 weeks nearly with TWINS!!!! and full term for twins is 37ish weeks. ARGHHH
And im pulled a muscle in my left shoulder and can hardly move it now. Ouch! |
Posted By: NeoshasMummy
Date Posted: 01 April 2008 at 8:10am
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eek I have always known of twins coming early as well, u must be VERY close ------------- https://secure.fertilityfriend.com/home/30c4ec/" rel="nofollow"> Mrs Te Kani ❤️ Neosha 26/5/2007 |
Posted By: JPP
Date Posted: 01 April 2008 at 11:29am
Hope the boys arrive soon for you, you must be very uncomfortable 
Good Luck!! ------------- http://lilypie.com"> http://daisypath.com">
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Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 01 April 2008 at 12:04pm
| Gosh 39 weeks! Wow u have done soooo well! They must be way too comfy in there! The best thing to bring on labour is sex,..but I doubt u feel like that! |
Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 01 April 2008 at 12:37pm
| No Kelly. I don't really feel like that. Tried that last night and hardly got any sleep coz i was uncomfy. |
Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 01 April 2008 at 12:44pm
| Unfortunatly theres nothing much you can do! Get as much rest as you can tho, your boys will be here very soon!! |
Posted By: chonny
Date Posted: 02 April 2008 at 12:34pm
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and walking actually doesnt help much. i was in labour i thought and so went for huge 3 hours walk, just tired me out mroe than anything! and you wanna save up your energy for when they do finally decide to come. -------------
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Posted By: Guests
Date Posted: 02 April 2008 at 3:18pm
| Waters have broken this afternoon. |
Posted By: NeoshasMummy
Date Posted: 02 April 2008 at 3:36pm
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Ohhhh they r ready to come out!!! Congrats and cant wait to hear all about it once you are home with ur two bundles of joy ------------- https://secure.fertilityfriend.com/home/30c4ec/" rel="nofollow"> Mrs Te Kani ❤️ Neosha 26/5/2007 |
Posted By: chonny
Date Posted: 02 April 2008 at 4:08pm
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yay claire! very exciting, just hope doesn't take too long for contractions etc to start for the end to arrive. good luck and kiss those boys lots of love. -------------
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Posted By: KweenJ3
Date Posted: 02 April 2008 at 9:28pm
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Hey ladies!!!! Im 24, will be 25 this yr but I too was a teen mummy and Ive graduated to young mummy hehe!!!! Got pregnant with my daughter Aiesha when I was 15 1/2 and had her at 16, she is now 8 1/2 yrs old... Got pregnant with my son Carlos when I was 16 1/2 and had him at 17, he is now 7 1/2 yrs old... Im now pregnant with my 3rd another lil boy and cant wait!!!! Im still with the kids daddy and altho I used to get the looks etc I didnt care as I was happy and thats all that matters.... I started a Young Mummies NZ forum on MSN so others in the same situation could chat to those who were also like them and feel comfortable about it.. this site is located in my profile if anyone wants it.... ------------- Jacinda, 26, Mum to Aiesha 10yrs, Carlos 9yrs and Brooklen 22 months:) |
Posted By: Salifer
Date Posted: 06 April 2008 at 7:19pm
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Hope you've all read the posts that Claire (Mum2sleepingangels) lost her baby boys on the 3rd April. -------------    
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Posted By: KweenJ3
Date Posted: 06 April 2008 at 7:28pm
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OMG nope havent read that, where is it??? SOO sad:( ------------- Jacinda, 26, Mum to Aiesha 10yrs, Carlos 9yrs and Brooklen 22 months:) |
Posted By: Rachael21
Date Posted: 06 April 2008 at 8:00pm
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so sad
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Posted By: NeoshasMummy
Date Posted: 06 April 2008 at 8:20pm
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OMG what the heck ------------- https://secure.fertilityfriend.com/home/30c4ec/" rel="nofollow"> Mrs Te Kani ❤️ Neosha 26/5/2007 |
Posted By: 06baby
Date Posted: 06 April 2008 at 10:10pm
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Hi, just thought I'd let you know that Claire didn't actually lose her babies on the 3rd of April, there were no babies there at all when they got to the hospital - and we have since found out that if she were ever pregnant at all she has known that there have been no babies since at least when she was meant to be 29 weeks - we are finding out more about whether she ever was pregnant at all tomorrow.
Not a nice thing to find out, but I'm sick of reading her posts on here about her angels being delivered stillborn - my brother was her partner - I just hope she's going to be getting the help she so obviously needs to have decieved both mine and her families for so long about something so sensitive. |
Posted By: toniellis
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 2:28am
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------------- Mum to Alex (11), Blaire (10) & Erika (8) and Damien (6) Successful HWB VBA2Cs! Soon to be surrogate |
Posted By: meow
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 7:00am
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Posted By: my2angels
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 7:16am
| WTF! I have been feeling so bad for her since I heard the news. thats a horrible thing to do but i guess she obviously has some issues and hope she gets help. Surely it would have been pretty obvious if she was never actually pregnant with twins |
Posted By: Kellz
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 7:41am
| Yeah thats what I was thinking. |
Posted By: MissCandice
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 7:49am
That is a disgusting thing to do. I feel really sorry for the March and April mums to be who have been put through this when they are still to have their babies, if anyone deserves hugs and to be thought of at the moment i think they do..  To the March and April mums to be.
ETA: That its JMHO Also, its abit hard to make up being 39 weeks pregnant to RL people let along making up your pregnant with TWINS. Whose to say 06baby isnt claire trying to make up for what shes done?? The whole thing is just wrong. ------------- ~ Mummy to a beautiful girl ~ |
Posted By: NeoshasMummy
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 7:50am
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ummm OK then. I kind of dont understand how u can make up being 39weeks pregnant its a little noticeable. Odd story ------------- https://secure.fertilityfriend.com/home/30c4ec/" rel="nofollow"> Mrs Te Kani ❤️ Neosha 26/5/2007 |
Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 7:58am
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Pardon?! Did I read any of that right?!? ------------- Andie |
Posted By: nicolaann
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 7:59am
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I don't even know what to say!!! How can someone possibly 'pretend' to be pregnant, and with twins. Surely, if she wasn't, it was obvious?
Oh thats just very weird, and very wrong!! ------------- Nicky, Mum to Alex (5) & Sophie (3) http://lilypie.com"> 
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Posted By: baalamb
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:05am
| This sort of thing happens all the time -- people lying about themselves and their situation. You just can't believe everything that you read ANYWHERE. I had a hard time believing some of the things that mum2sleepingangels had written so far. I guess the whole full story will come out to us eventually! |
Posted By: 06baby
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:07am
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hi, I've already had one pm telling me to leave, and my intention isnt to cause problems, but she is one sick girl and obviously needs some treatment for whatever it is she has.
my brother has never been allowed to a scan because they've always been while he was working. we've found out that she hasnt seen her 'midwife' for months and now she 'cant remember' where it was she actually had her scans and things like that. its possible she did have the symptoms of being pregnant because she put on nearly 30 kg, so we all thought she was pregnant. And she's obviously been reading up so she knew what she was supposed to be feeling and doing at the different stages. i'm not claire at all, i'm i suppose her sister in law - or was. my brother is back living with us for a while now while he gets his head around all of this before he decides what he's going to do. it's a horrible time for him seeing as I'm due in 4 weeks with my own baby and now he's going to be here for it. |
Posted By: MissCandice
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:07am
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I just went back and read some of her posts and she said she was having contractions on 25th jan. That would make her like 30 weeks?? Wouldnt she be at the hospital instead of writing on a message board? ------------- ~ Mummy to a beautiful girl ~ |
Posted By: NeoshasMummy
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:07am
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I agree it would be SO OBVIOUS I mean if a family cant distinguish the difference between a non pregnant woman and a woman 39 weeks with twins then something is wrong also, what about the extra scans u get when u r carrying twins??? Im sorry but I am just blown away by all of this.
EDIT sorry dont buy it, 30kg does not look like a twin baby bump ------------- https://secure.fertilityfriend.com/home/30c4ec/" rel="nofollow"> Mrs Te Kani ❤️ Neosha 26/5/2007 |
Posted By: AliaDawn
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:09am
That's if she lives near family. I had a bit of a weird feeling about all this, but it still made me cry anyway  -------------
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Posted By: arohanui
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:12am
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I'm so weirded out. ------------- Mama to DS1 (5 years), DS2 (3 years) and... http://alterna-tickers.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: NeoshasMummy
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:15am
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U r totally not the only one ------------- https://secure.fertilityfriend.com/home/30c4ec/" rel="nofollow"> Mrs Te Kani ❤️ Neosha 26/5/2007 |
Posted By: my4beauties
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:28am
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I'm sorry but I was waiting for the "truth" to come out. I had heard some things about her through another ohbaby member and didn't believe a word she said. So when the twins had died or were born sleeping, I didn't believe that they even existed in the first place. Sick sick person putting all the other mums through that! ------------- My babies: R (9),G (7), J (5) http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: sonyaw
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:35am
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i wonder where she got the tummy pics from then???? im confused ------------- http://lilypie.com">  
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Posted By: peanut butter
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:36am
| I'm with you Italiah! Luckily we had some inside info so werent so sucked in. I still feel somewhat F*cked off by the whole thing though! |
Posted By: NeoshasMummy
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:38am
Exactly here we were giving advice and wishing her the best. What ever AS FOR THE TUMMY pics I dont think I want to know where she got those from  ------------- https://secure.fertilityfriend.com/home/30c4ec/" rel="nofollow"> Mrs Te Kani ❤️ Neosha 26/5/2007 |
Posted By: peanut butter
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:39am
| oh thats just sick! |
Posted By: MissCandice
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:39am
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Its even worse, considering IF she stole those tummy pics, she now has over 100 posts and can get into our photo section!!
Bebo would be an easy place for her to get belly pics. ------------- ~ Mummy to a beautiful girl ~ |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:40am
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omg! Thats just sick!! Gosh I cant believe I got upset for this girl! GRRRRRRR
You know I did actually wonder why she wasnt as hospital if her waters had broken...she said she went to hospital for a check 30 hours later, that seemed a long time to wait at home, especially with twins! I thought, if that were me my midwife would have sent me to hospital cos of infection and what not... ------------- |
Posted By: KweenJ3
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 8:54am
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I too cant believe it and I also had myself thinking I was really lucky that my bubs were ok etc and then feeling kinda guilty you know? Im SOOO glad I found out tho.. Def an AWFUL and SICK thing to do esp to those of us who ARE actually pregnant and our pics and post are REAL!!!!!!
Is she gunna be allowed to come back into the group coz I sure as hell dont feel comfortable about it PLUS regardless of wether she has issues etc IMHO THAT IS NOOOO EXCUSE TO LIE AND DECEIVE OTHERS ABOUT A FAKE PREGNANCY!
Sorry ladies for my rant, its just really p*ssed me off....
Hugs to all of those that this has affected ie the families and also us on here that actually fell for it hook, line and sinker... ------------- Jacinda, 26, Mum to Aiesha 10yrs, Carlos 9yrs and Brooklen 22 months:) |
Posted By: rachelsea
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:04am
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Are you serious? Her whole pregnancy wasn't real?!!! But I cried everytime I read about it! And I even told my Nana about it when I saw her yesterday, that's how affected I was about hearing of little twins being stillborn!! I don't get it... ------------- DD 4yrs DS 2yrs http://lilypie.com" rel="nofollow"> 
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Posted By: Andie
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:13am
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whatever the truth is or isn't, she can't be stopped coming on here under a new name. I hope she gets some top-shelf double-strength professional help asap. I really feel for the women in the same 'due in...' thread - you guys must have been on an emotional rollercoaster! ------------- Andie |
Posted By: IVFGirl1111
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:20am
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Posted By: MelandBri
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:20am
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Hi ladies
I just wanted to let you all know that I know of 06baby. Not personally but we are on another forum together, in the same due in group. It was her that first mentioned about her SIL and how she had lied etc in the other forum. I mentioned this girl on here that sounded very familiar so she come in to read up on what she had been posting. Everything matched, name, where she lived, everything. I felt absolutely sick to come on here and read that Claire had supposedly lost her babies when in fact I thought it wasn't true. But what can you do about it. You can't exactly accuse someone of lying when you could be wrong, that would be just terrible. I'm really glad that the true has come out as I know so many of us were genuinely sad for her. To lose 2 babies at once is such a horrible thing to go through and its just not right for everyone to think she had lost them, when she hadn't. I actually went and read alot of her posts from the March group and when you read a lot of the things she says it doesn't make sense. I mean, she claimed to have been leaking waters since she was about 28 weeks. Plus if you look at those belly pics, to me that doesn't look like a pregnant tum at all, just the tum of a big person. Anyway I'm glad this has come out, hugs to all of you that this has really affected. As I know how much things on here really affect us IRL |
Posted By: MorgansMum
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:21am
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Sounds like this girl needs some serious help!!
Hopefully she will get it. People who lie and deceive others like this in such a open place must realsie that they are going to get caought ------------- Morgan, Libby http://www.TickerFactory.com/"> 
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Posted By: Snappy
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:30am
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grrr! i have spent all weekend feeling so sad, and worried for my own birth going horribly wrong....
now that i think about it, it all makes sense. ------------- Mummy to two beauties... Formerly Kaiz. |
Posted By: fattartsrock
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:31am
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SHE has logged in today....
CLAIRE, YOU OWE EVERYONE AN APOLOGY AND/OR AN EXPLANATION AT THE VERY VERY LEAST. My best friend had a full term stillborn baby and it is NOT EVER EVER alright to make up lies about that sort of thing. How heartless and cruel. ------------- The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P |
Posted By: Shezamumof3
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:42am
Me too, I cried to DF when I read about it and said that I was scared that would happen to our baby. I was so worried and upset. ------------- |
Posted By: MyBelly
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 9:51am
Thats exactly what i did and what i was thinking! and i wondered because surely if the babies had died earlier in the preg the modwife would have picked it up, or not picked up any heartbeats, i found it odd, she never said about not feeling any movement etc. I cried for her and held my own baby daughter close to me and cried for all the other women who havent had the chance to hold their babies close, now i feel cheated by her. 
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Posted By: chonny
Date Posted: 07 April 2008 at 10:04am
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i agree ladies, it'sa sucha sad thing to do! i know a lady who lost a baby at 36weeks, they delivered her by emergency c section adn then the baby had brain damage so they turned off life support. it's deffinately not something you kid about! i did think it was strange tho when i heard she'd lost them coz she didn't mention lack of movement etc.
i hope she get's the help she needs. there is such thing as a phantom pregnancy, and that could be what was happening, when she lost the babies (if she did) at 29 weeks, she could have a mental illness that made her deny it and keep on with the preggy. phantom preggy's i'm not sur ehow common they are, but they are real. -------------
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