Aww Kaz, big hugs from me. I know how you feel having been there myself a few months ago. It is SO hard, and even now...even though Ive seen the babys heartbeat, Im still nervous and am always worried something will go wrong. Its a hard thing to go through.

I guess I have just tried to put the m/c out of my mind for now and consentrate on keeping myself healthy and happy so that this little bubs is healthy and happy. You will be fine, trust me  And we are all here for you when you need to vent

xoxoxox

Ok Kazzle, I'l be honest. My mc last year is not widely known, but I can tell you that I know exactly that feeling. I had a VERY faint BFP yesterday, and now I'm super worried at every little twinge in my tummy (which isn't unusual for me, have irritable bowel syndrome - mild case but twinges all the same!) So while I dont even know if I am pg (will test again on Monday) even now I'm worried I may feel those feelings again and lose something I barely have.

So while I have just rambled and been of no good use to anyone, what I was trying to say in my own foot in mouth way is that what you are feeling is so normal, and I'd be worried if you weren't feeling it, as it would be a classic sign that you haven't worked thru it far enough to cope with another pg. So hang in there chicka, and take the advice of your ole' Aunty Bumblefoot, who I might add, is a Psychology Uni student (but don't ask me about my exam scores...

Keep your healthy eating and drinking up, and chase it all down with copious ammounts of chocolate. It is clinically good for you, trust me, Aunty Bumblefoot knows these things! And, I might add, has a large candy addiction that she refuses to seek treatment for...Have chosen more of a maintenence option!

Hang in there luvvie, it does get easier. Praying for a healthy happy stucky bubba for you. And me....!

Oh man, now I'm blubbing! I too read that thread when I first arrived, and was stoked to hear your news, and cried when your mc happened. I soooooo hope you get the BFP that you have worked so hard to get, you deserve it. I say worked, as if we look at it realistically, it is often very hard work, the sore boobs, the mood swings where we want to throw sharp implements at our males'genetalia for no apparent reason, then break down in tears when he has to pop out to the dairy for a bottle of milk - [read- to get out of the house from the mood swings...]

So,  perhaps flag the chocky for a wee while, and get some dry toast and perhaps a little raro to get some sustinence into you, or perhaps some water crackers (highly reccommended I must say) these are great for travelling in the car too, and can be kept in the glove box or baby bag.

Well I'm off to get a few hours kip and hope to sleep off my own nausea. Just had the thought that we might end up being baby buddies....! That I have to say would be awesome.

Take care my dear, and I shall check back later. All the best, feet up, and cuddles to Rhiannon, she is just gorgy!

Oh, and as a P.S, do you use any sort of ovulation predictor (ferning machine thing - the tongue one, OPK's, temping ect) ? Coz I was just thinking that if you were a little iffy about your cycle length and where you are on it, it should as a general rule, no matter the length, be AF time 14days after OV. So can be like, 30days before OV sometimes for some people then another 14days on top, so 44day cycles. I know a lovely gal that has 54day cycles on average, and she still OV's 14 days before AF. AND has charted well enough to have 2 lovely kiddies and one on the way, so she's gotta be doing something right.

I'm sending you all the babydust I can muster (I'm doling us out each equal portions, so we're covered) and NOW I will go have a nap. But I will check back in later, it helps pass the time. Maybe we could be test buddies on Monday if you want to test soon.

Hang in there chicka, if your nausea gets too bad, you can get a tablet called Nausicalm (it has Cyclizine in it) at the pharmacy for about $10, and it works GREAT. Its what I use and I often have industrial cases of nausea. And it has been cleared by my doc to take with pg, so I know its safe for possible bubbas. Hopefully we will both be feeling better by this afternoon.