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    Posted: 03 March 2010 at 11:19am
Ok, so Mac is really keeping me on my toes.

His routine use to be pretty predictable which is why I never set a routine for him.
He'd feed 2.5-3 hourly and in the evening he'd be awake basically from 5pm-8/9pm then sleep 7 hours.

Recently he's started sucking his thumb. Now his day sleeps are extending out and he's feeding maybe 4 hourly. And last night, he went down to sleep at 6pm and slept until 10pm.
I have gone in to his room when I expect him to be waking and he's there sucking his thumb. Sometimes he has his eyes open, sometimes they are closed.

I don't mind his new evening routine, makes life great for us to have our dinner and time alone and it's also teaching him day VS night. But daytime is bugging me. I'm worried that if he's not feeding as often that my supply will go down and also that he won't be gaining as much weight.
I've also found he wants less awake time between his sleeps and I think this is cause he's actually been awake for awhile but was just quiet cause he was sucking his thumb.

So, what do I do?
Do I wake him 3 hourly during the day? Do I just leave him to sleep and wake when he wants?

I'm thinking of waking him or if I go into his room and he's sucking his thumb but eyes open, I'll get him up.
But I hate setting routines and making him "comply".

Also, if I choose to wake him 3 hourly, do I count 3 hours from the time he fed, or 3 hours from the time he went back to sleep?


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Man i just typed out a relply and my computer shut down when i was posting it!!

I would just let him sleep and wake when he likes and feed him when he is hungry. At (almost) 3mths old he is probably happy to strech out his feeds a bit now too.

With my first daughter i was always worries about feeds, how much she was getting etc stuff like that. But with DD2 i demad fed more often, sometimes it was 2hrs between feeds, other times 4hrs. She put herself into her own routine by about 4mths old. It never affected my milk supply as it changes daily anyway because they dont always take in the exact amount each time, they just feed until they are full.

So...i would worry too much about how many hours in between feeds, just feed him when he wants it and see how that goes for a while?

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Yip I would leave him to sleep.

My DD has just gone to 4 hourly feeds ( I wondered why she wasn't taking much at 3 hours). I often look in and she is just sucking her thumb staring at her mobile, then will look in 10mins later and she's fast asleep again.
He will let you know when he's hungry. I was doing the same and just feeding her at 3 hours because that's how often I thought she had to feed, but now realise that she wants more milk less often. It's also helped her daytime sleeping.

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I'm like you and haven't set a routine, allowing my DS to set his own (he's now 6 months). He did pretty much exactly what you describe at about the same age, and I just let him go with it. I loved that he was comfortable with just chilling out on his own in his cot.

It didn't affect my supply negatively (he is still exclusively BF on demand). If your supply does go down and he needs it to go back up I'm sure he'll get things going again.

(What I did find was that my supply *felt* like it was going down, when in fact at around that time it was starting to settle properly. That meant that he had to work for it a little more and feed times got a bit fussy for a while).

Personally I think you sound like you're more comfortable with letting him set his own pace and I'd be inclined to not wake him and if he's sucking his thumb with his eyes closed I'd leave him be. If he's awake and sees you maybe give him a cuddle and if he nestles in for a feed go with it.

Incidentally my boy no longer does this (and has stopped thumb sucking) and I really wish he did!

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I personally would leave him, if he is sleeping well and content to lay awake in his cot/bassinet then lucky you.. many of us would just die for our babies to do that!!!!!

He will be taking what he needs and that will mean your supply will be what he needs... it will start to settle down nowish anyway so you wont get that full/empty feeling (unless you miss a feed entirely) soon.

More often does not necessarily mean more milk... if he is being woken then you may find he doesnt feed well because he is sleepy and then you could end up with the opposite.. a bad sleeper and a bad feeder!!!!

Its our nature to second guess when things are going well, I say enjoy it!!!!

Oh and 3 hourly or 4 hourly, is a complete cycle so from the start of one feed to the start of the next


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Dam women anyone would think your a first time mother.......hehe

Im with everyone else........I just leave Jesse to set his own pace. It catches me out now and then like today he had a feed and 30mins later wanted another one and was screaming for it and is only going 2hrs between feeds.......but babies/kids etc keep us guessing every step of the way. you basically can never get complacent cos they change the rules on us all the time, and if its not growth spurts its teething etc.......I would find it too stressful and painful to try and make Jesse do what i want him to do, esp at this early age
Man i didnt even Get Liam sleeping in his own room properly until he was 3years old.......fun times.

Anyway, if theres no reason for needing him do things at a certain time then just go with his flow, it will be easier on yourself than trying to stress about him doing things a certain way and time etc......i know its hard cos you have someone second guessing your every move so your second guessing yourself........just do what works for you hun
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