Hey Helen, hope you feelign better hun. Sounds like you and i are not too different. I am feelign very much thte same with some things lately.
To give you heads up bout the solids, Vincent still doesn't eat a decent amount every meal. For example the other day he ate like it was goign out of fashion, yet today he barely eaten anything so far. And you knwo what he's like, happy, cheerful & chubby. lol. I wouldn't worry too much. I know that is easier said than done as i always get like this too bout his eating but then i remember that he not a starved kid to look at, and he will eat when he wants it. Joy is always smily when i see her so i'm sure things will look up very soon.
Yay for going to Mainly Music. We shoudl be there this week too. We only go once a fortnight. If you wanted to have coffee & hang out for a bit afterwards this week, let me knwo as we are staying in town all day as i'm working at 3pm.
Also, if you ever feeling really down again, let me know and maybe we can catch up or something.
And to reassure you, i used to get really upset with Vincent too. It got so bad at one stage i was worreid i would do something really hurtful to him (smack him too hard

) and had to go to my parents so someone else could look after him while i blobbed in front of tv.
We all here for you! hugs!