Congrats!!!
-was the gender what you expected? No.
-were you disappointed? Not in the slightest!
-as soon as you heard what the gender was, did you think "oh , ...damn" ? My first word was "really?!". I was slightly shocked because I felt it was a boy. But "damn" was my mum's first word when we told her!!!!
-or were you thrilled? I was thrilled with whatever we were having
-were you wrong, but happy to be wrong? Yep!
-or were you right, but not happy to be right? DH was right but more than happy that he got it right LOL.