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bluebird
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Posted: 19 January 2009 at 8:35pm |
I've been reading up on different births, and am keen on the water birth too at home.
I've been reading this site which has some good information, you will need to pick an choose what you want to take on board though, it's very "out there".
They talk about there being very little blood etc when the mother's relaxed and calm through the birth.
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HippyMama
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Posted: 19 January 2009 at 9:50pm |
Oh wow! I have to say thank you for that link Beth, I have been sitting here for nearly an hour now reading it... lots of inspiration and food for thought
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Posted: 20 January 2009 at 1:42am |
I had a home waterbirth nearly 8 months ago now.
It was fantastic!
Only really helped a little with the pain but I had no tears or grazes which I really think the water helped with. I was in for about 4 hours all up, mostly in my own bath but I transferred to the birthing pool when my membranes came out & popped. Water stayed clean right up until I pushed her out then it went red & icky. Thats when I got out LOL!
From the birthing pool I moved to my couch. Was really great & would do it exactly the same again. Here is the link to my story
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Posted: 20 January 2009 at 9:14pm |
I've been planing a waterbirth and hearing your stories has really made me feel good about that decision  thanks for sharing your experiances
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Posted: 21 January 2009 at 11:35am |
I was starting to get nervous about a waterbirth because I don't really like taking baths but that is probably because I have them so hot as I am a cold fish! But I really lked being in the water at my aquanatal class the other night so am definately thinking this might be the way to go for me.
DH asked the other night if the mw would have to wear a snorkel and mask!!
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Posted: 21 January 2009 at 11:54am |
Im gonna be completly different and say that I HATED labouring in the water, hurt more in the water than out and I found the contractions more intense , and sped up ,plus I couldn't get comfortable .
I still tore and needed 4 stiches.
This time , i will banish anyone who even comes towards me with a cup of water, i prefer to be out and walking around , tho in saying that, I may try a shower, if I get back and leg contractions and like C's birth noone is willing to punch me .
But, in saying that , most people I know who had a planned water birth , (and in some cases not ) and the majority loved it and found it a relaxing special occasion .
I think making sure the bath is at the right temp is also important , you don't want it too cold, or too hot
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Posted: 21 January 2009 at 12:02pm |
Are you planning a home waterbirth or a birthing centre/hospital one? If it's a birthing centre it'd be easy enough to get out and try other methods if the water doesn't work for you. If it was at home that could potentially be a lot of preparation for something you might not end up using (birth pool etc). Did you use water at all (shower/bath) when you laboured with Jack?
My sister had a homebirth for her second, but didn't use water as she found that during her first labour she hated being in the water - even though normally she loved baths etc.
Personally I found being in water - shower and spa bath - fantastic while in labour.
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Posted: 21 January 2009 at 12:07pm |
I had a look at some of the videos on that site Beth put up, did anyone watch that tv series on the living channel "maternity ward " the american one ? seemed like every birth was a c-section "sorry ,you've been in labour for 5 minutes, we need to do an emergency cesarean"
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Posted: 21 January 2009 at 8:07pm |
Yes there are some strange things that go on in the USA. It's really sad. I try and remember that things here are much different (Attitude at hospitals etc) but we still have that expectation that things are going to go wrong.
I love that site, it makes me feel more possitive about the whole thing. Im not sure if I believe it IUKWIM but I want to try - pain free natural labour yes please! lol
I am struggling to find much NZ related stuff, if anyone does come across it can they PM me?
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Oh not sure if it's been mentioned, but how do you go about arranging a water home birth? Do you hire the pool? How much does it cost?
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myfullhouse
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Posted: 21 January 2009 at 9:20pm |
monster wrote:
Are you planning a home waterbirth or a birthing centre/hospital one? If it's a birthing centre it'd be easy enough to get out and try other methods if the water doesn't work for you. If it was at home that could potentially be a lot of preparation for something you might not end up using (birth pool etc). Did you use water at all (shower/bath) when you laboured with Jack? |
I am definately birthing at the hospital, a homebirth sounds too scary for me. I want to be at the hospital in case something goes wrong.
With Jack I do remember spending some time in the bath but it was just before I went to the hospital and I was about 6cm dilated at that stage. I don't really remember it helping but I don't think DH filled the bath very much
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Posted: 21 January 2009 at 9:38pm |
In that case, you'd be sweet. You could always try it and if it works then great, if not, no problem either.
I'd say the only thing would be to make sure your m/w is confident about handling a waterbirth if the time comes and you're in the pool.
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Posted: 21 January 2009 at 10:00pm |
Beth , DD's step mum had a water home birth with her first baby , I can find out from her about cost and pool hireage if noone else on here gets back to you
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Posted: 21 January 2009 at 10:00pm |
Some midwives have pools that they can loan / hire to clients, otherwise there are some services out there that hire out birth pools - the one I'm using is here: www.aquabub.co.nz
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Posted: 21 January 2009 at 10:03pm |
see? I knew that if said i would look into it , someone would post the info quicker (all part of the plan  haha )
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Posted: 21 January 2009 at 10:26pm |
 @ The Kelly!
I'm not sure about birth pool hire in Wellington though, but if you contact Helen or Duncan @ Aquabub they might know or be able to recommend someone down there for you.
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Posted: 22 January 2009 at 1:14pm |
monster wrote:
I'd say the only thing would be to make sure your m/w is confident about handling a waterbirth if the time comes and you're in the pool. |
I only spoke briefly to my mw about it at the last appt because I hadn't thought much about it at that stage but she was ok with it. I believe that she has done quite a few. A friend had her as a mw with #1 and also now with #2, she was suppose to have a waterbirth with #1 but ended up with an emergency cs. Anyway, I feel confident in the mw so it should be good
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Posted: 22 January 2009 at 4:52pm |
Hi Beth. For my home waterbirth my midwife supplied the birthing pool & the liner. In fact she supplied everything, I didn't have to organise much at all.
For homebirth info try
Homebirth NZ they have some onfo, a list of midwives who are pro homebirth & some birth stories.
The only thing I wished I could have had was the HUGE birthing pools they have at my local maternity hospital. It was like a big spa pool.... Would have been so keen to labour in that!
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Posted: 23 January 2009 at 8:55pm |
Thanks guys.
My midwife is on that list so thats good. I will talk to her about it but haven't really had the chance yet as we've only had 2 appointments so far and haven't even mentioned birth plans, other that I wanted to birth at home.
Those pools look nice and big, I wonder if you're able to test them out to make sure you fit properly lol. I laboured in the bath at the hospital with Mia and the water was fine. I really struggled with not being able to move easily though. They were those large triangular ones (Hutt Hospital).
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