Hey kiwilaurie, I can't answer your question (sorry!) but I've got one for you... why did you join parents centre, and what are the benefits? Just trying to weigh up whether or not the joining fee is worth it, and it helps to be able to ask someone who has already been there, done that

(And ps, ta for reminding me of the name of parents centre, i've been trying to recall it for a few weeks!)