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Emmecat
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Posted: 29 May 2010 at 9:25am |
Little-Red it hasn't moved on, that why it's rasing the ire of so many people. Sigh. It's a derogatory term. full stop.
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Posted: 29 May 2010 at 9:29am |
It's not to me nor to any redheads I know. Full stop.
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Posted: 29 May 2010 at 9:33am |
Well we'll agree to disagree. That's what an open forum is for. We were asked our opinions and I'm giving mine.
Edited to add- it's OBVIOUSLY offensive to many people, regardless of their hair colour.....or there wouldn't be controversy would there? That's the whole point of the exercise.
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Posted: 29 May 2010 at 9:37am |
And I love the word RANGA! I first heard it in Australia a couple of years ago and I think it's brilliant. My DH calls me a ranga every now and then. My workmates refer to me as "the ginga", it's all in good fun. I honestly never realised that some gingas get offended by the word until this whole "Hug a ginga day".
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Posted: 29 May 2010 at 9:55am |
I personally havent taken any offence to any of those terms , Ranga, Ginga , i just find them funny . Altho i also have no hangups about my hair , i actually like being a redhead , i always get comments on my hair.
i didnt want to offend anyone with this forrum , hope i havent caused too much trouble , i was just interested in opinons .
woops gtg , my wee redhead is throwing a wee tanty, must be that fiery streak we are well know for 
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Posted: 29 May 2010 at 10:09am |
Have not read the entire thread but just wanted to say imagine if blondes took it the wrong way about being called "dumb blondes" all the time, I think the difference there is that only woman get called "dumb blondes" yet men, woman and children get called gingas and so therefore more offence is taken.
At the end of the day to say such awful things to JJ & Dom about their IVF struggles etc. when they never meant any ill intent to anyone just shows how ignorant and overly PC yet hypocritical people can be.
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Posted: 29 May 2010 at 10:09am |
I don't find ginga offensive either, my friends use it in an affectionate way. I think the word ginga has moved on in some circles - it must have, for so many redheads to not be offended by it. But then in other circles it must still be offensive, as there are also those people who are offended by it. It's all a matter of perception. One word CAN have both negative and positive connotations, regardless of it's origins. You can tell when someone uses 'ginga' as an insult or as a term of endearment.
I wasn't bothered with ranga til I realised it was short for orangutan
ETA Have to share this video.... so funny! Catherine Tait Show - ginger
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Posted: 29 May 2010 at 10:24am |
I agree Heidismum, after enduring years of blonde jokes I really can't see the difference... and I have never taken offence to the blond jokes.
Our family joke about my sis being a 'ginga' and it's never been meant at all in a nasty way or taken that way... infact lots of people are so jealous of her beautiful hair!
I wondered what "ranga" meant... I'd never heard it before...
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Posted: 29 May 2010 at 10:32am |
I first heard "Ranga" in a Jeans West shop in Brisbane. I was trying on a top that didn't look right and the shop assistant said (imagine the broadest Australian accent ever) "Yeaaaahhh, us rangas can't wear that colour can we?"
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Posted: 29 May 2010 at 10:35am |
Tbh I think if they were trying to make it an offensive thing they would have called it " hug a firecrotch day" or "hug a gingernut" day, now those are horrible derogatory terms, I remember the thread about the ginga greeting card bought up awhile ago and everyone also gettin up in arms about that again there was one card about gingas and there is like a million out there about dumb blondes, yet noone gets up in arms about them! I'm not meaning offence at all ( cause u no I love ya Karen) but just want to point out the inconsistency, almost like the fact ( and I'm probably going to start a huge debate and people might hate me but I don't mean it offensively I promise) but the fact that there are jobs and spots and university put aside especially for the Maori which isn't seen as racism yet if there were the same for pakeha it would be, don't get me wrong I knowthere is reasoning behind it but do ya gt what I mean?
So hard to make a statement not sound offensive via typing so sorrynif anyone takes this the wrong way
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Posted: 29 May 2010 at 6:46pm |
I still think its all a bit of fun and people need to lighten up about it..
When I dyed my hair blonde for about 5 years I got tons of comments about the blonde moments when I'd do something silly or just the whole blonde bimbo thing. Or having really big boobs. I have nick names such as big g (cause I'm a g cup) or giganta for the same reason, big boobs mgee
I didnt take all of that crap to heart or too seriously. Its just a bit of light hearted humour which I think is exactly what the hug a ginga day was.
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Posted: 29 May 2010 at 7:05pm |
hahaha, my partner calls me tits mcgee.
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Posted: 29 May 2010 at 7:10pm |
While I certainly see the light side and my hubby was not at all upset by all the attention by the ladies on friday, I do have to question why its ok to single out part of the population based on their physical appearance.
Would it be ok to not hire someone because they have red hair? No of course not.
Would it be ok to have a hug a "different ethnic group" day? I dont think so.
At the end of the day its based on appearance and I thought we were trying to move away from that kind of world?
Ginga is right up there with the C word for me, I shudder every time I read it.... There is no way I could refer to my boy as one. But thats just me, dont think ranga is any better.. gross.
Emmecat, I know you are not precious!
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Posted: 30 May 2010 at 8:44pm |
lol haven't read many of the posts, but i have a little lady with beautiful red hair, which we call little red funnily enough, I see nothing wrong with the whole hug a ginga day at all. although i must say that i told Paris not to call her a "ginga" at school because i don't want her having a nickname...not for any other reason than that. The way i see it is that hey, yeah enough people for some dumb reason tend to have fun making fun of gingas. if this is something positive and they get hugs, who cares.... it's not meant in a bad way, some people take the whole thing too far.
I must say actually we have always been a littl epissed at the fact that oldies seem to fricken attracted to our little girl... always on and on about her beautiful hair - which is lovely but sometimes you just wanna get thru the shopping centre in a hurry. lol
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Posted: 30 May 2010 at 8:56pm |
Little miss five does have gorgeous hair Janine ...btw , have you posted pics of her birthday and her cake yet ? im dying to see them !
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Posted: 30 May 2010 at 10:00pm |
arohanui wrote:
I wasn't bothered with ranga til I realised it was short for orangutan
ETA Have to share this video.... so funny! Catherine Tait Show - ginger |
I was starring at the word ranga before and made a random guess that it came from the word orange  glad you cleared that up as for a few short seconds I was feeling quite pleased to have worked it out haha
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Posted: 30 May 2010 at 10:13pm |
Oh FFS who blardy cares!!!!!!!!!!! No one died, no one caused GBH on anyone offering hugs... To me, not much different to being called 4 eyes or nerd for wearing glasses or a dumb blonde...We are kiwi's... we use insult as a term of endearment.
And yep I have a little copper top and my dad was one too. I second Janines comment about oldies going on and on about his beautiful hair. PITA!
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Posted: 31 May 2010 at 8:26am |
I have not read all the posts so someone may of already said this.
I heard on the radio that on FB that someone started "kick a ginga" group & as a result of that "hug a ginga" was started on FB. Which is a hell of a lot nicer.
Here is another one I heard..."hug a ginga squeeze a black head.
I bet most people in their lives have been called some kind of names & it is down to how you handle it & how it is said.
We have a couple in our family but we also have blonds & brunettes & we all get on
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