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Jess - I don't think their intent was to "slam" you at all. It's great that you want to offer help based on your own experiences, and I think you've taken the right path now in asking that people PM you for any information they need. You *and* everyone else that has contributed to this thread are right, you have all come to what is ultimately the most important point - we are *all* different. Period. Haha ! Sorry, couldn't resist Personally, I find the word "normal" completely redundant.

No you're not hahaha

Hey Jesika, I'm sorry if you thought I was "slamming" you in anyway but I wasn't...I was simply giving another point of view. I'm fully aware that many people have success charting but I'm just saying it doesn't work for everyone. In our case our fertility issue doesn't lie with me remember so apart from the fact I had no success with charting it wouldn't have made a difference in our case. It came down to pure luck...nothing else...I hadn't even used the OPK's that month!

You do have a lot of experience charting which is awesome and great to share but if people are wanting advice or feedback I think it is fair enough that they do get to hear both sides if there are people who haven't had success with it. It's all about getting full information...nothing more.

Hey Jess that's okay, at least you have a lot of support here for pre-period ickiness