QuoteReplyTopic: Four months Posted: 20 April 2007 at 10:06pm
Gudday all,
I thought that I'd put a post up here for some of the newbie mum's (and some of the not so newbie repeaters) about the time when they started to feel comfortable and more 'at home' in the mothering business. I found with all of my kiddies that there was a magical time around the 4 month mark where they became much more pleasant to parent. Before then there were feeding issues, exhaustion from pregnancy, labour and sleep deprivation and general chaos associated with having a newborn. That's not to say that I didn't love them lots before then - just that it seemed harder work. It's sometimes useful to know that things will get a lot better - and that the sleepness nights are a time limited thing - and parenting does get to be more fun...it doesn't happen straight away, but it does happen.
Maree
Three months for us, a combination of things - we figured out the allergy thing and weaned them onto formula was the big one coz it meant they were no longer screaming in pain all the time. And it meant no more 4 hourly expressing for me. And around that age they were also happier to be awake on their playmat or in the bouncer for longer.
Maya Grace (28/02/03)
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Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
I reakon around 3-4 months for us, it's just got easier from there...i've found Maddie more of a dream the older she gets....unless she misses a nap then she turns feral (to steal Emma's phrase). But I do find less and less stressing me out which is nice.
Just watch...now she will throw a massive curve ball at me!
I think about 3 months for me... It's prob not Brenna that's changed too much, but more my mental ability to cope with stress and to not worry about the little things. I'm much more relaxed now and am loving it!!!!
I was just saying to Anna today that Maddie seems to be the baby that never sleeps - I have never seen her looking tired lol!
Maya Grace (28/02/03)
(02/01/06)
The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
I actually find that each wee time they go up a stage you love it more than the last so when your 6 week baby is smiling and stuff you can't imagine better than that.
For me 4 months was the magic time cos Jack stopped having night feeds every night.
I think you girls are going to hate me but I am going to say 3 weeks. And the only reason why it is 3 weeks and not straight from birth is because I had to get use to waking up so much at night. But she hardly cried was active from the word go. She use to only have 2 to 4 naps a day for 15 minutes each. The rest she was active so never really a blob.
I would have to say for me around the 3-4 month age. Olivier started sleeping through the night around that stage. I must admit he still wakes from time to time though.
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