Nuchal fold - high risk

JD wrote: We will just wait and see. I think we will try and look at it like we might be the lucky parents chosen out of thousands to have a downs baby

What a great attitude you have.  I use to work as a nanny for a family with a little boy who has down's and he is the sweetest kid i have ever meet yes Mum and Dad have faced some pretty big challenge's  he has some serious health issues as well, but he has so much to offer this world.  Given the right support they can grow up to be happy healthy indepedant adult's.  There is a girl in palmy who work's full time and lives on her own.

Anyway good luck hun with your descion's. 

Oh yeah and I never had a NT scan for either of my boy's.

Edited by loadsofkids

Great attitude.. I wish you all the best. We also only had our scan to see the baby.....MW did big speil about downs and deciding what we would do etc etc that it is not jsut to see baby.....but for us, we decided we would take what we were given....and we wanted to see the baby .

The other way I look at it is that we try so hard to have a healthy baby at birth....but who knows what will happen after that. If we worried about every possible condition a child could ever have....we would never get pregnant.

enjoy the rest of your pregnancy....heres hoping it is a cruisy one for you.