Some guys just dont get it, my DH said he doesnt think he would be as upset if we already had a child. They just dont get attached like we do. I explained to mine today that to me, I have lost a child that will never be, to him it was a child that never was. I think thats the major difference.
it is hard isnt it...my Dh was so guarded with the next pregnancy as he was worried something would happen and it was hard going through the next pregnancy and all the worry by myself:( he wouldn't think about Ethan as a person till he was born..it was sad and it wasn't till 8months into pregnancy he told me how he felt.. massive hugs i can only imagine how hard it would be for DH to think like that..i know i still look at the August babies and wonder what if because I think the same as you ....
and i think it's super hard no matter how many babies you have:(
That's good news Annie, I'm sh*t scared about whether or not my next pregnancy will end up being ectopic as mine was confirmed it was definitely one so I'm very high risk now for next time.
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