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minik8e
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Topic: What things to buy... Posted: 02 August 2007 at 2:02pm |
What things would you buy prior to pregnancy for bubs, if you see a good deal around somewhere? I am looking at places like TradeMe and just various other deals and have *permission* (used in its loosest term!!) if I see a really good deal to get it. I have been looking at clothes as well, but I know we'll probably get a lot of them given to us. Any suggestions welcome!
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Posted: 02 August 2007 at 2:48pm |
I'm always worried that buying stuff for bubs before getting pregnancy is bound to jinks it.
However MCNs would be a good thing, as they are expensive to buy all at once, and the colours change all the time.
The thing I will buy myself as soon as I am pg is some nice comfy maternity pants or skirt so I can get a good 9 months wear out of them.
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Posted: 02 August 2007 at 2:53pm |
buy nothing... your taste and fashion will change and something better will always come along to replace the newest trend in baby things.
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Posted: 02 August 2007 at 3:11pm |
What about the bigger things, like change tables, prams etc? I feel like that a little too fleury, but there is a very real chance I will be made redundant at Christmas, so we're trying to get some things bought now, just in case I can't find another job straight away (unlikely, but pays to be prepared).
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Posted: 02 August 2007 at 3:17pm |
I'm kinda interested as well, as we will be in the UK next year, and will be TTC around that time. Want to get some cool english stuff.
I was going to set aside some $$ each week for the 9 months, like saving for Xmas and then get what I need when I know what I'm having etc.
I fully plan to get my baby gear off my friends as their babies will all be toddlers/pre-schoolers and not needing their cots/prams etc.
If you want inspiration go visit the Baby Factory or Baby City.
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Posted: 02 August 2007 at 3:58pm |
saving the money instead is prob a better option IMO. then when it does happen you can get just what you want when you want. Unfortunately TTC doesnt always lead immed to a baby and all sorts can happen in the time you start to when it actually happens. Like moving house, changing partner (hopefully not but you never know), tastes change, trends change, what is considered necessary changes. and so on...
and i def wouldnt buy MCN before hand unless you had tried them on a baby yourself cause all babies are diff and not all of them suit the same sort of brand or nappies.
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Posted: 02 August 2007 at 4:21pm |
Thanks heaps  I guess I'll just continue keeping an eye out and if something too good to be true comes up, I'll grab it. It may or may not happen straight away, I know that, especially with endo etc., I just worry that we won't be prepared I guess.
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Posted: 02 August 2007 at 4:27pm |
I wouldn't bother buying before pg either. You'll have about 8mos to buy stuff from BFP to end (all going well!). In that time there'll easily be a labour weekend/queens birthday weekend sale anyway. Sales come around every year, don't worry! We had a spare dresser before we conceived but even though it fitted in that house fine, we have since moved twice and it's not what I would choose if I was to buy now.
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Posted: 02 August 2007 at 4:58pm |
Thanks Jess, that means a lot
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mummy_becks
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Posted: 02 August 2007 at 7:20pm |
I'm there too with the don't let the endo win, and hey there are a few of us that have proved that.
Nut sales do come and go I would save the money instead and then buy at them when you are pg. But... if something is selling and it isn't coming back again and its something you really like get it (often happens with prams), there is always trademe.
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Posted: 02 August 2007 at 8:38pm |
I agree that I would save the money rather than buying before hand (and this is from someone who did buy before I was pregnant!!!). Why buy something that you might not end up liking when you can save the money and earn interest?
Deb is right...tastes change, styles change, what you think you will need will quite possibly change. The amount of stuff we bought and didn't use is ridiculous.
It can be really tempting and exciting to buy stuff but honestly I personally don't think it's worth it.
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Posted: 02 August 2007 at 9:38pm |
If there is something particular that you absolutely love and it is a great bargain, I would get it. I did that with our pram and am so glad that I did. It would have cost nearly $1000 new but I saw one in near perfect condition on Trade Me for $200 buy now so snapped it up while we were still TTC. People gave us grief for "jumping the gun" but I didn't care. I heart my pram!!
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Posted: 03 August 2007 at 9:53pm |
Hi minik8e
My advice would be don't buy too much at all as you will be amazed how many presents you are given for your baby, I didn't have to buy anything at all for the first year of my little girl's life.
The one thing I would say to splash out on is a good pram, I have the Mountain Buggy Urban Elite and it is the best thing ever, I love it. If you could find one of those on trademe then you wouldn't regret it.
They are so light to push and we have walked sooooo many miles with it and on hiking tracks and all types of places. Have taken it to England and back and it has stood up to being carted everywhere. When I push my friend's prams I notice just how much harder they are to push and take a lot more effort to manouver.
Fleury, when you are in England I would definitely advise you to stock up on clothing there as it is so much cheaper than NZ. The supermarkets over there are massive and stock copies of designer clothing and all sorts of awesome stuff. My little girl had so much stuff from Tesco supermarker which is such great quality and you would see similar in Pumpkin Patch for about ten times the price. Off the top of my head try Asda and Tescos, and also TK Maxx is an incredible store, designer goods which have come to the end of the line so you can pick up some amazing clothing for next to nothing :-)
Good luck ladies with having your bubbas xx
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Posted: 03 August 2007 at 9:55pm |
Just to add for Fleury, I got my maternity gear in TK Maxx, and also in Mothercare in England, ,my key pieces such as trousers and skirts cost about 30 pounds but lasted all through my pregnancy, I really recommend them, hope the kiwi dollar stays high for you :-)
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Posted: 03 August 2007 at 10:24pm |
Thanks Sparkles, that what a wanted to know, also be cool to have clothes that no one else has.
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Posted: 04 August 2007 at 8:23pm |
Kate, I too wouldn't buy too much as half of the fun is buying when you are actually pg (it seems a lot more real), but yeah change tables and things like that are either way really. You are always going to need a cot, so if you find one of those going cheap, snap it up!
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Posted: 04 August 2007 at 9:31pm |
I'd recommend saving too but keep an eye on trademe and if you see a bargain grab it (also it's good to get a 'feel' for prices early so it's good to keep looking).
I got my cot off trademe before I was pregnant and while I felt a little sheepish at the time I believe it was well worth it. We got a great deal on an almost mint condition cot. I wouldn't recommend buying clothing though (unless you just fall in love with something) as you will get heaps! My sister has gone nutso at Pumpkin Patch a few times already.
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Posted: 06 August 2007 at 4:43pm |
I didn't buy anything before I was pregnant with the gremlins which was just as well coz ending up with twins I needed two of everything. I did get a few clothes in a JK sale that were ridiculously cheap but I never ended up using them as I only bought one of each so gave them away as gifts.
I wouldn't bother with big stuff either coz you've got to have somewhere to store it.
Oh and the 8 months that I knew I was pregnant was heaps long enough to buy far too much stuff, half of which I never even used!
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Posted: 08 August 2007 at 2:03pm |
Hey Kate!
How exciting for you!
I would totally suggest buying mall vouchers, this is what my friend did when they decided TTC. It ended up taking them a year to fall pregnant but every week she got a $20 mall voucher - quite a good idea really!
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Posted: 08 August 2007 at 2:06pm |
Dal!! Didn't expect to see you here!!
Thanks, it is exciting, but also terrifying at the same time!!!
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