Chanel X: Not wise and don't think this site would allow it, as all Adoptions are few each year, if any they are processed as Open Adoptions, through CYF, must be approved first by back ground checks.
Despite if you trying this way, and find or work some thing privately out, all Adoptions are Open Adoptions in NZ nowadays unless both parties agree other wise. There is a clear certain and Ethical and Legal way to do Adoptions.
You can though go through your own GP and discuss any of these issues first , as at times some couples have been helped through their GP. But then all Adoptions still go through CYFS Legally they are the clearing place for all Children in need, as CYFS will do a Police check first, then you need a Home study,then may be a Pych Check if they require one, for suitability of parenting,Medical etc, then if successful the formal court proceeding, depending on circumstances if Baby or child Adoption in NZ can take 12- 24 mths and longer.
CYFS Adoption Laws says you need to be 25 and over, be able to prove to be fit to Adopt, by their Rules and Regulations.
These are CYFS Guidelines, not mine. Simply check with them.
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