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Topic: When you go to the petrol station... Posted: 09 May 2009 at 9:44pm |
...to fill up, do you take bubs in to pay, or leave him/her in the car?
I have been taking her in, just 'cos I don't know the protocol! Is this right?
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Posted: 09 May 2009 at 9:58pm |
I think its the right thing to do. I am often shocked seeing wee ones left in cars at the supermarket etc. It doesn't take much to end up taking longer than you expect and really anything could happen. I'd say do what feels right to you.
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Posted: 09 May 2009 at 10:10pm |
Yeah I think the petrol station is way less dodgy since you can see them at least but I still don't feel quite right about it. Just paranoid I guess.
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Posted: 09 May 2009 at 10:24pm |
yip i leave mine in the car with doors locked at gas station but only if i can still see car at all times from window etc plus the petrol attendants are usually standing there entertaining them through the window! lol, I wouldnt do it with supermarkets or dairies etc just bcos most of the time i cant see them!
I must admit though that i do sometimes leave Bay (5) locked in the car when i run into dairy to get small things.
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Posted: 09 May 2009 at 11:18pm |
I leave them in the car at the service station...unlocked but I have the keys...never thought of locking it
would never leave them at the supermarket, but would at a dairy if I was popping in to grab milk and I was parked right outside.
have had to leave them across the road as I had to get DH's watch fixed and when I came to pick it up there were no parks. I felt uncomfortable doing that but there was noway I was getting 2 of them out and into buggy for a 2min job....I locked them in that time (with window down)
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Posted: 09 May 2009 at 11:20pm |
I Mostly fill up at pak n save so leave Megan in the car.
if I go to a normal petrol station I will leave her in the car and make sure it is locked..certainly a lot quicker than having to take her out and carry her..forget getting her to walk cause it would take us 5 minutes just to get across the forecourt..lol
oh and yes I agree with the supermarket Megan always comes with me when I go to the supermarket even if I am only getting a couple of things
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Posted: 10 May 2009 at 8:30am |
At the petrol station, I get out and fill the car while playing peek-a-boo, then get her out of the car to come with me while I go and pay. Our petrol station is hideously busy, often standing in queue for up to 10 minutes.
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Posted: 10 May 2009 at 9:26am |
Do we not have prepay pumps out here? serious question, I was just thinking about it. I leave mine in the car with the doors locked and my windows are blacked out so you can't tell there are kids in the car. I also park at the pump nearest to the shop and don't get petrol if they are too busy or if I can I fill up when I"m out and about without the kids. When I use to look after my nephew in the UK though I always use to pay at the pump, but I can't remember if I've ever seen that available out here. They also have drive through stations in the UK which are handy as well, can't remember seeing one of them here though either.
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Posted: 10 May 2009 at 10:31am |
cuppatea some do have pay at the pumps... i ty to use those if i have the kids cause i really dont want to take them all out of the car. i normally use pak n save too tho cause you pay at the pump or get hubby to do it.
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Posted: 10 May 2009 at 10:34am |
I usually get petrol when I'm by myself or if DH is with me, but on the 2 occasions when it's been me and bubs, I get the petrol, then drive to the park near the door and get bubs out. First time, I think the attendant inside thought I was going to do a runner, until he seen me with a baby, hehe. I don't feel comfortable leaving him in the car, just incase it takes longer at the counter than expected.
Cuppatea, there used to be pay at the pump facilities a few years ago, but they removed the option to do that. Not sure why  . Maybe the cost for the eftpos lines etc. Bummer as it would be alot easier for parents.
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Posted: 10 May 2009 at 11:15am |
Leave them in the car and pay but do lock the car. When I collect DS2 who is 3 years from creche then I leave DS1 who is 6 in the car with the twins. Windows are tinted so hard to see inside. I also have a walkie talkie so DS1 can talk to me if he needs to.
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Posted: 10 May 2009 at 11:37am |
For quick stops like the gas station or collecting/posting the mail I leave J in the car. I make so many quick stops I would be forever getting her out!
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Posted: 10 May 2009 at 1:19pm |
I leave Ds in the car but I don't lock the car because I am concerned that if I didn't need to get him out quickly that unlocking could be a problem. When I am saying this I am thinking of an accident I saw where the petrol caught on fire as the parent was pumping and her babe was inside the vehicle. I also try to move the car away from the pump before going in to pay to reduce fire hazard, I keep the keys with me.
I would never leave DS in the car if at supermarket. I don't even like leaving him in the car in my driveway if he fulls asleep I sit in the car with him till he wakes.
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Posted: 10 May 2009 at 2:15pm |
I leave Jack in the car at the petrol station but I never really like doing it. I take the keys with me but never lock the car in case he needs to be taken out quickly. I always make sure I can see the car and if there is a long queue (which there usually isn't) then I wait by the car until the queue gets shorter or disappears.
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Posted: 10 May 2009 at 2:43pm |
I leave mine in the car at the gas station. I park so I can see them. But here it is fine.
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Posted: 10 May 2009 at 3:00pm |
Word of warning for those that don't lock your car door, I know of an incident where a car got stolen while the person went to pay, it was all caught on CCTV but still very scary and be worse if there was a baby/child in the car. This was in Akl BTW.
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Posted: 10 May 2009 at 3:01pm |
I leave mine in the car with a big sign saying "steal us!" but so far no-one's taken me up on it
The first time I went to the gas station after I had Maya, I made the poor attendant stand there and watch her while I went in and paid coz she was asleep and I didn't want to disturb her.
But these days the logistics of getting 3 or 4 kids out of the car while I pay for the petrol is insane, so I leave them.
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Posted: 10 May 2009 at 3:38pm |
I leave the kids in the car don't lock but take keys with me. Have left Jack asleep in the car while I did groceries, we needed food and he refused to get out of the car.
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Posted: 10 May 2009 at 4:13pm |
I usually plan to get petrol when DH is in the car, or on the way to daycare drop off for Ivy - I can park at the pump right by the door and always just pass cash to the attendant who comes out! lol
If I had to go in, I'd definitely take the girls. I never leave them in the car unless I'm literally just going a few steps away from it. My mum would kill me if she thought I was leaving them alone lol and I'd just worry too much. Lauren tends to get pretty upset if she can't see me anyways, so it's just better for us both if I take her with me everywhere.
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Posted: 10 May 2009 at 5:57pm |
I usually fill up at Pak n Save or Gull (both pay at the pump). If going to a normal petrol station I'd leave them in the car and lock it.
If they were going to be out of my sight i.e. dairy or supermarket, I'd take them with me.
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