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Two Blondinis 
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Posted: 02 July 2008 at 10:05pm |
I've been thinking that way for a while now and had been putting off talking to DH about it as I knew I would be absolutely devastated if he said he had changed his mind against TTC.
Well, tonight fuelled with a glass (or 2) of vino for dutch courage I asked out right "are we still on track for TTC in October?" he looked at me sidewides with his best "WTF" face and said "yeh, why?"
I had to leave the room to do a little celebratory dance in the hallway (think Carter from Fresh Prince  )
Relief is an understatement!!!! 
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Posted: 02 July 2008 at 10:08pm |
Yay Toni thats great news !!! LMAO at the dance! I would have done the same
Isnt it funny how we can so easily under-estimate our DH/DP's huh!
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Posted: 02 July 2008 at 10:10pm |
Glad he hadn't changed his mind. Anything in particular that he said or did to make you think that? Men are crazy creatures at the best of times but hey, so are we!
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Posted: 02 July 2008 at 10:30pm |
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just his usual lack of interest/excitement about all things TTC/baby related - nothing new there though LOL
I guess I'm over analysing things before I want this more than anything in the world
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Posted: 03 July 2008 at 7:57am |
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Posted: 03 July 2008 at 8:00am |
Yay that you're still on track.
I know where you're coming from. DH has already put off our TTC plans 3 x so when he said Sep 2008 I didn't really believe him. But when earlier this year, after a few drinks, he started telling my aunties how we're going to try and have another baby this year I was jumping for joy (figuratively, not actually).
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Posted: 03 July 2008 at 10:07am |
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I keep thinking DH will want to stop TTC...we have two boys, had a MC and I'm 41 (he's 37 so at least his sperm are younger!!!). But I really want to have another baby so I hope he doesn't one day say enough is enough.
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Posted: 03 July 2008 at 12:57pm |
He won't change his mind Toni or we'll all gang up on him!
Willie was never that 'into' TTC even when we *were* TTC. I mean, he was into the process of course  but I don't think he was all that worried whether we actually conceived or not.
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Posted: 03 July 2008 at 1:00pm |
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Posted: 03 July 2008 at 1:08pm |
YAY!!
Congrats 
I am giggling over the mental image of your dancing in the hallway
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Posted: 03 July 2008 at 8:02pm |
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hehe I remember asking DH the same thing as I'd said I've got enough pills till November (3 months away at the time), how about we start then? Then I was on the last week of the pills and I was really nervous to ask just in case he changed his mind but he did and I did a little dance (only inside though) too! It's such an exciting moment isn't it?
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Sinking feeling DH would change his mind
