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    Posted: 29 December 2007 at 8:40pm
Stoked tobe have'n a bub lost one then got pregnant a month later again
Now at 20 wks I'm starting to fee like We Might be going to have a baby!
Was talking to a friend who went through the same thing and the feeling of replacing the other baby.
Is it the normal feeling to have?
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Hi Kisrty!
Congrats

I think it's a totally normal feeling to have.
It isn't something you should feel bad about. I know a lot of the ladies in this forum have probably struggled with this, also, but it doesn't mean they haven't gone on to love their new bub for itself, instead of the "replacememnt" baby.

Good luck with the next 20 weeks. They'll fly by


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yeah i agree...read the miscarriage forum as well.. but yeah its harder to relax and enjoy the second time isnt it.. I had a missed m/c at 12 weeks in feb so i know how you feel!
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Congrats Kisrty Goodluck for the rest of your pregnancy


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I'm due 16th May too so Wow - a due-date-twin!
Huge congrats! Come and join us in the May 2008 mums to be forum!
    
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I know how you feel, Its harder to relax after you have had a m/c, my partner and I lost our first pregnancy in July and got pregnant again about 3 cycles later I think, but I was really scared up until 12 weeks, and now I can feel our baby move and my partner felt it kick his hand the other day!
I havent felt like Im replacing the baby we lost, just felt scared about losing this one aswell. Dont feel guilty about being pregnant again, you have done nothing wrong
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