TMI !!!! you have been warned LOL

I am probably looking way too much into this but was curious and cant help but ask.

Does it matter if you goto the toilet after BDing and some of the *stuff* comes out? or are you supposed to stay lying with it (as sticky and icky as it may get)

And does it make a difference if they ummm stay in you? Or pull out straight after "releasing".

Stupid questions probably i know LOL

I have read that it is best not to go to the toliet after you BD because you will pee out all the sperm and that will make it harder to get pregnant

Lots of people suggest lying with your legs up a wall after for like 20-30 mins just to give the swimmers the best chance of getting where they need to go.

I vouch for this and as you can see my result is over a year old now

I stayed lying down with my hips elevated for 10 mins or so trying not to let anything come out.

I've heard that any sperm that are going to make it into the uterus will have done so within 20 mins - anything that 'leaks' isn't extra as such, just those that went in the wrong direction etc! Apparently only a small percentage make it into the uterus anyway, and even fewer make it to a fallopian tube, and only half of those go to the correct tube!
Wishin, re not leaking - how's this for strange: sometimes I leak, sometimes like you - nothing. I've even asked DH if he was faking but he swears he wasn't.

Lol Ladies thanks for your input!! I love that i got feedback so fast aswel lol! Ive had times where nothing leaks and times when it does haha but maybe that has something to do with the size of their "load" ?? I think i will do the hips elevated thing though coz seems it has worked for a few of you!

Hehe, I used to lie on my back and hug my knees for 20 mins then go to the loo so I didn't get a bladder infection. Did the trick
Ummmm, I think we 'stayed together' for about 5 mins or so?? Man, it's been a while...

GOOD LUCK WITH MAKING A BABY!!!!!!

I go to the loo afterwards every time, I just can't seem to not, and there's plenty of excess. I have heard the advice about UTIs as well.

Well I read somewhere you're supposed to put your legs up in the air (like when you do 'candlstands" as a kid) and then move your legs in a cycling motion to help mover everything down.
Everytime I try this DP wets himself laughing and pushes me over.
But other than that I usually jump up and go straight to the loo due to horrendous UTI's over the years.
Still waiting to get BFP though so can't say if it's worked or not.

I have been reading somewhere that staying for at least 20mins with pillow under hips etc, letting him stay in until he soft so it doesnt work like a plunger when still hard and if at all poss having a 2hour nap afterwards......
They also say to stay as still as poss so your muscles dont contract and push the fluid south and to try to not laugh or cough etc as well.

I also watched a documentary once about the human body that said the fluid (sperm)is designed to stay thick enough to give the swimmers a chance to make it through the suicide course and then after 15mins it breaks down and will then head south. The fluid is just a transporting tool for the tadpoles

Ive been laying there for at least 40mins with pillow under hips (i put tv on so i not getting bored) just get a towel up between my legs to make sure i dont lose a drop and if i can just stay in bed for the night.........So because of this i am really tired because im having much later nights than i would normally. Oh and I hug my legs cos i just couldnt have my legs that high for so long.......and cant put on wall as i wouldnt be able to see TV...LOL

And since doing all of this i dont have as much escaping afterwards.......but when not in fertile zone, a i get a good blob that comes out if i stand up right after and go to the loo for clean up on isle 9